Natural Freedom

A lot of guys would say, "Why didn't you have
sex with her!?!" To them I say, "Because I don't reward or reinforce bad behavior."
So, the whole time she has been acting like a bitch, but the moment SHE decides she is ready to screw, I'm just supposed to deliver the goods? No.
Guys need to learn about THEIR value. Know that when a woman is coming at you, don't give up the ball....maintain possession! If she has eyes for you, make her dance to YOUR song...don't let her convince you to change the radio station.
Morals of this story?
- NEVER accept sex for an apology. All that does is reinforce the power of pussy in their minds. -
Know how to read between the lines and never take what a woman says at face value. They really do have their own agenda.
- Do NOT underestimate your "dick power" as a man. Once you believe in yourself, you will routinely perplex and captivate 99% of the women on the planet.
- If you're gonna bluff, ALWAYS be prepared to follow through. That is the only way you will sell it.

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1. There is more to your life than chasing after SEX.
2. There is a lot more to interactions with women than SEX.
3. Too much of anything can become boring and unexciting, lackluster and repetitive.
This is the main message I've been trying to get across since I first wrote my articles back in '99.
The less you worry about them....the more they worry about you.

All I'm saying is if you build it, they will come. I better myself because I want to and am driven to do it...I also just so happened to notice a nice side effect of doing just that: Women become VERY
aggressive.
So, it's a win/win. You better yourself and reap the benefits of getting your shit straight, and where you once might have been worried about women...they are now worried about YOU.
So, why NOT get your shit together? The bonus is that during that process you become someone that women want to date by default!

So, I will say this: If you have yet to have been with a woman, then do what you feel you have to do to make that happen. If you have, then focus on yourself and give them the chance to make it happen for YOU.

If you are completely confident in who you are, and can read subconscious body language well, you can build a foundation so solid with very little actual face time, because your presence/aura is so overpowering that it stays even when you aren't there.

It's time for some of these cats to stop thinking and start ACTING. The KEY is, to act on the right information.

To just hand over that kind of respect to any pretty girl you meet on the street is like giving a a complete stranger your platinum credit card. That's right...credit is EARNED. This is why I say to treat them accordingly...and not according to how they look either!

As a general rule for you rookies, treat women (except mom, of course) like a 5 (based on the 1-10
dimepiece scale). This way, if a woman is 1-5 looks wise, she feels like she is getting extra attention, but if she is 6-10 looks wise, she is wondering why you aren't all down her throat like every other man she meets. Once you get a better feel for this ebb and flow dynamic, then you can season to your own personal taste. It will soon become second nature...and the results will ASTOUND you.

It's normal for me to deal with pretty and beautiful women. They don't phase me, because I don't focus on their looks. I focus on whether or not they are showing subconscious signs that they are attracted to me.
And, because I am not nervous or stressed, I just treat her like a person, not a goddess. This is entirely new to them usually, and they love it and always say how comfortable they feel with me and that they feel like they could tell me anything. It really is awesome!

Oh yeah, and I don't do much for fantasy. My motto is, "Less is more". The less blanks I fill in, the harder her imagination has to work. Trust me, it's a good thing.

Indeed. I am HUGE on compliance. You have to finish how you start, so make sure you get off to a good start

I'm not a PUA, I've never done natural grounding, or any of all this other crazy shit you guys get mislead by. I just woke up one day, grabbed my balls and said, "I'm gonna be comfortable in my own skin and treat people how they treat me."
No offense, but most of this stuff some of you guys waste most of your time on is straight up hooey.
You guys want to throw money away? SEND IT TO ME. The free stuff I'm handing out it worth way more than the bullshit you're paying for.

I'm all about taming the shrews, brother.

Sometimes you just gotta deal with the Love you're given, my friend. Life ain't fair.

Just because someone has a boyfriend doesn't mean they cannot truly love you.

I'm not gaudy and actually dress very conservative. But because I know where I stand with my fellow man, and that I know who I am and what I am capable of, my persona/aura is immense.
THAT is what actually attracts women to me...everything else that pops up in conversation just seals the deal.
It all comes together in the end, my friend. Women do want love and connection...they just so also happen to want you to meet a certain criteria first before they allow themselves to relax enough to get there.

