( fyi I dont really care about the outcome just committed to the process of improvement and having fun with it
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If it's fun for you and you don't care, then we can assume that you have experimented with all different types of approaches when these scenarios have been presented to you? What have your results been?
Hey Flow yes i have experimented a lot these have been my results.
If I am out and about consciously looking for opportunities to talk to women even if Im coming from a relatively good place internally it inevitably turns into a search for a certain outcome. Usually in this case I will get out of my way to go into interactions solely because the woman is attractive and try to steer convo to a certain outcome. usually they can "feel" almost like I am trying to get something from them; the interaction will usually not go well regardless of what approach I take.
If I am generally out doing my daily tasks"man on mission" not thinking about women and generally just holding a carefree friendly vibe. I tend to find strangely enough the women i see that I am genuinely attracted to somehow end up walking in the same path as me,sitting next to me or placing some very obvious cue I can pick up from. Almost like the universe literally hands it to me.
I remember during my coaching with cory skyy he mentioned the law of attraction and how when he sees a girl he wants he just "knows"they will meet. He has this strong belief and it works.
There have been several times for instance I would be in the train and see a girl i find genuinely attractive. Rather than run up or try and talk to her I will just kick back relax and have faith that "if its meant to be we will cross paths for sure."
I keep reading my book or whatever and guess what she comes off at the exact same stop as me
Not only that as I walk outside the station she happens to walk in same direction as me and in a conveniently slow pace where I could easily say hey
Usually in these cases because Its so natural and I am generally very chilled convo flows well. Ive had girls take my number, invite me out,take them straight to coffee, bar or even just enjoy a nice long chat and walk.
Its one of those concepts that is hard to get around. I guess all these things we are attracted to or want are supposed to freely flow into our lives but we block them out through doubt, limiting beliefs and attachment to outcome. Hence LET IT GO