Bringing this thread to life again.
self·ish
adjective \ˈsel-fish\:
having or showing concern only for yourself and not for the needs or feelings of other people
I don't view myself as a selfish individual.
I take care of my owns needs first, then share the remaining space with people I enjoy being with.
That's not selfish too me, that's more like an individual with a healthy foundation and mindset.
When my dad calls me selfish...but I'm tired of being made out to feel like the most selfish person in the world.
My mom did the same to me at a young age. She'll try it once and a while now, but it doesn't have much of an effect on me. She senses that and doesn't use it as much.
She had good intentions with:
thinking of others as well.
She only went a little overboard with it and used the wrong method to instill that view.
There's also a reason why I viewed my mom as having an unbalanced self-esteem. She relied on others more than herself, as well as focusing too much on others. She was being "self-less" without being selfless; Ego trip.
She also had many other variables and experiences that made her who she was and is today.
Can't know everything about a person.
I've got luvz for my mom. She was there for me since day 1. Can't say that about too many people.
That being said, that love doesn't go over heaven and hell.
"Treat people accordingly" still stands.
So telling that the teacher would share that with YOU.
Nice analysis Merrick, didn't see that.
I'm sorry but I don't understand what you mean there, that I was supposed to hear it ?
That he sees that you are having issues, that you gotta be careful/ have to learn not to rely & depend (emotionally) on someone other than yourself (girlfriend). He made the possible consequences pretty clear.
Imagine he just made your doppelgänger up.
Nice analysis Merrick, didn't catch that.