Hi all.
TLDR : I put recommended books in
https://notebooklm.google.com/ (Not Kidd one, even though I have it, I prefer not to

)
Anatomy_of_Female_Power-Chinweizu.txt
Andey-Randead_Great_Female_Con-Inconnu-e.txt
Beyond_My_Control_Forbidden_Fantasies_in-Nancy_Friday.txt
Delusion_Damage.txt
Men,_It_s_Your_Fault-Patrice_O_neal.txt
Men_In_Love-Nancy_Friday-2.txt
Men_In_Love-Nancy_Friday.txt
My_Secret_Garden-Nancy_Friday.txt
On_Women-Arthur_Schopenhauer.txt
Patrice_O_neal-Speak_Fluent_men.txt
Sperm_Wars-Robin_Baker.txt
THE_RED_QUEEN-Matt_Ridley.txt
The_Male_Advantage_Why_women_cant_resist_t-Kris_Sturmey.txt
The_Manipulated_Man-Esther_Vilar.txt
The_Misandry_Bubble.txt
The_Polygamous_Sex-Esther_Vilar.txt
The_Power_of_Beauty_Our_Looks,_Our_Lives-Nancy_Friday-2.txt
The_Power_of_Beauty_Our_Looks,_Our_Lives-Nancy_Friday.txt
The_Unplugged_Alpha_The_No_Bullsh_t_Guide-Richard_Cooper.txt
The_Value_of_Others_Understanding_the_Eco-Taraban,_Orion.txt
What_men_Know_by_Rich_Zubaty-Valued_Sony_Customer.txt
Women_A_Textbook_for_Men.Become_the_Kind-Oleg_Novoselov.txt
And I can then ask many questions. The retrieval ability is very very good, its summarization / comparisons too.
Unfortunately when I copy it, I don't have the sources on which books provided which insight. But it's in the web
A couple of examples on Value :
Woman's value
The value of women is a complex and varied topic, as presented in the sources, with perspectives ranging from traditional valorization to criticism of social roles. Here is a summary of the different facets of the value of women, according to the sources:
• Biological and reproductive value : Women are considered to have fundamental value because of their ability to bear and give birth to children.. This reproductive capacity is often seen as the basis of their importance in society.They are described as the "rarest reproductive resource" and are therefore seen as valuable to the survival of the species.. This biological value is deeply rooted in the idea that women are the "foundation of human unity".
• Social and relational value :
◦ Women are often perceived as having high value in the sexual marketplace , especially at a young age, when their physical attractiveness is considered to be at its peak.. This value decreases over time..
◦ They are considered to have an innate ability to establish and maintain social relationships , which gives them a key role in social cohesion..
◦ Women are also seen as influential in social control , using strategies of seduction and manipulation to get what they want from men.. This ability to control is often referred to as "matrix power.".
◦ Their ability to influence men is mentioned repeatedly, with men seeking their approval and affection..
• Emotional and psychological value :
◦ Women are often portrayed as emotional beings, guided by their instincts and desires.. This emotional nature is seen as a source of strength but also weakness, as it can make them more susceptible to manipulation..
◦ Some sources point out that women lack objectivity and tend to be subjective , which makes them less suited to certain intellectual pursuits such as painting or science.. They are sometimes considered "philistines" lacking real creativity..
◦ Women are seen as needing a master or authority figure to guide them, whether it be a lover, a priest, or some other form of male figure..
◦ It is suggested that women value popularity and conformity over logic or rationality.Their self-esteem is often linked to their physical appearance and their ability to attract male attention ..
• Criticism of traditional value :
◦ Some sources criticize the traditional view of women's value, seeing it as a social construct that perpetuates inequalities and stereotypes. They point out that women are often manipulated to meet social and cultural expectations , and that this prevents them from realizing their full potential..
◦ Authors suggest that women portray themselves as victims to exploit men's guilt and gain advantages.
◦ It is mentioned that women "love no art, know none, and have no genius". Their interest in other subjects is considered feigned and only to win a man..
◦ Sources indicate that women are less interested in logic and rationality, and more in relationships and emotion..
◦ Women are seen as having "skills in lying, deception and masquerading".
◦ Several sources criticize the way society has "feminized" values and institutions, which has led to a form of decline and imbalance..
