I get what you're saying about the 2 convos issue. That's why I said "NOT saying that it is TRIGGERED like a man's.....". I was actually thinking that this should have been clarified further to mean not triggered, not graduated (ie a graph showing a woman's sexual arousal level over time and circumstance, when in the presence of the right man, would probably be FAR more complex than the one for a man
), etc etc. Totally agree. In fact, one of the many diamonds in the rough that I found during my perusal of PUA theory was that a man's sexual arousal is like an on/off switch (and we know what triggers the 'off' state), where a woman's is like a dimmer switch, and I find even this to be a gross oversimplification, based on my experiences. I agree totally with the different biology issue.
But I think this needs a little going into, 'cause I don't think it's quite that simple:
if the women are not really happening in terms of their sexual attractiveness, dress terribly, etc. etc. in the area, if that's what's there, the guys are all still going to bang them and be driven to bang them.."
In my opinion this effect is actually exaggerated by a false component of the male sex drive that is introduced by social programming that makes them believe that successfully seducing and banging chicks is the only indicator & purpose of masculinity. So to be accurate to the biology issue, i'd say we'd have to throw many of these cases out, as being somewhat corrupted.
And yet still I agree with you on the biology bit, as nothing i've said disproves that, but I think there's a little more to this: I have myself been in those situations before, and indeed I noticed myself getting massive boners by women that I would not have given the time of day for in my normal environment (and having this effect increased the longer I stay in that "desert"). BUT:
I also noticed that, apart from the cases that could be accounted for by my 'fraudulently exaggerrated socially programmed sex drive', many of the women arousing me, while not good looking by society's standards, were EMANATING SEXUALITY, they were still SEXUALLY APPEALING (just not in a good looks/nice ass way). And not all of them were nubile (great tits or ass despite a dog food face) either. But this is key: no totally unattractive (no sexual appeal whatsoever) woman, even in these environments, have ever attracted me, and I suspect (this could never be proven, I admit, because it's an extremity, and I freely admit I may be splitting hairs at this point) that even if I were stranded with ONE unappealing-on-all-levels woman, I would not be able to be aroused by her, even over time. Even if I were, I believe it would be due to some sexually appealing quality she had hidden or only showing in a miniscule way, that I could not see before my abundance was taken from me. ie as scarcity grows, I start to see what abundance made me take for granted. Could what I am describing be thought of as a sort of clearing away of the illusion in the absence of the availability of the ones who meet my programmed criteria? Who knows?
What further convinces me of this is two sisters that I run into in a shop that I frequent. One is fairly pretty, and with THE MOST ROCKIN' BODY I HAVE EVER SEEN. And she reaaaally accentuates it (short pants, tight shirt). She is also sexual beyond her body, ie something within her causes what I refer to as a 'ripening effect on her body' - I can't describe it beyond something that makes it seem like an inner sexuality is just trying to BURST out of her body. The other is slightly overweight, and her face, while not hideous, is faaaar from pretty. I chat casually with them when I see them (read: tease the fuck out of them - and they both have attitude, but in a totally cool way). The other day, I ran into the unattractive one, and we chatted as usual. But halfway through, I realised that I didn't just like her on a personality level, but actually wanted to fuck her far more than her sister.
[At this point, 'Grinus steps in and says "Mirror", and steps back out ]. While we chatted, I started looking into this, and realised that this so-called 'ripening effect' was even more potent with her! Seriously, I wanted to mangle her body in the most delicious ways! It's not personality augmentation either, as her sis (good looking one) is as cool in my opinion as she is (admittedly neither of them seem particularily deep, but this too is on equal levels).
Edit: Also, I don't think it was scarcity - I am pretty sure I ran into the usual number of "hot chicks" that day.
To reiterate, I don't disagree with what you posted, just expanding on some omissions.
And yes - my drives ARE different to most men, making what I say irrelevant for almost everybody - it always has been (even in my hormonal teens and '20's) very easy for me to get turned off PHYSICALLY by an attractive woman with an awful personality (as an example one chick, frustrated with my continued rebuttal of her advances, started giving me a handjob (I was around 23) and I couldn't get it up - I hated her guts; this woman was a real cunt. This also tells me that the situation with the sisters above is not entirely due to my growing maturity). But I think it does provide some added perspective in the broader picture.
Sorry about the long post and hair splitting....