Here's my natural grounding: If I look at a woman, and I can read that she likes what she sees, I am instantly at ease because I know she likes me already, no matter how beautiful SHE is.

It's all in the delivery. I'm naturally cocky/funny, so I wear it well. Either it flows or it doesn't...you really can't force it.

A woman will always put herself into a position for you to "take the lead" if she is interested. I don't really call that approaching, per se...I call it "jockin".
Never second guess yourself...and trust your gut. If you think a girl is putting herself in a position for you to talk to her, 8 times out of 10 she probably is. Just make sure The Most Interesting Man in the World isn't sitting behind you first or something.

With great power comes great responsibility.

instead of seeing something you like and just going for it, take the time to hang back a bit and observe to see who may be showing signs that they like YOU. THEN, open THOSE women up. I guarantee your hit/miss ratio will improve drastically. You see, people are generally friendly, so even if you open a woman who is not checking for you with the vibe you describe, best case scenario is you become friends.
However, if you apply the skill of observation (or advance scouting, as I like to refer to it as) to pick a target that is picking YOU...honestly, what comes out of your mouth will be irrelevant.

You have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Being comfortable in your own skin and becoming your own best friend are key traits to becoming successful with women in ANY
capacity...life in general too as far as that goes.

That's because women are vain creatures who also happen to enjoy a good power trip. Also, just because they want attention, doesn't mean they necessarily want it from YOU. This is why I usually take the time to place myself strategically in their view to gauge interest before deciding to either approach or move on. If a woman is showing no signs of interest, I don't even bother, first of all because I'm lazy and don't like working hard to try to give a woman she already wants (me), and secondly, the risk/reward ratio is higher than I'd like. I'm not into trying to win someone over...I'm trying to make someone's day!

NEVER ask friends about how who you are interested in feels about you. It is a waste of time and takes your mystique right off the table as soon as they start gabbing. Trust your gut...if you see it, act on it!

The difference is, my friend, that YOU picked the woman. When the woman picks YOU, then the magic happens.

Honestly, I **NEVER** listen to what they say. Talking is just for background noise and distraction while I counter her subconscious communication...CONSCIOUSLY. Once you get that down, the sky is the limit.

It's simple, really...don't THINK you're awesome...KNOW that you're awesome. Once you believe in yourself, everything else falls right into place.

Love: An emotional response to a logical subconscious assessment of a target that shows most if not all of the qualities that are desirable in a mate from the observer's perspective.

They are indecisive BECAUSE they are more emotional. Decisiveness is a trait based on logic.

When you are "the man", people will treat you accordingly once you have arrived

Once you accept your flaws, you can live with them.

Nowadays, most women NEED to be lead...the problem comes from convincing them of this. They are so into equality and independence that they don't understand that "submitting to your man" is not a bad or negative thing. It is really quite ridiculous.

The plan should be NOT to give up thinking about women, but to occupy your time with self-improvement type activities where you are preoccupied. Therefore, you are not thinking about women because you are going out of your way NOT to think about women, but rather you are not preoccupied with thinking of women because you are so busy making you the best you that you could possibly be.

It was at that moment that I then knew that men, not women are the prize...we've just let women socially condition us into thinking other wise. Fact: There are more women on this planet than men.
Once I fully absorbed this concept, it changed my whole mindset and overall approach to women.

Bottom line: They felt beautiful because someone they considered to be attractive actually took the time out to at least appear interested in them, no matter how fleeting that interest may have been.
3) My vibe of contentment. The fact that I put out zero needy energy whatsoever. Because I don't project neediness, women NEED to talk to me. See?

