Natural Freedom

The Secret To Never Being Rejected by Women\ by Cameron Teone

How To Get Girls Without Ever Being Rejected Again!

Have you ever had a moment where you felt rejected and ashamed? Where there were butterflies in your stomach and you walked away with your head hanging low feeling like you were going to projectile vomit from the shame of being rejected by that girl you liked? You felt like a total loser.

Remember what a piece of shit you felt like? Well, you never have to be rejected ever again. With my new system, you’ll never have that shame.

And if you send me 500 Dollars right now, I’ll share my inner most secrets, only held for my inner-sanctum club members who must sign an affidavit that they’ll never share this information with anyone again.

I bet you have seen that catchy headline in big bold letters before, haven’t ya? Quite frankly, some dating gurus do believe in that. (I’ll get to that later)

So then, how about Never Ever Being Rejected Again?

Guess what?

It’s bullshit.

Yep. Sorry, I’m the one who has to burst that bubble, but you’ve gotta admit you were a bit of a sucker for believing that headline to begin with. Before I discuss the dating aspect of all of this, you’ve got to wonder:

How did our society come to be this way?

Regardless of who you are, somewhere, sometime, you’re going to have to deal with rejection.

I want to share a story...

Several years back, I came across a girl at a house party who was a cocktail waitress. She has just moved to Los Angeles from Las Vegas. She had various tales of working in one of the hottest Casinos in Vegas. However, there was one particular story that shared three different times!
Her claim to fame, the story she liked to repeat, was that while working at the Bellagio casino in Vegas, Matt Damon had hit on her.

“Did you go out with him? What happened?” People curiously wondered. Inquiring minds wanted to know. I mean, it’s motherf**king Matt Damon. Do tell!

To which she proudly and boastfully replied with a particular roar:

“NO way!! He is so not my type”

I know! I am with you! Chances are your initial reactions were similar to mine!

Your initial gut reaction is to think “WTF? Matt Damon wouldn’t use your hair to wipe his ass if he were fresh out of toilet paper after engorging for 3 hours at the Bellagio buffet.”

Then you have to allow cooler heads to prevail and realize that this is a statement born out of insecurity. One that she had to repeat constantly and then mention on top of it that he was not her type made her feel better somehow.

It dawned on me at some point that she received more gratification from having rejected Mr. Damon than had she gone out on a date, (or perhaps just to his room for a shag.) Now, she can be boast about having rejected Matt Damon. A lot of girls may talk about having slept with him, but how many can proudly boast about rejecting him?

Yes, people’s psyche can be a bit screwed up. That’s not the point of this story....

The point is, at the end of the day, Matt Damon didn’t succeed in getting this girl. Really good looking, rich, international movie star with all of his hits in the” Ocean’s 11” and “Jason Bourne” trilogies didn’t get this girl.

Most guys reading this blog are NOT Matt Damon. Well, most guys in the world aren’t in terms of, let’s call it, “Bachelor Eligibility.” Point being, if it can happen to that dude, then it’s going to happen to everyone else as well. The key is: With what perspective do you look at it???

Well, sometimes, I like to speculate. Right about now, I am speculating that what Matt Damon probably did NOT do is run to his suite at that famous Vegas Hotel and order a “Never Be Rejected Again” product by scam–marketers on the Internet.

Trying to eliminate all rejection before ever stepping out is, not only impractical, but it’s a bit shameful. Fact of the matter is there will be times, where for whatever reason, you may be turned down. As I mentioned earlier, it may not even be by a person or a dating situation.

It happens man. You go on a job interview and you don’t get a job offer. You were by far the best candidate and the job went to someone the hiring manager knew personally. A bit of nepotism at work.

It happens. So what? Trying to live life so you can never fail is a weird proposition. Not to mention most of the guys who advocate this type of behavior would never have your back in a fight. I have no respect for that.

The fact of the matter is almost everyone experiences set backs. It’s the resilient who keep pushing forward, and we are talking about far outside the scope of dating here. You see it in business, politics, and sports, everywhere…

It’s extremely prevalent in sports. Many times, sports are a microcosm of life. How many times have you seen a sports team or an athlete fall short only to get back up to try again?

Now, in the dating world, different guys have different methods. I’ve had friends who hand women a business card and if she is interested, she can call them. (There is a way to set this up properly). Even then, they are a lot female card-recipients who’ll never call. Others may say, “I’m going to social event XYZ. Come join us.” She may or may not show.

Is that a straight forward rejection? Perhaps not, but it’s still a “Not all that interested” signal.

What does it mean? Nothing really, outside of at this point in time, for reasons we don’t really know, she is not interested.

In the same manner, YOU may not be interested in a woman. It may be her physical appearance, it may be her personality, or maybe you can’t stand dumb girls. It doesn’t matter. As far as she can tell, you’re not interested in seriously dating her. A random individual could read the above and says, “No duh. That’s common sense.“ He’d be right. It is common sense, and yet that seems to elude so many who seem to come down with a serious case of cognitive dissonance when it comes to dating and women. Their logical circuitry is completely overwhelmed by their emotional zeal to discover a new method where it can lessen the burden of rejection.

No one really likes rejection. Some people are more sensitive to it than others. Part of it is life experience, and part of it is how your brain processes information

People are writing these (Never Be Rejected Again) headlines are

Full of shit
Assuming that you’re a total pussy
That you are a sucker who’ll believe anything.
They might as well sell you a book/dvd on how to contact the tooth fairy and Santa Clause.

Some girls are not going to be interested for a wide variety of reasons. Instead of working on becoming more attractive by being more appealing engaging and interesting in general, men, get lost in the magical kingdom of trying to never be rejected again.

I got rejected by 6 girls

I got rejected by 4 more girls

Herein lies the issue.

sorry I don't get it Grinus

Keeping score my man.

No.

The motivations, and the observation skill.

Where's the observation abilities so much talked here?
How much do you need to convince a willing buyer, to actually buy you something they want? You just have to give them the space to actually make the decision.

However some guys seem to really play a game of chess w it- analyze her every move and so on - as long as whatever you are doing works for you and you enjoy it. I think some personality types might enjoy that, but I know I don't !!

Let them analyze your every move and try to figure you out.

I learned it from Kidd. Gotta give credit where credit is due

you have better things to do, like fuck the bitches that do want you.

And play Xbox

Lol word!