Natural Freedom

I make scribbly diagrams that expose the cognitive processes behind hoe stuff (dating in the Western world) as well as other social, personal, and interpersonal phenomena. I reveal the unseen with colored pencils.

AI Summary :

## [00:01] Societal Collapse and Relationships

* Video introduction: The link between societal collapse and weakened relationships.
* A question is posed: Why is promiscuity considered bad?
* Introduction of a development psychology map to analyze the connection.


## [02:20] Society - Individualism vs. Collectivism

* Societal decline due to a shift from couple-oriented relationships to casual encounters.
* Introduction of contrasting models: Stable marriages vs. Casual flings.
* Negative consequences of the casual encounters model: unhappiness, lack of commitment, struggle to raise children.

## [04:25] Societal Development - Stages and Individualism

* Stages of societal development: From impulsive to individualistic.
* Importance of social norms for development: Following rules before breaking them.
* Dangers of skipping stages: Getting stuck in early development hinders societal progress.

## [07:09] Societal Development and Historical Cycles

* Focus on a specific societal development stage: Rules and Roles (control through faith and discipline).
* Historical context: Islamic world's experience with this stage and societal overcorrection.
* Importance of balance: Risks of going too far in feminine or masculine control of society.

## [09:41] Promiscuity and Societal Decline

* Negative consequences of casual relationships: Lack of commitment and social pressure to maintain relationships.
* Societal chaos due to absence of relationship guidelines: Breakups, unhappiness, and focus on individual gain.
* Men at a disadvantage in casual encounters: Less success in finding high-demand partners.

## [11:48] Promiscuity and Societal Decline (continued)

* Societal problems linked to increased promiscuity: Low birth rates, delayed marriage, mental health issues.
* Disadvantage of women in casual encounters: Idealistic expectations and difficulty finding suitable partners.
* Societal messaging as a contributing factor: Individualism and lack of emphasis on long-term benefits of relationships.

## [14:07] Detrimental Effects of Idealistic Relationship Expectations on Women

* Societal pressure and social media worsen unrealistic expectations in relationships for women.
* Idealistic expectations make it difficult to find suitable partners and lead to disappointment.
* Examples from social media highlight these unrealistic expectations and negative consequences.

## [16:36] Unrealistic Relationship Expectations and Unhealthy Attachment

* Choosing unavailable or toxic partners due to unrealistic expectations formed in past relationships.
* Difficulty moving on from past connections and comparing new partners to an idealized version of an ex.
* Social media portrays unrealistic relationship dynamics that worsen these problems.

Dear Every Feminist,

What you're referring to as "patriarchy" was actually "protecting you and taking care of you because you don't understand what the real world is because you have woman brain."

You didn't like it because your mind can't process things like "danger" and "consequences" until after they've already happened.

Most of you view reality as an appletini-flavored kitten playground by default, and all bad things that happen are because men made them happen. According to you, only men can make things happen. You know, like a child looks at a parent.

This is because we are your gods. Reality comes FROM men and happens TO women (according to you). You know, like worship. Also, everything you do is based on being more like us. Also like worship. Like how a kid wants to be his favorite sport star.

So when you see men neglecting to protect and provide for women now, it's because we used to do that until you started calling us evil and having us charged with crimes for it. You decided that our protection over you was actually harm towards people who are more important than us. Now it's not worth it anymore for more and more of us by the day.

So as men step back and let you play leader (which you will fail at because you don't know what the world is), more and more bad things will continue to happen to you, until you want us to stop them again.

The way you look to us right now is like you're playing checkers by moving the pieces according to the rules, and your opponent is playing checkers by stabbing you from across the board, and you respond by calling the police on ME for not teaching him checkers better.

You look absolutely insane to us because, again, you do not know what life is. You think life is yummy kindergarten puppy snuggles by default, and if anything bad ever happens, it is because MEN caused it. I must not have given your attacker enough checkers lessons! Because the only way anything can happen is through us, because, again, we are your gods.

So remember: men are not DOING bad things to you. You PUNISHED us for PREVENTING them. We WANTED to PROTECT you and you called it oppression! You badly damaged many of our lives for trying! A lot more than you'll ever understand!

It's not that you're dumb or inferior. It's that the vast majority of you simply can't process things like criminal justice or austerity because your minds are built for raising babies. Men think "that guy did a bad thing, lock him up," and feminists think "but that's my baby because he's stupid and helpless, so if we give him infinity love cookies, then he will grow all better. WHY AREN'T YOU GIVING MY BABY MORE COOKIES, ALMIGHTY ONE? THAT MEANS YOU ARE NOT THE GOOD GOD, SO YOU MUST BE THE BAD GOD!" (the educated will recognize this as BPD).

Good women are not women who think that they're more right than men about these things. A good woman is one who can say "this isn't my area" and trust her own men to make those decisions for her, just like good men trust women to decorate and listen carefully when you "get a feeling" about someone that you can't explain. It's your job to deal with feelings and it's our job to build and structure.

We don't have to be your gods (the source of every condition that happens to you and the model of what you should be). Most of us don't want to be.

You could just be women again. We can't do that for you. Believe it or not, your choices don't actually come from us!

Do you get it yet? Are you ready to rid yourself of the feminism psychosis? If you are, here's step 1:

Stop listening to people who don't care about you. Don't listen to them talk. At all. When you hear a tik tok or a TV show or a politician say something that gives you feelings, just ask yourself "does this person know who I am and love me?" Be serious about it, too. Your parents love you. Would Bernie Sanders sacrifice more for you than your parents would? Would the cranky tiktok feminist you're watching pick you up at the airport? If not, maybe you shouldn't start hating people who DO love you because of what your phone just said.

Start listening to people who actually care about you. Especially if they prove it! Once you realize how different the advice is that comes from people who love you and people who are just using you, it will go a long way to curing most of you of feminism.

You don't even have to admit that you were wrong! Just like... start behaving sane again. We'll act like nothing ever happened.