Basically, women love to talk about themselves, which is great because the more you get them to divulge, the more invested and attached they end up feeling towards you. So I don’t really draw pictures in their heads, but I don’t discourage whatever they decide to conjure up on their own either. If you do it right, THEY become the storytellers…all you have to do is actively listen.
As far as topics go, I just go with the flow and let the conversation go where it will. As a rule, if a woman starts to use profanity around me comfortably, especially the F word, that is a subconscious sign that she was to fuck me. Also, I pay attention to any type of touching, even if it appeared to be accidental. Eye contact is very important, and closeness as well. As I’ve stated before, the conversation is really just a smoke screen so that I can read her non-verbal communication…THAT
is where all the action is.

I don't NEED to bring up sex anymore. It would make me appear needy. I KNOW she wants it...I just have to wait for her to convince herself that she is ready to do it.

Oh, and leave the self doubt at home on this trip...the sign above her door says, "Confident men ONLY."

**A woman will only get away with WHAT YOU ALLOW HER TO GET AWAY WITH.**
In most other countries, women are raised to respect men, whereas in America, most women are raised that they are equal, if not BETTER THAN men.
So what happens is, most men (like Rion), instead of rising to the challenge of being the best man they can possibly be to supercede these bitches, decide to enter the Konami Code (read: cheat code) and run away to foreign lands where the dollar goes farther and they can portray themselves to be whoever they want to be. That, my friends, is not game...that is taking advantage of a favorable environment, and becoming addicted to it in the process.
If one believes that they have to kiss a womans ass to court her in America, then that person has fallen for the lie of the Matrix...hook, line and sinker. Once men can possess the intuition to give a woman not what she wants but what she NEEDS, then their dating lives will become very ridiculous like mine is slowly becoming. Why is mine only slowly becoming ridiculous?

You are absolutely right about most people (men and women) being selfish in the sack...people are just self centered in general nowadays. But, I love this. Why? Because when these women (and they are the majority) run into me, and experience what it feels like to be properly lavished, ravished and fucked silly...they never want to let me go.
But do leave with this: women are not blow up dolls for your pleasure and your pleasure only. Go into sex with the right mindset, and women will turn into the most wonderful creatures you have ever had the privilege of being in the presence of.

My tactics are designed to disarm women and rip the bitch shield away, if you will. After you do that, it's like a box of chocolates...you never know what you're gonna get. Sometimes there is an actual genuine and sincere woman under there who was just scared to get hurt anymore...other times, you remove the bitch to reveal...a bitch.
But that doesn't mean that rare Pokemon don't exist in the wild. With that I mean, when I was younger and fresh in this mindset, I was so jaded and convinced that ALL women were out to get me, that I passed up quite a few rare women...the ones who weren't about bullshit. So now, I pay better attention to what is paying me attention, and if I run into a woman who doesn't come at me with bullshit, and is about something. I give her the benefit of the doubt and overcompensate a little bit and give her the chance to disqualify herself.

The key is not to stop wanting, or to ground yourself into believing that you don't want...it lies in having the discipline to not be attached to the outcome. For example, there is a woman in my life right now that I really, really want. But, at the same time, if she doesn't come around I can not give a fuck at the drop of a hat, and also in the meantime while she figures out what she wants to do.

Guess what? WOMEN ARE THE FUCKING PROBLEM (indirectly of course...the societal matrix is the root of ALL evil)...and the sooner you learn how to properly deal with the problem, the sooner you get the kind of results that make people say, "Whoa" as they watch you leap buildings and dodge bullets.

The fact that NG is all about grounding YOURSELF proves my point entirely...to me it's like you are making yourself submit to women (be it certain types of women), rather than owing your shit and making women submit to YOU.

...and that's the best thing about my mindset. My mindset actually teaches you how to qualify women and also let them disqualify themselves, which aids greatly is finding a real woman to have as a possible long term life partner. That's the difference...my stuff is flexible enough where you can use it to get laid on your terms, or help you wade through the sea of bullshit broads to find one that is actually worthy of your love, time, and devotion.

Bottom line: By using NG, you are NOT getting her...she is getting YOU. Using my mindset, not only do you get the girl, you get her on YOUR terms, and she is more than happy to submit to YOU.

Of course...my method does this by default because if you focus on talking to the girls that you can tell like you, you aren't talking to everyone by default. I think it is crucial to keep an air of mystery to yourself in order to maintain intrigue.

