Here is something I talked about with David H. via email:
We have two sides in our sexuality:
the side that wants to connect with a woman naturaly (connect with the shakati energy) and have sex as a byproduct of the great connection and synergy with the shakati.
And the 'animal instinct' who sees a woman and thinks about what we would love do to her (the side who just wants to bang.....-'animal instinct'). We have that side in us weather we want to accept it or not.....
So, there is the old saying: 'what you resist persists'. When I was resisting that side in me
I was really horny and wanted to bang more. But once I stopped resisting it, it no longer had any power over me. So if I see a woman and I think about how much I'd love to 'do her' and I don't try to resist it-it goes away by itself.
However, I don't want to nurture that side. I'm not going to resist it or pretend it isn't there but I would rather nurture the more pure side of finding one woman in which I have good connection with and have sex with her as a byproduct of our intimate relationship.
And why?
not because of religion or feeling bad about sex but because I believe that sexual energy is a very powerful force and should not be wasted on random women.
I think that by spending your 'life force' on women in which you don't have real connection with will hurt your life force or drain some of your life energy.
I can't prove it of course but this is just how I feel....
I think that the old masters who understood the laws of the universe knew this and that's why religions talks about not spreading your sperm for nothing.
It's true that the way religion is scaring people today and making them feel shame about sex is all wrong. But there are no masters today like Jesus who can really explain why the rules of religion are like this and what is the idea behind it......
Sex is something that is supposed to be between you and the woman- the fact that in the social reality it's all over the place doesn't mean it's in coordinate with the universal laws....
That's what I feel anyway and why I'll use my sexual energy on a woman in which I have real connection and synergy with.
I'd love to hear your thought guys.....