From my point of view, altough I might lack a certain amount of experience, it all comes down to who we are as men. Because I see how women react to me when I talk to them and I see how they react to authentic men. They get flirty, they get "natural" when there's an authentic, good man.
when they get to know to real men (which is very rare), they start to be excited and act like the girls in the videos, get flirty.
But with real men, and this is my opinion and has been approved in my experience, they get automatically to real flirty behaviour. No Voodoo, no Natural Grounding required...
Spot on Vegano.
They cannot help it. Your presence almost demands that they show it, it is drawn out of them. (I did write a post on here about this, cannot find it after a quick search, maybe someone remembers where it was)
Remember, the man LEADS. You are the stimulus, she is the response. By showing your true self, she is forced to show hers, she cannot help it, it comes out.
Quite a lot of the nasty bits men think about women are when the woman is fighting against this process, due to her upbringing and societal conditioning.. When she is 'testing' him to see if he is a real man or a fake one, she has to be sure you are in order to fully open up and blossom.
The other side of the coin is when she knows the man is not a man but a boy, then she has open season to rip him to shreds, as that side of her is not even mildly woken up. This is where a lot of guys get really hurt as they do not realise that she can see he is fake and pretending and she has nothing but contempt for him as he is not 'showing up as himself' but trying to trick her. He is another of the pretenders who disappoints her.