Becoming your own best friend is the key to unlocking the "Vibe of Contentment" that will make women jock the SHIT out of you...it cannot be overstated enough. I don't know about the extremes that this thread appears to be headed into, but as a concept it is definitely mandatory.

Of course he knew...he could feel it in his gut. Once you really make peace with yourself and the demons within, the background inference will cease and you will able to get much clearer 'gut'
communications and feelings.

If you know you're in control, then you have control...you have the capacity to influence decision.
So even though the woman has the ultimate say so in pertinent matters, if you are in control, you can always influence her decisions to go in your favor.
So, once again, this gives them the illusion that they are in control, when really, YOU are actually in control.

The great thing about my mindset is that it can be applied to ALL aspects of life, not just women as El-Chameleon has pointed out. I usually just focus on the female aspect because, well, it is a good motivator to totally get the concept, then, once it is fully assimilated, most guys usually naturally apply it to everything else automatically.

Worst case scenario? You hear nothing, which also tells you everything you need to know for the moment anyway. You gotta understand...this woman expects you to be fawning all over her. Why?
Because it is what most men do, so why should you be an exception? Besides, since you admitted yourself that you fell into her frame a bit, this is your chance to redeem yourself and abolish that impression.
Best case? She makes the above contact, and you shove the facts down her throat as outlined. She will backpedal, stunned by your show of force. Then, if you maintain this frame and do not falter AT ALL...she WILL submit. GUARANTEED.

That's odd, because women want...nay...NEED to be checked and put in their place in certain situations. Most of those situations are if they are getting in your face with some power trippin', narcissistic ass bullshit. This resonates well because their own daddies only let them get away with so much before they checked them, and we all know that people tend to subconsciously look for some aspect of their parents in possible mates.

Remember...it's the actions you watch...stop listening to the words.

If you tell almost any woman that you are interested in another woman, and then say, "What do you think I should do?", she will undoubtedly tell you to go for it, pursue her, surprise her with flowers and a card, be sweet, let her know how you feel...blah, blah, blah.
Guess what? If you proceed to do ANY of that bullshit, you will be taken for a yard. It's almost like the broad is setting you up for failure with women, period.
So if you want to take advice from women, for women, here is what you do...whatever she says, do the COMPLETE OPPOSITE...then you'll be fine.

Come on, man. If you are following my advice and you can read subtle signs, you don't need to do any AFFIRMations...the fact that you can see she is on your shit gives you...(wait for it)...CONFIRMation.
Confirmation. Try THAT concept on, people.
Bottom line: I didn't continually keep AFFIRMing myself that I'm awesome and chicks like me...I CONFIRMed it by the way people actually REACTED to me.

Guys need to understand that everyone has different tastes, and just because you are not the epitome of what society considers attractive, doesn't mean that you are attractive to NO ONE...if you know what to look for, you will see that there are HUNDREDS of women who like you just the way you are. ^_^

Like I always say, the less you care, the more THEY care.
Sly Stallone said it best in "The Expendables": "The man who best gets along with women can get along best without women at ALL."

My solution? Learn YOUR environment, and learn to observe and analyze.
Hands down, I have never had a woman treat me better. She will tell me to my face that she would do almost anything for me and only wants to make me happy...and her actions back up her words 100%.
Bottom line: It may be like finding a needle in a haystack, but it can happen if you are patient, picky, and know how to tell when a woman is choosing YOU. I didn't think women like that existed at ALL...and yet here she is in all of her glory. Will it last forever? Who knows? She is not without her personal issues, and I am far from naive, but if she continues to check herself, i feel this relationship has the potential to last for quite a while, if not go all the way.

The best part is, I'm not worried about her AT ALL...but she is ALWAYS wondering where I am and what I'm up to. Granted, this stems from her past that has made her quite insecure on some levels, but I don't tolerate it...and I TELL HER that I WILL **NOT** tolerate it. After a few talks, I can tell that it still bothers her when I do stuff without 'checking in first', but I'm a grown ass mayne...I don't check in to ANYONE. The best part though is that even though I can tell by her tone and mannerisms that it still bothers her, she doesn't attack me about it anymore since she understands that it's an internal issue that has nothing to do with me.
THIS is the level all men should hope to aspire to...when a beautiful woman is doing whatever it takes to keep YOU...not the other way around.