◦ The tendency of women to use shouting or imitations to manipulate and control men is also highlighted..
• Value as individuals :
◦ There is a tension between recognizing women's biological and reproductive value and their value as individuals in their own right. Some sources show how society limits women's potential by imposing traditional roles on them and valuing only their physical appearance and ability to attract men..
◦ It is said that women's beauty is a quality that they focus on excessively, and that it has become a tool in their social interactions.. However, there are criticisms of the use of beauty as the sole criterion of value..
◦ Women are portrayed as capable of great achievement, including as leaders, but that their own approach is often undermined by competitive dynamics and internal pressures.
◦ Women's worth is often seen as tied to their ability to meet men's expectations and desires, leading them to self-censor and repress their own desires..
◦ A woman's worth is seen as intrinsically linked to her ability to maintain harmony and stability in relationships.
In conclusion, the sources describe women's value through a variety of lenses: biological, social, relational, emotional, and individual. While some see their value primarily in their reproductive capacity and traditional role, others highlight their leadership potential, their ability to influence men, and their emotions. The sources reflect an ongoing debate about how women are perceived and valued in society.
Man's value
The value of men, depending on the source, is just as complex and nuanced a topic as the value of women, with varying perspectives ranging from traditional roles to critiques of social constructs. Here is a summary of the different facets of men's value, based on the sources:
• Biological value and protective role: Men are perceived as having a biological value linked to their capacity to fertilize and contribute to the propagation of the species.They are also seen as protectors of family and society, a role that is deeply rooted in pre-industrial and traditional societies.This protective function is often linked to their physical strength and their ability to take risks.
• Social and economic value:
◦ Men are traditionally seen as the providers of resources, wealth and status.Their value is therefore often measured by their ability to accumulate material goods and achieve high social position .This ability is seen as essential to ensuring the safety and well-being of their family.
◦ Competition among men for resources and status is highlighted as a fundamental feature of social dynamicsThis competition is seen as a driving force for evolution and progress, but also as a source of conflict.
◦ In the sexual marketplace , men are valued for their material success, social status, and ability to protect , rather than for their physical appearance.A man's value in this market is often tied to his ability to provide economic benefits to women.
• It is noted that men build their value, while women preserve theirs..
• Intellectual and rational value:
◦ Men are often seen as more rational, logical and objective than women.They are seen as having a superior ability to understand the world and to exercise direct control over things , whether by understanding or force .. This ability is often considered essential for the development of science and technology.
◦ Some sources indicate that men fall on a broader distribution of intelligence, with a greater proportion of men at the extremes of the spectrum (highly intelligent or very unintelligent).
◦ Men are often portrayed as the innovators and creators in the arts, sciences and technology.Their ability to focus and persevere is often cited as a key factor in their success.
◦ Men are presented as those who test their hypotheses and develop strategies.
• Criticism of traditional value:
◦ Some sources criticize the traditional view of the value of men, seeing it as a social construct that perpetuates inequalities and stereotypes. They point out that men are often trapped by social and cultural expectations , and that they are subject to significant pressure to conform to an often unrealistic masculine ideal..
◦ It is emphasized that many men have been manipulated and indoctrinated to serve the interests of women, and are often unaware of this manipulation.This manipulation would be due in large part to the education given by mothers..
◦ Some sources mention that men are encouraged to adopt "macho" or "musho" behaviors .The "macho" is described as a man who believes himself to be superior, but is actually manipulated by women, and the "musho" is an effeminate man, submissive to women.
◦ The tendency for men to seek approval from women is seen as a form of weakness.
◦ It is noted that men have become "wimps", and have given in to women. Men are afraid of women.
• Value as individuals:
◦ The sources acknowledge that the value of men is not limited to their social role or their ability to obtain resources.They emphasize that men are also emotional beings, and that their search for meaning and recognition is as important as that of women..
◦ It is suggested that men have agency in the world and that male authority, when accepted, can be positive for the community..
◦ The need for men to rediscover their masculine spirituality is stressed.
