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I always thought that if you give your attention and get upset when they "poke" you, you lose. My attention was always expensive, I don't give it cheaply. I would like to know how you guys think about this.

Maybe this could be described with one word - confidence. When you believe in yourself and know that you are the shit then you got this "power". That's why we talked a lot about pimps and pimp tight mentality, those guys knew that they are the best, they didn't want to be nobody else.

She talks about showing anger and how attractive that is. These days I wonder if that trait is weakness or strength. I was planning to make a thread about that topic. Getting angry = emotional = not calm under pressure. I'm ok when you need to defend yourself but I was always kind of unresponsive, non reactive on provocations and many other stuff. I always thought that if you give your attention and get upset when they "poke" you, you lose. My attention was always expensive, I don't give it cheaply. I would like to know how you guys think about this.

it's just really being okay with yourself with all your feelings/flaws...

Regarding the comments on anger, watch her video on blindspots, then re-watch this one

I have trouble to describe it with words really

not every girl is going to choose me,
but there are more than enough that will.

The SHOCKING PRIMAL FANTASY at the BOTTOM of the VORTEX
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVMS_QG9ixc

Interesting way of exploring and communicating it

I'm also reminded of an insight. When your dog is agitated and nervous – barking and running around all the time seemingly for no reason – most likely it's because they don't know what you want them to do. The pressure of being in charge of themselves becomes too stressful for them, and similarly to women, a firm and calm direction enables them instead to let go, and snuggle up to your secure and comforting energy.

# Annexe 1: The Call Of The Void, Raw Male Masculinity

# Expert Technical Appendix: The Call of The Void and Raw Male Masculinity

This appendix provides a comprehensive analysis of the concepts of "The Call of The Void" and "Raw Male Masculinity" as derived exclusively from the provided textual corpus. It aims to synthesize and structure the information to offer a clear understanding of these terms, their characteristics, and their interconnectedness within the context of sexual and relational dynamics, as described by the sources.

## 1. The "Call of the Void" (The Vortex)

The "Call of the Void," also referred to as "the vortex," describes a powerful, often visceral, sexual attraction that women experience. It is characterized as a "pull down into the underworld" or a "pull into a submissive, more primal state of mind". This phenomenon is not merely about being "turned on," but feels like a literal "pull".

This "vortex" draws women into what is termed a "primal fantasyland", activating deep-seated primal fantasies and "submissive primal mating instincts" rooted in evolutionary heritage. The core elements of this primal fantasy include:
* Domination
* Ownership
* Control
* Aggression
* Safety
* Protection

The experience of this pull can be surprising and even met with outward rejection (e.g., calling a man "creepy"), despite an underlying secret attraction. It suggests that while women might consciously deny or camouflage these feelings, the primal pull remains potent. The intensity of this call can escalate, leading to an attraction for more intense BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) experiences, desiring interactions that are "rougher," "harder," "more humiliating," or "more degrading," and requiring a higher "volume on the dominance".

## 2. Characteristics of "Raw Male Masculinity"

"Raw male masculinity" refers to an inherently powerful and attractive energy or power that all men possess, though many may not know how to express it. This masculinity is described using terms such as:
* **Raw, Rough, Gritty:** It is "not watered down," "not commercialized," and often has a "dirtiness" to it that is considered erotic, real, and intense.
* **Powerful, Intense, Dangerous:** It is an "extremely powerful" energy that can be "intense," "scary," and carry a "real threat behind it".
* **Primal, Untamed, Wild:** It is connected to evolutionary and biological urges, akin to male animals in nature (e.g., lions, tigers, snow leopards). It's a "wild tiger" quality, untamed and electric.
* **Unbridled Expression:** It involves being in touch with one's anger, lust, and "dark side," and not being afraid to express these impulses in a safe, controlled, and consensual way. This contrasts with societal pressures for men to be "nice guys" or suppress their emotions.
* **Dominant & Aggressive:** It manifests as a capacity for aggression and physical force, a desire to lead, control, and take the driver's seat. This can include rough physical acts in a sexual context, like pushing someone against a wall.
* **Confident & Capable:** It implies being an "alpha" leader, confident, competent, and capable of defending oneself and others. It also involves not being a "people pleaser" and pursuing what one wants.

While it encompasses physical strength, raw masculinity is not solely defined by physique. It is an inherent "masculine essence" that every man possesses, even if not outwardly apparent.

## 3. The Female Response to Raw Male Masculinity

Women are strongly attracted to raw male masculinity, experiencing it as a powerful, instinctual draw. This attraction is often described as primal and rooted in biological urges, observed across the animal kingdom.

Key aspects of this female response include:
* **Craving Dominance and Power:** Women crave the "strength, power, and masculinity of men". This desire is fundamental and often manifests as wanting a man who is "dominant," "controlling," and "aggressive".
* **Primal Fantasies:** The "Call of the Void" pulls women into primal fantasies centered on themes of domination, ownership, control, and aggression. This includes a desire for "rough sex" and BDSM elements.
* **Feeling of (Un)Safety:** While seeking protection and safety is a primal fantasy, the sexual attraction to raw masculinity can paradoxically involve a desire to feel "unsafe" in a thrilling way, appreciating the man's strength and power without actual harm.
* **Emotional and Sexual Activation:** The display of raw masculine power "activates something really Primal" in women, leading to feelings described as an "inner smile," feeling "fun," "good," and intensely "hot". It can trigger a visceral reaction beyond conscious understanding.
* **Societal Conflict and Hidden Desires:** Society often stigmatizes or "vilifies" male primal sexuality, and men are frequently conditioned to suppress these traits. Women may also internalize shame about their own primal desires, leading them to deny or camouflage their attraction to raw masculinity. However, the widespread success of narratives like *Fifty Shades of Grey* demonstrates that these "dark sexual drives" are prevalent. Women often want men to discover and express this raw power themselves, rather than being "babied" or given a "cheat code". In modern society, the bedroom is sometimes seen as the only acceptable space for this extreme masculine-feminine polarity to be expressed.

## Conclusion

"The Call of The Void" represents a profound, often subconscious, pull experienced by women towards "raw male masculinity." This masculinity is characterized by primal attributes such as strength, dominance, aggression, unfiltered honesty, and an unapologetic, untamed sexuality. While societal norms may encourage men to suppress these traits and women to deny their attraction to them, the provided documents consistently highlight that these raw masculine qualities trigger deep-seated primal fantasies in women, centering on themes of control, protection, and intense sexual passion. The "vortex" symbolizes this instinctual draw, often leading to a desire for BDSM and a visceral appreciation of a man's unbridled power, even if outwardly disavowed.