Women are women...and women are human. Period.

What you need to take away from what I'm about to say is this: Women will cheat if they are not getting what they NEED at home. Notice I didn't say WANT...I said NEED. Men of today don't know how to tell what a woman NEEDS, and overcompensate by trying to give her everything they WANT...which leaves them ultimately spoiled and bored. These married women were unfaithful because they were missing something at home...and the crux of the problem is that women of today seek out men that SOCIETY says they should have....instead of going with their gut and picking the man they actually TRULY desire...all because the guy they really want isn't awesomely handsome, well off, etc. It's a sad state of affairs.
So, over the course of my life since my awakening, I have gone from a staunch "Truss no Bitch"
mantra to, with the ability to observe, analyze, apply, and adapt, I'm convinced that if you take the time to marry the RIGHT woman, who TRULY wants you for YOU and has your best interests at heart, you will be fine. It has to be for ALL THE RIGHT REASONS...for BOTH parties involved.

Well, the more confidence you have in yourself, the more a dominant position you will assume while executing these maneuvers, which definitely increases your overall success rate.
Remember...it's all in the delivery.

I feel sorry for guys who take women's advice at face value...I really and truly do.
...and remember, folks!...it's not about thinking what a woman wants...it's all about knowing what she NEEDS...which may not necessarily be what she wants.

The biggest problem is guys are approaching the wrong women...meaning the ones that could care less about them. Then, when they get dissed, they take it personally like it was their fault instead of realizing that the chick didn't have eyes for him in the 1st place.

It's really more about learning to be able to spot what likes you versus what you like.

Agreed...but my methods aren't based on assumptions...it's rooted in evidence based deduction.
I don't *think* a woman likes what she sees...I *know* beyond the shadow of a doubt that she does because she has presented me with enough evidence to convince me. This isn't about knowing that you are awesome...yes, the vibe of contentment works wonders, but the bottom line is if you are reading properly, there are no leaps of faith.

They can act like they are gold all they want...unless they have their shit together (environmentally based) and/or have aged extremely gracefully (or have kept up with tastefully done cosmetic surgery), then trust me, the guys that are chasing them are nowhere near the guys they truly want.
I have told aging women before...I'm not saying that you wont be able to get a man...I'm just saying that you won't be able to get a man that you REALLY desire...you'll end up having to settle, which is a fate worse than death.

Arrogance has it's place...but you'll always attract more bees with honey rather than vinegar. Treat people accordingly...and if they ask for it, give it to them!...bit only if they ask.

See Sniper? You've managed to overcome your seemingly impossible environment. In hindsight, maybe your environment wasn't so much as impossible as it was just intimidating to you. Now you understand what I was saying...that my methods provide results in ANY environment. You are like a totally different person now, and I salute you!

I'm an extroverted introvert then. I enjoy people and the attention that comes with the territory, but I'm also big on 'Me Time' as well.

Id still call her a bitch. It's a test by US. If she gets all inflamed, irritated and ignorant, cut your losses and move on. BUT!...if she gets defensive and says, 'Dont call me that!', then all you gotta say is, 'When you stop acting like a bitch, I'll stop calling you a bitch...bitch.'
Works wonders.

When guys actually take the time to listen and apply what I teach, it works like a charm and involves no trickery.

They don't really give me any (signs of attraction), am I the exception to the rule or is there something I've missed out on?
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Well, that means one of two things:
1) You are so hideously grotesque that no woman alive desires you or
2) You just aren't tuned all the way in yet.
I'd bet it's the latter.
Being able to observe subtleties on the level that I do takes months to years of constant mental practice...putting yourself in social situations ad nauseum for the sole purpose of fine tuning observation techniques. Trust me, it's happening...you just can't fully see the Matrix yet.

