nice, let me share something.
when I first started natural grounding I thought that I could turn women in my area code into natural women. When I didn't succeed in doing so, I thought it's my fault: I'm not grounded enough so I can't bring out the natural character out of most women I meet.
Later I got 'sober' and said to myself:
women in my country grow up too difffernt from women in let's say: 'Thailand' so most of them will not turn into Palmys no matter how hard I try to bring out their natural character or how much grounded I am....
So at that point I stopped trying and said: women that want to show me their natural character- cool
. Women that wish to stay closed off, cold or act bitchy- it's there issue.
I'm not trying or wasting my time with them.
That was the first step to indifference and there is more to come. I still have not reached indifference but I'm working on it....