I know I usually praised books and films that were not that good (Bulworth comes to mind), so I won't praise him, I'll quote it as I did Chinweizu.
COZ THIS BOOK IS ONE OF THE BEST !!!!!!!! (that's all I'll say to praise him - THANKS ahk (if he still comes to the forum))
Now, some quotes (Only chapter 1, in order of apparition).
Table of contents :
Chapter 1. First Thing’s First
Keep in mind this is not a synopsis of first chapter and definitly DOES NOT prevent anyone reading the whole thing (and most of you guys will probably want to read it more than just once anyways).
The Matrix, or a System of Illusions 1
A Map of the Real World 6
The Firmware 11
Male and Female. The Birds and the Bees – Take Two 13
Basic Instinct 17
The Life Cycle and the Male Hierarchy 18
The Life Cycle and the Female Hierarchy 21
Chapter 2. The Formula for Love
An Algorithm 32
The Sexual Hunt 32
Preliminary Testing Mode 34
The Lure 42
Domination, Reverse Domination, and the Love Cycle 52
Why Women Cheat 56
Chapter 3. The Free Sexual Marketplace
Hierarchy, Sex, and Money 59
Sex as a Commodity 60
The Friend Zone 68
The Sexual Showroom 70
The Culture of Sexual Provocation 71
The Free Sexual Marketplace and Society 76
Chapter 4. How Women Control Men
The Human Female’s Interactions with Various Males 79
TThe Double Standard 85
Collective Female Solidarity 86
Women’s Logic 88
Creating a Guilt Complex 91
Creating an Inferiority Complex 97
Women’s Psychological Combat Tactics 102
Sexual Blackmail 110
Emotional Terror 112
Blackmailing with Break-up or Divorce 114
Employers and Women Joining Forces to Exploit Men 115
Relationship Planning 116
Craving and Displaying Power 117
Forming Public Opinion and Demonstrating the Relationship as
a Means of Power
Surrogate Men 120
The Trick of “I’ve Got a Headache (or My Leg Hurts, or My
Back, or My Butt, or Whatever),” “I’m Tired.”
Seizing and Marking Territory and Resources 121
Power-Seizing Techniques of the “Puppet Master” Type 122
Smart Women 124
Defending Yourself against Manipulation 126
Chapter 5. Men
It’s a Man’s World? 131
Men through Women’s Eyes 136
Lines of Destiny 141
Man and his Offspring 146
Chapter 6. How the Sexes Can Work Together
Men and Women as Partners. 150
The Family 155
Traditional Marriage 161
Partnership Marriage 163
Parasitic Marriage (Amateur Prostitution) 164Chapter 7. The War of the Sexes
Failed Females 168
The Strategy of the War of the Sexes 172
The Tactics of the War of the Sexes 173
Increasing the Size of Sexual Minority Groups 176
Breaking up Existing Couples and Families 177
Destroying Mankind’s Reproductive Function 179
Feminism and Normal Women 184
Feminism and Power 185
Chapter 8. Control over the Situation
Happiness and the Meaning of Life 189
Happiness Formed by the Hierarchical and Reproductive
Happiness Formed by the Territorial and Construction
Strategic Planning for a Man’s Life 195
Sex as a Commodity 198
How to Relate to Women 200
How to Interact with a Woman 206
How to Pick a Woman 211
Chapter 1. FIRST THING’S FIRST
The Matrix, or a System of Illusions.
First of all, let’s divide the problems people have into two groups – the ones that can be
solved, and the ones that can’t.
If we have
problems with our car, we take it to the shop, and the mechanics solve our car trouble. If we have a
problem with our computer, well, there are specialists who can help us with that too. The same can
be said about any issue we might have other than those having to do with people. In all of these
examples our problems are entirely controllable.
And yet we can see that there are some men who have complete control over their personal lives. Women are crazy about them and can’t wait to bear them children.
So what’s their secret?
We can try to ask these lucky men for advice and follow their example, but for some reason
their methods just don’t work for us. Comprehensible and effective books about how to establish a
happy personal life are virtually nonexistent.
How can we make sense of all this?
We all have the feeling that something about this world just isn’t right. We look for
happiness, peace, love, and the meaning of life, but we never find them. Sometimes it seems like
we’ve found something, but then suddenly it’s gone, and our happiness turns out to be a mirage.
We don’t even understand what we’re working for, what we’re living for. We hear
everywhere that this is just “the way it’s supposed to be,” and in the end start to believe it.
They tell us that happiness can be found in a family and children. So we get married. We
marry a woman who then goes on to create an atmosphere in our home that we find psychologically
unbearable. Eventually we can’t take it anymore, so we get divorced, losing our family and
everything we’ve put into it. What’s more, we lose the last shreds of the illusions that kept us going.
In the end, all we end up with are worries, expenses, a drinking problem, an inferiority complex, and
massive financial woes, but no happiness. Marriage turns out to be nothing more than a fraud.
They tell us that happiness can be found in love, but all love really gives us is a little bit of
pleasure followed by a metric ton of worry, loss, and the pain of separation. More often than not,
what we thought was love turns out to be nothing more than amateur prostitution.
