Interesting reviews... All I gotta say is there is a thin line, between chasing women and being proactive about getting the women you want. If you want to be good with women, you better know where that line is.
Btw: the world won't end if you tell a woman you think she is attractive, vulnerability can be a powerful tool if used properly.
There is no fine line. This is why it is important to fuck with the women that like you because you are being proactive. When you fuck with a girl that could give two shits about you then you're chasing. HINT: You can't chase something that's chasing you.
Interesting reviews... All I gotta say is there is a thin line, between chasing women and being proactive about getting the women you want. If you want to be good with women, you better know where that line is.
Btw: the world won't end if you tell a woman you think she is attractive, vulnerability can be a powerful tool if used properly.
Maybe you can expand on this, I don't see the difference, unless by being proactive you mean being in the right place at the right time.
Yes there is a right time and mentally there is a right time and right pace. If you get fucked up with any of that shit you're fucked, but those issues are different from being proactive. Also, vulnerability only means something after you mean something to the bitch which generally only occurs after you fuck her. Every girl that I've fucked. I haven't shown a drop of vulnerability to until I fucked her. Every girl that I have done that vulnerability shit with I haven't fucked.
I do let them know that if they fuck with my vulnerable parts...I'll cut them off like a phone line.
Yo Kidd!!, seems you need to write your own book afterall
how is it coming along btw?
Or have you dropped the book project?
Can't drop something you haven't started!
Seriously...I'm just having problems mapping it out. My mind moves a mile a second and it's hard to lay it out with breaking out into tangents all over the damn place...everything is so closely intertwined that before you know it, what I started talking about is nowhere close to what I ended up finishing with (my Skype callers can attest to this lol)...I mean, it all makes sense in the end, but the road to get there sometimes? Man, even I get lost sometimes.
Dude you already know that I'm your literary connect. Use your resources or let them atrophy. I bet that I can get those book ideas mapped in one run through.
Yeah, Kidd I guess you still gotta come out with the book playa.
The passive game is cool and all, but I like to pick the women I want in my life. Every guy is gonna encounter some resistance when he is trying to seduce a woman, but the ones that persist are the ones that come out on top. I feel like traditionally, it's the ladies job to pace the seduction, and it's the guys job to push through all the barriers and seduce her. Sure, if you've got some game you can flip the script and have her pursuing you, but that type of stuff takes experience.
My thing is I believe guys should keep improving themselves, but why wait to get the women you want/feel like you deserve? One of the mindsets this guy talks about is that a real man never has to try to earn women... He is entitled to all women from birth. If you were entitled to all the women you want, why wait to approach her and give her the oppurtunity to hang with a mack?
Btw. Personally, I think the ability for a guy to face rejection and not get fazed is an essential skill for any man to have. The thing is, to improve any skill, you gotta have some experience. It gets to the point were you actually start to feel sorry for these women that missed the oppurtunity to hang with a player... The good thing to me about this is that once a girl says no, you don't have to waste anymore of your time thinking about this broad, and you can just move on.
You should reread your post. You have a lot of beliefs from the matrix persisting in your shit that are absent of logic.
You want to push through a barrier? Man that shit is breaking and entering. You want to chase a woman? Man that shit is stalking. You want to overcome some resistance? Man that shit is rape.
You want to face rejection? Man successful people never face rejection because it doesn't happen. You want to force a person to a yes or no decision? Man that's some straight up psychotic shit. All you will receive with women that don't like you when you put them to yes or no decisions is a no, EVERY SINGLE TIME.
Appreciate women that like you then you'll see that the best looking women and the best women are the women that like you. Plain and simple. If you want to do otherwise then run into a brick wall.
The definition of insanity is doing the same shit over and expecting different results.
Example. Last night I tried to get a female that wanted to kick it with me to do it at an earlier time. I couldn't do shit with that barrier. I was either hanging out at the time she wanted or not. It was already 12am and she wanted to hang out at 3 am. Do you get my drift Scottie? It was impossible for me to impose my structure because I hadn't gotten past enough of her defense mechanisms to slap some order on her wild ass. Needless to say, instead of continuing to fight, I decided to pursue a different path and leave her alone altogether, and in the process I met several other women that may contact me in the near future for some late night hanging out on my terms. Also, I still have the option of hanging out with ol' girl because I didn't force the issue.
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) but if I buy it and it's really good I'll have to scan it 
so I'm thinking ... 