In summary, the sources present the value of men from different perspectives: biological, social, economic, intellectual, and emotional. While some emphasize their role as protectors and providers, others emphasize their agency and need for spirituality. The sources also expose critiques of the way society has shaped masculinity, and the negative consequences of this social construction for men themselves. It can be noted that the value of men is also defined, in large part, in relation to the value of women in a balance between the two sexes where competition for resources is often a source of conflict.
How can a man improve his life? What should he look for?
According to the sources, a man can improve his life by focusing on several key areas that together contribute to his overall well-being, success, and personal fulfillment. Here are the main areas a man should focus on to improve his life, taking into account what has been said previously about the sources and our conversation:
• Developing a purpose and calling :
◦ Finding a meaningful purpose or calling is paramount for a man. This can take the form of a career, a creative project, or any other area where he can exercise his talents and passions. It is important that this occupation satisfies his innate need for creation and accomplishment.. A man without occupation is lost..
◦ The occupation must be a front for interaction with the outside world.
◦ Man should seek an occupation that allows him to satisfy his hunting instinct and his hierarchical instinct.The first is manifested by passion for the process, the second by ambition and recognition of accomplishments.
• Striving for excellence and personal development :
◦ It is essential to constantly improve your physique, your style, and your way of behaving.. Personal development should be a priority , not just a way to attract women..
◦ Developing valued skills and acquiring resources are important in creating an emotionally stimulating lifestyle. It increases a man's attractiveness..
◦ Men should aim for a skill level of 7 out of 10 in multiple areas of their lives, in order to create a positive cumulative effect.
◦ Improvement must be constant, not focused on quick fixes.
◦ The ability to adapt and evolve is crucial.
• Cultivating self-confidence and independence :
◦ Financial independence is essential for men to feel valued and have their own space.
◦ You should make decisions based on what is best for you, not what is expected by society..
◦ The ability to manage emotions and exercise self-control is essential.
◦ It is important not to try to please at all costs , but to focus on your own goals..
◦ Don't let yourself be manipulated by victim thought patterns.
◦ Do not justify yourself to others.
• Building healthy relationships :
◦ We must seek partners who support and encourage man in his quest, not people who drain him of his resources or energy.A woman can help a man "grow his wings" by encouraging him in his projects, and not the other way around..
◦ Relationships must be based on mutual respect and strategic collaboration.
◦ It is important to establish the terms of the relationship and ensure that debts are mutual..
◦ Make sure you have a "backup plan" in relationships.
◦ Avoid dominant relationships where the man is subject to the will of a woman.
• Managing relationships with women :
◦ It is important to understand that women have different strategies in the sexual market..
◦ You need to be clear about what you are looking for in a woman before committing..
◦ Seduction and relationship management are important skills to acquire.
◦ The man must take the initiative in the relationship.
◦ Relationships should never become the primary goal of a man's life..
• Freeing oneself from traditional and maternal patterns :
◦ We must recognize and reject the feminine values that have been imposed by society..
◦ Do not allow yourself to be locked into the role of "good provider" serving the needs of women.
◦ Detaching from the need for constant validation from women and seeking internal validation.
◦ Breaking Free from Maternal Influence and Unhealthy Attachment Patterns.
• Adopt a positive and proactive mindset :
◦ Life's challenges must be approached with courage and determination..
◦ Don't let difficulties get you down and use setbacks as opportunities to learn and grow..
◦ Focus on self-improvement and not on comparing yourself to others.
◦ Be proactive and don't wait for things to happen on their own..
• Understanding the importance of spirituality and meaning in life :
◦ To seek a deeper meaning in life beyond the material and superficial aspects.
◦ Connecting with your own sense of masculinity.
◦ Adopting a spiritual approach that allows you to overcome the ego and find true fulfillment.
◦ Recognizing and accepting life's limitations in order to focus on what's important.
In summary, a man can improve his life by focusing on his personal development , finding a meaningful purpose , cultivating independence , building healthy relationships , breaking free from traditional patterns , and adopting a proactive and spiritual mindset . These aspects, when worked together, allow a man to fully flourish and lead a richer and more satisfying life. The sources show that it is crucial to understand his role and not get trapped by societal expectations that can hinder his growth.
Any questions welcome, or insights.
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Bonus one :
For a man, what is the optimal strategy to have a loving woman in his life and as a couple/family?
