Sir Michael: BULLLLSHIIITTT. I'm sorry but that's total bullshit what you are saying. You have a belief system which you are currently locked in, and can't see a way out. That's fine, but you are speaking as if it's "reality" and it's not. It's your reality you just haven't realized that yet. Have we all felt that way - sure? Does it do any good to change your reality, absolutely not. Can you change it instantly - probably not. But can you change it most definitely, but it requires work and consistent development. You haven't yet put the work in.
You see - most people think that a belief is a statement in language, but I assure you it is not. It is something you feel and experience deeply, it goes well beyond words.
You say you have changed your beliefs, well I say you haven't. How do I know? All I have to do is read your words and your beliefs pop out at me like a 3d-movie.
You just think you have changed beliefs. But what you don't see is that beliefs are a way to shape reality and create or manifest what you want in the world. Are there limitations? Sure, but in this arena the limitations are very much limited by WHAT YOU BELIEVE. We're not talking about walking on the moon here, we're talking about being with women.
I could give you examples all day long of people that have transformed there lives using belief and focusing on what they want, but often times it took years. Can it happen sooner? Sure, but that depends on how bad you want it, and if you are willing to stop at nothing to get it. You simply lack focus, it's that simple. You have not yet learned to focus your mind, energy, heart in such a way to do this. It is not easy, but once you learn how to do it, it only gets easier and easier. Bill Harris is one of my best teachers around this, as well as Mark Ivar Myhre (thanks Shay
) - even Cory Skyy is helping me as of late. And there are many others, just look and you will see...
I am a classic case of an introvert who has gotten control of his dating life. Two men were mentioned here by Shay. Cory Skyy may be an extrovert, but Paul Janka, certainly is an introvert. I wouldn't consider him very personable at all. Being a ladies man has less to do with extravert or introvert. It has everything to do with being a man who knows what he wants and stay committed to getting what he wants in the face of adversity.
You are also currently throwing a temper tantrum, much like a little boy, and that makes it even harder for you to change - "I don't wanna". And most certainly women don't wanna be with boy they want a man. I should know, I was broken up with once by a woman who said I acted like a little boy at times. You know what - she was right. But that was long ago.
You want quit too - then I say quit, nobody really cares but you. Your time is better spent on other projects and developing your life I'm sure. But I'll bet you'll be back! If not here then somewhere else in your life in regards to women.
Create - I say more power to you. Getting off forums is certainly what many guys need to do. I think NG is BS most part too, I actually think it's better to go and change your beliefs with other techniques and use "social" videos and what the reactions in your body as a guide to see where you're at. But if you're going to go into the world thinking that only Gina "gets it" you're wrong my friend and you know it. It's you that doesn't get it. Whenever you think the world is to blame, it's you who are to blame. The world reflects back what you put out. But best of luck.