I'll bet you are too focused on women that you WANT to give you signs as opposed to paying attention to signs FIRST...and then who is actually showing them SECOND.
One more time for the latebirds: It's NOT about what knowing what YOU like...it's about knowing what likes YOU.

Women stopped honoring us because men stopped being men, which in essence means we stopped honoring OURSELVES. Women want to honor US...they were created to complement US...not the other way around. Honoring a woman just makes her lose respect for YOU.
You treat a woman the way she deserves to be treated. Point. End. '.'

I don't honor women...I respect them if/when they prove themselves to be worthy of it, but I make them want to 'honor' ME...which fulfills them because all a woman really wants is a man that she can believe in and make her feel acknowledged. The MOMENT a woman even THINKS you may have put her on a pedestal (which is according to HER perspective), she will instantly attempt to shit on your head, since you are still standing beneath her on the floor.
So, what you SHOULD be going for with this honor stuff is, "If you honor yourself, then women will honor you as well."

Remember, a woman doesn't have to pay you ANY attention at ALL...

Practice and trusting your gut instinct. Stop explaining away everything your gut tells you...learn to EMBRACE IT.

That's just it though...if you are doing it right, you are too busy dealing with constantly BEING
seduced and persuaded that you really don't have time TO seduce anyone.

A lot of women are brainwashed by the Matrix to THINK that they want a beta...most end up learning the hard way that they don't. However, most of these women end up just being serial cheaters (with Alphas no less) and even if they do get caught, Mr. Beta just begs them to stay anyway. It's really quite grotesque.

It is this quest for the quick and easy path that prevents you from ultimately getting your blowjob, ATZ.

To deal with the the women of today, you need some space age shit. You need...MY shit.

The path less traveled is not a easy one nor is it a quick fix...it is a total life changing experience...understand this going forward, all of you whom this applies...

Women view me as a sex object...so what about them? That's what I don't like about some of these other schools of thought...it focuses solely on what we as men are supposedly doing wrong.
...so answer my question, rant...WHAT ABOUT THE WOMEN WHO LOOK AT ME LIKE A PIECE OF STEAK EVERY DAMN DAY...IS THAT OK?

Get real. The problem with the world in general is no one wants to take responsibility for SHIT
anymore. Stop giving these bitches a free pass on society's dime...they decided to play so when the time comes, they are just as liable and therefore MUST PAY.

The Matrix I outlined has only to deal with being able to see women as they truly are and to recognize their hidden agendas. It is unnecessary and overkill to shun media just because it is 'force feeding' you a message you don't agree with. Just because you are exposed to something doesn't mean it will become you...you still have your own mind and free will. Yes, it is true that there are a lot of elements out there that, if taken to heart, can be very detrimental to your mindset...so just don't take them to heart.

Like I've always said, I love little girls and old women. Why? Because little girls are too young to know the game exists yet and old women don't need to play it anymore.
This is a good first step...but know that these two age groups will ALWAYS give OBVIOUS signs that they like what they see. Don't get used to that. The women in your target age range will be MUCH more subtle and crafty...so you must learn to fine tune yourself to THAT. However, attention from the afore mentioned age groups is a great way to build your observation foundation and know that yes, you are attractive. Good luck and have patience!

Whenever a beautiful woman is overly friendly and forward with you, suspect ulterior motive.
Whenever I'm out and about, and a drop dead chick starts chatting me up incessantly, I always ask,
'So how many kids do you have?'...I'm rarely wrong in this assumption. It's either that, or they are from out of town and have thrown caution into the wind because 'What happens in Vegas...stays in Vegas."...or something like that.
Point I'm trying to make is, most women who chat you up online are either looking for something, trying to get away from something, or both. They prey on men who are susceptible to their charms (aka suckers) and will eventually try to manipulate you into doing something for them, be it send them some money or even all the way up to getting married. There are enough real live women in your immediate environment every day to have to be bother with some long distance internet BULLSHIT.

I love women!...I just hate them BITCHES!

Make no mistake...as I've said before, we live in a global society now. Abandon this quest for a utopia, Sniper, for it does not exist. Look no more to escape...instead, strive to EMBRACE, CIRCUMVENT, and OVERCOME.