The fact of the matter is that your
parents and teachers have crammed you full of what is, quite simply, false, illusory information about
relationships with people in general and women in particular. I’m offering you an opportunity to free
yourself from these illusions and replace them with the true knowledge about relationships you so
If you can’t fix a problem with your computer or your car, there can be only one reason:
neither you nor the people around you have the experience and knowledge (information) necessary to
solve the problem. The same rule applies to problems in your personal life. If those problems haven’t
been solved yet, it’s because you don’t have access to any real experts. This proves that the
information your parents and teachers have given you about happiness, love, and relationships istotally useless. So forget everything you know about love, happiness, and relationships, because it’s
all bullshit. I’m going to tell you about the real mechanisms behind these relationships. If you can free
your mind from false, illusory assumptions, I can fill it up again with the information you need.
A Map of the Real World
Just like with any other sphere of knowledge, learning how to take control of the situation
starts with mastering the theory.
Don’t worry, we’re not going to delve too deeply into the scientific jungle, but we
need to know the theoretical basics – it can’t be helped. Otherwise you won’t understand anything,
and you won’t learn how to take control of your own happiness. You see, in order to control your
happiness, you need to know exactly what it is, what makes it tick, where it comes from. All I ask is
that you have a little patience and read this chapter as carefully as possible. I should mention that this
guide is meant to be as efficient a tool as possible, which means that a number of things have been
skipped over or heavily simplified. That’s why I would advise anyone looking for a deeper, more
detailed study of all the aspects of relationships between men and women turn to professional
treatises on ethology.
A word of warning: whatever you do, DO NOT discuss the contents of this book with
women. This includes women you consider close. Most of what you’ll find in this book is information
that women either do their best to hide from men or are themselves oblivious to. If you try to talk to
them about this stuff, you’ll be rewarded with nothing but accusations of chauvinism, hurt feelings,
and other kinds of aggressive female behavior. If you want to discuss the book with other men, that’s
fine – but wait until you’ve read the whole thing.
Once we know what makes human beings tick, it’ll be a lot easier to understand and control the
finer points of relationships. It’ll be just as simple as driving a car.
Obviously, a relationship is the sum total of the
behaviors two people toward one another. And a person’s behavior is a series of commands given to
the body by the brain, which is like a human being’s onboard computer. This means that, in order to
understand relationships with women, we need to figure out this computer’s operating system.
The programs hardwired into our brains can also be called instincts.
If you perform the action in question, your instinct will reward you with pleasure (positive emotions).
However, if you don’t obey instinct’s commands, it’ll punish you with displeasure (negative emotions).
Pleasure is what the computer’s subroutines reward us with for obeying its minor demands. Happiness, on the other hand, is a big, strategic pleasure that our operating system gives us for strategic success in life. It’s a reward for attaining a strategic goal. So what is this goal, what is success? I’ll tell you in just a little bit.
You can’t solve the problem by running away from real life (into the world
of illusions, games, and virtual spaces).
All of this happens subconsciously, automatically, without any participation by the intellect.
In general, the intellect can never play anything more than a supporting role.
The more powerful and developed someone’s intellect
is, the more effectively he can neutralize instincts that create dangerous motivations. We call these
people “rational,” or sometimes “a pain in the ass,” and say they’re disciplined and can control their
emotions. The weaker a person’s intellect, the harder it is for him to fight his desires, and the closer
he is to other animals. We call these people “emotional,” “impulsive,” “eccentric,” or “stupid.”
Let’s take a look at the most basic instincts:
- Reproduction (also known simply as the sex drive).
We can see that men and women have very little in common. They’re two very different
organisms with different purposes.
The powerful brain of a creator and hunter needs logic to
understand the behavior of his prey and the structure of the world around him. This is why a man can
think logically. He needs to be able to understand mechanisms, reasons, and consequences. He needs
a profound understanding of connections in order to take control of the situation. He needs a chart for
the structure of the world, and, as long as he has that chart, he’s very effective. Therein lays his
strength. If he doesn’t have a real chart, he makes do with the one he’s been given. Therein lays hisweakness. This is why men so often conduct their affairs on the basis of genuine religious
convictions, ideologies, ideas, morality, and other charts, including illusory ones.
A woman’s brain is small, and it’s the brain of an opportunist. This is why a woman has no
need for charts and can always see the world the way it really is. Therein lays her strength. But she
sees the world only superficially, without making connections. She can’t construct logical chains or
predict consequences, so she easily gets entangled in her own emotions and desires. Therein lays her
weakness. This is why she sees ideas, morality, and religion either as obstacles to the realization of
her own immediate desires or as instruments for that realization. And she only accepts the parts of
these charts that are of use to her.
So, reader, you’ve found yourself on the threshold of understanding the logic and structure of
the human world. This chart is the key to understanding not just relationships between men and
women, but also the human world in general.
I used so many quotes of The first chapter as a hook, and not so much a spoiler (all these quotes are in the first 15 pages out of 130+) MANY MORE GEMS TO COME.
I will read it again and might post (in the next week or so) good One liners too