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ME without a doubt!
What is the meaning of this Kidd?! (seriously idk what that means)

Sounds like some reading and research is in order then...

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Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

*head nod in agreement*

Yeah I'll stick to commenting on things where I'm more familiar with the subject matter

On that note though, TheDude, you might also want to look at the "what was I supposed to do?" element - which to me suggests a paradigm that you HAVE to respond with something, and then it's about learning intellectually the 'right' thing to respond with.

Unfortunately, or fortunately depending on how you look at it, what you are actually feeling has a way of getting communicated no matter what you do. How to actually not FEEL invested, how to actually be indifferent enough to completely not get sucked in even when there are still trained voices saying 'but i might lose this,' and how to actually feel both powerful and happy no matter what happens is a completely different animal than learning what external things might convey that.

The very act of consciously trying to convey those things via 'what should I say' inherently is coming from a different place. I actually consider this to be the exact same energy as 'chasing girls' in different clothes pretending that it's not- like a 'how do i actively show her that i don't care RIGHT NOW'

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTXz8xMaJi4

Flow I completely agree with you on this. I hint traces of PUA lurking inside my mind still. And, I wasn't far off from asking you all "what should I text her". I'm glad this showed up, as it shows what I need to work on.

Simply text her "I am free tomorrow, come over and we'll fuck our way through this"

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GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL!

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I will do such a thing tomorrow an post back with results!

EDIT: I like that straight forward approach Pere!!

Just realized, I play my own mind games with myself and beat around the bush with girls and bigger picture in LIFE.

I'm a big in "pussy footin" around.

I deleted this manipulative chick from my phone. Feels empowering.

like your style

What are you going to do when she texts you back??

Manipulative? Isn't that all women?

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And what is fear of need but need itself?

I still don't think you're getting it Dude, you keep projectingt this vibe of "I need to strategize my way into indifference so I can get this girl". Not seeing the forest when you keep staring at the tree type of thing.

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Take it easy, man. But take it.

Yeah...I'm going to have to say that in this particular case, you manipulated YOURSELF.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

You guys see things I can't, but I feel it. That's the mentality of eating 5 years of pick-up.

Definitely. You should re-read this thread just to get an idea of how MANIC you appear to be...it's like you HAVE to be TRYING to do SOMETHING All THE TIME...can't sit still.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

Other people can notice things you can't because they're an objective observer (or, in some of the dude's cases on this forum, objective observers with serious knowledge and experience about what you're describing). Keep telling yourself that 5 years of pick-up fucked you over and it'll fuck you up for 50 more.

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Take it easy, man. But take it.

^^^Exactly.

Those days are over Mr.Dude.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

Somehow I doubt he sent that text.

Hence no text back.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.