Several optimal strategies are suggested in the sources for a man to secure a loving woman in his life and have a fulfilling couple/family relationship, although some sources emphasize that there is no guarantee of success. Here is a summary of these strategies:
• Becoming a Man of Value : Sources agree that a man should first focus on his own development before seeking a relationship. This includes:
◦ Developing skills and acquiring resources : A man should focus on acquiring wealth, status and prestige. He must become a person that others value and desire.. This comes through hard work, improving your skills and pursuing your goals..
◦ Achieving Excellence in Various Areas : Men should aim for excellence in their physique, style, career and social life.. Being an "exceptional man" who stands out in several aspects of life is more attractive than being a one-dimensional "macho".
◦ Cultivating a Rich Inner Life : In addition to material success, a man must develop his mind, body and soul.. This includes reading, traveling, meditation and pursuing personal interests..
◦ Being a leader : A man must seek to become a leader in his life and in his relationships. This means making decisions, setting boundaries and having a clear vision for his future.. This does not mean being a tyrant, but rather a strong and confident guide..
◦ Being independent and self-sufficient : A man should not depend on a woman to define himself. He must be able to plan his life, control his resources and be responsible for his own happiness..
• Adopt a "game" strategy : The concept of "game" (the game of seduction) is mentioned in several sources. This includes:
◦ Be attractive and confident : A man should adopt a confident and attractive posture, which naturally attracts women.This involves good hygiene, careful dressing, and a positive attitude..
◦ Don't chase women : Men should not chase women or be overly eager to please them.. Instead, they should let women come to them, being a magnetic presence in their lives..
◦ Maintain a Dominant "Frame" : A man must establish and maintain the framework of the relationship, letting women integrate into his life, not the other way around.. This means setting boundaries, making decisions and not letting women control him..
◦ Don't settle for just one option : A man, especially in his youth, should explore his options and not commit to an exclusive relationship too early.This allows him to gain experience and better understand what he is looking for in a partner..
◦ Identify dangerous personalities and be able to handle rejection
• Choosing a compatible woman :
◦ Evaluate the woman's qualities : It is important to choose a woman who shares the same values, who is compatible with his goals and who supports him in his life.A woman who complements his life is preferred to a woman who is the center of his life..
◦ Avoiding Dominant and Manipulative Women : Men should be aware of the signs of a woman who seeks to control or exploit them.. A woman who respects her man and supports him is more appropriate.. Avoiding feminist women is also mentioned..
◦ Look for a mature and emotionally stable woman : A woman with traits of maturity, stability and clarity will be a better long-term partner.
◦ Don't idealize women : It is important to see women for who they are, and not idealize them or put them on a pedestal.. There is no "one".
• Providing a balanced relationship :
◦ Provide emotional support and security : While men need to be strong and independent, they also need to be emotionally present for their partner. A woman needs to feel safe and loved by her man..
◦ Being a partner rather than a master or slave : Balanced relationships where both partners have their own roles and responsibilities are most likely to be successful in the long runA man should avoid submitting completely to a woman, but also being a tyrant who dominates her..
◦ Provide a "home base" : A man must create an environment where his wife feels safe and comfortable. This involves maintaining a stable home, caring for one's family, and creating a good life for all..
• Being aware of modern realities :
◦ Understand that relationships aren't always forever : Men need to be aware that relationships can end, and that it's important to protect yourself financially and emotionally.
◦ Don't rush into marriage : Men should take their time before committing to marriage, and make sure they are with the right person for the right reasons.. Hasty marriages are often mistakes.It is advisable to wait until you are 30 to commit..
◦ Be careful with women who talk about money or marriage too quickly..
• Focus on the long term :
◦ Implementing the Right Relationship Strategy from 35 : This is the Time When Men Can Attract the Best Women After Building a Good Foundation.
• Strive for continuous improvement : Striving for excellence and self-improvement should be a priority throughout life..
In summary, the optimal strategy for a man is to become a person of value, develop his skills, adopt a confident and attractive approach with women, choose a compatible partner and offer a balanced relationship based on love, respect and collaboration. It is essential that the man be proactive in creating his own life and not let himself be defined by women or social expectations. It is important to keep in mind that male-female dynamics are power relations and must be taken into account for a healthy relationship.