Natural Freedom

Been trying to workout and i noticed the days i work out i feel good and more women check me out. Even had a chick who works at the gym gaze into my eyes when i looked at her and didn't flinch.I have continued to do observation the last couple week and have noticed that i have been getting more looks.Thoughts that help me when i feel like i am in Flow are "If i never get laid again it doesnt matter, i can still have fun" and changing my story to "each day the more i workout the more people take notice of me".Anyways, last night i went out to the club and just for experiment sake i said let me try to step into the matrix and fuck with these girls heads.I asked this one chick who is getting attention from all the guys(they were also buying her drinks) to buy me a drink and she says why should i buy you a drink?I tell her that women buy me drinks all the time..She says "you are not that cute.I mean you are cute but your not that cute".I admit i was a little thrown off by this and it bruised my ego a bit.Why did she have to bring up my looks when i ask her to buy me a drink??I don't understand why she would make the assumption that only guys who are 9's or 10's get drinks offered to them.I know for a fact that the reason she didn't but me a drink wasn't my looks that because i later saw her talking to some dudes who were not as good looking as me, so i asked myself what was it.I later realized that i did not have the vibe of contentment that night.I have noticed that i get bits and pieces of it then i lose it and then it comes back again.I understand that it is a process that takes time and it won't happen overtime.

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GMST

Space isn't preached around here for nothing.. You went against it and took the initiative to fill it yourself. Therefore, you already knew the consequences beforehand and you passively reaped them.

Besides, if she wasn't blatantly jocking you and you just stepped over, you were asking for it.

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And what is fear of need but need itself?

The general rule is to put them in a position of coming to you. They don't actually have to walk over either use your gut.

Do I think about hot women all the time? Nope, but when I go out once a month or whatever ill flirt with girls and such stuff that you guys would consider filling the space but the space on the important levels remains.

Do what it takes to get past security...then do your thing

In terms of that girl. That was designed to hurt your ego, and you fell for it if she said that to me I'd be like lol

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

"Space isn't preached around here for nothing.. You went against it and took the initiative to fill it yourself. Therefore, you already knew the consequences beforehand and you passively reaped them.

Besides, if she wasn't blatantly jocking you and you just stepped over, you were asking for it."

Yeah actually she tested me by asking me to smell her drink and i was trying to test her back by asking her to buy me a drink.I was trying to show her that i am not that easy like the rest of the guys giving her attention.Verbal sparring is not my strong point,i think it is something that will naturally come from working on having a vibe of contentment and you're right it wasn't obvious that she was jocking me, next time i will stick to only the ones that do.

Because your extending instead of reacting

Your attached to the image you present in an in uncalibrated way...you care too much

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Exactly, i was attached to the outcome.That night, I was trying to be staunch and exploit the matrix with the goal of getting in the girls pants when instead i should just have fun seeing the matrix for what it is WITHOUT goal of getting laid or getting even a positive response. I releazie that what is preached her is not saying the right words but having the right energy and vibe.I think another member on this forum said in one of his posts how would you live your life if you never got laid again?..Unlike the previous time when i went out with that mentality just to have fun and enjoy myself(women eventually started eyeing me and dancing next to me as a byproduct) regardless of what happens,i think that night i strayed away from that concept and reverted back to my old habits.
*whoops just realized i posted under a wrong account

She threw you a bone here.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

I have been noticing lately that some women are getting upset with me at the club where i am just standing and observing people and not trying to dance with them or give them attention.They come right next to me as a group and start dancing and when i dont look at them directly i saw in the corner of my eye that one of them gave me a middle finger for no reason.Another time after the club was over i was at mcdonalds and i was behind a group of bitches waiting in line to order and i can tell their bitch shields are high.I am in my own zone amusing myself and one of the girls says "I dont like it when people whistle at night"referring to me.I just looked at her and shrugged my shoulders like i could care less.Then the bitch started shit with me for no reason..She called me a bitch and then i just stood there and smiled at her and she was like "ew,don't smile at me"..She goes to the bathroom comes back and asks tells me well did you order yet? I didnt give her an answer and then as the group walks to their table i say "I know you like me" she was like "no i wasn't..you are not even my type" and as i leave she talks more shit.I don't get why they start shit with me when i don't even do anything to them?.Anyone here feel free to chime in as to why women do this?I wanted to give her the finger,but didnt want to give her the satisfication of thinking she got into my head.

Cuz they see you and they're like:



En Then they're like: look at me caliboy85, I exist you indifferent piece of caliboy, tell me I exist, confirm it to me by giving me your attention (negative or positive I want some):



And they use to wear this kind of tshirs whetever they go, specially to night clubs because that's when they refill their jars of validation.

Also they are fillin' tha space you toy them with:



Aaand las but not least, they're using this shirt whetever they go:


Notice the small shirt they wear...

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GMST

It was her way of trying to combat your giving of space, and you won. If you would have given her the finger and let it show she got to you, she would have won by knowing she had an effect on you.

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Tch. Good thing he did win. It would have been pathetic if he had lost to a 12 year-old...

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“I learned this, at least, by my experiment; that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. . . ."

-Thoreau's Walden

I wonder what the common thread is with all of the above?
There is a real strong common thread here... can you see it caliboy..

Take this as though someone else had written it and read them in isolation from the rest of your text.

What was she trying to achieve?

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

She was trying to get me to react and i didn't react..Now if the rest of the symps would give her attention i am suprised that she didnt try to hook up with me(because it is more attractive to not chase) not that i was trying to attract her with pimp tightedness because i didn't care at the time but its just something i am curious about.