Yes and no...you need to work on being more subconsciously aware of both what you are putting out and what you are getting back, vibe wise. Just because YOU are comfortable talking to a woman, does not necessarily mean that SHE is comfortable talking to YOU.

In a nutshell, being able to discern signals gives you answers to questions that no longer need asking. I'm not saying to only speak to women if they are giving you signs, though if you do the odds of success are heavily tipped in your favor...I'm saying that by being able to notice these subtle subconscious signs of interest, you refrain from the mistake most guys make of assuming a girl likes them when in reality, they are just being friendly or tolerable.
This is the benefit of my method.

Who said I was working hard? I'm the laziest guy I know! The way I do things, once the foundation is laid, SHE ends up doing all the work. You REALLY don't get how I operate at ALL.

Bottom line is, women want sex more than we do, but over the years have effectively led us to believe that they don't. This way, they keep us feeling like we have to do all the work to 'win them over' and that we have to put up with them...which is BULLSHIT.
If in fact they want dick about twice as badly as we want pussy, then why are we as men working so hard to give them something that they already REALLY want?
Yep, that's the crux of it.

Haha! Difference is...there is NOTHING wacky about my shit...it is all logically based, scientifically sound, pimp tested and Kidd approved!

Never improve yourself for women...improve yourself for YOU...to improve YOUR quality of life.
The women that will fall effortlessly at your feet after the fact are merely a pleasant side effect of your self improvement.

...and of course I am very much at peace with myself...I know who I am and what I am capable of...I'm sure this goes without saying, but I just wanted to put it out there.

The things I felt that I could never change, I worked on accepting and even embracing as things that made me unique. The things that I felt I could improve on, well, I worked tirelessly on them...and still do till this day. THAT is how you become comfortable in your own skin, NOT by whispering sweet nothings into your own damn ear.

IF YOU CAN'T CHANGE IT, THEN ALL YOU CAN DO **IS** EMBRACE IT.

Bottom line: Improve yourself for YOU...because YOU deserve a better life and lifestyle. This will attract women to you like flies to shit by DEFAULT. Become borderline self absorbed...then you will see some unbelievable shit.

An X-Factor is created when a woman meets you and decides that beyond any shadow of any measurable doubt that you are, and ever will be, the best option for HER. IF she comes to this realization, there is nothing...and I mean NOTHING, that she won't do you attempt to convince you that you are for HER. She will basically take on the traditional male role (if you let her)...taking you out, calling you up, keeping tabs on you, doing whatever you say.
Now, I'm not saying that she won't ever try you...every woman has to check periodically if her
'pussy power' is wearing you down yet. As long as you put your foot down when you NEED to and are not afraid to remove yourself from the equation for an indefinite period of time (until she is ready to act right, basically), everything will eventually normalize. Best part is, when you do check her, it only reinforces in her mind that you are indeed a REAL man...and DEFINITELY the man for her. This means that when she does rebound from a good checking, she is even better than she was BEFORE she tried you.

Moral of this story? Don't be afraid to move first if you see that she digs you...if you know what you are doing, you will be able to steal the ball and turn things around in your favor soon enough.

For the record, I wasn't chasing. She was obviously VERY interested...she was just used to being approached a certain way (most beautiful women are). So, I played the comfort zone card until she
'let me in'. This is the essence of what I refer to as 'Ball Stealing'.
It's a calculated risk...but then again so is investing in the stock market. Bigger risk = greater possible payoff. Difference is, by using my methods, you have access to the best insider trading tips in the world.

Your gut instinct will help you differentiate the real from the phony...just make sure you listen to it.

Haha! She is trying to steal the ball from YOU. In this situation, if I know that she is into me and that this is just a 'power play', I enthusiastically agree...she's only making it worse on herself in the long run.
Agree to be her friend then remain aloof...let her get in touch with you and make no attempts. You will discover soon enough that either she is into you or if you just saved yourself a lot of time and effort.
Best part is, it will take ZERO effort on your part to arrive at a conclusion...in the meantime, let your main girl, who obviously deserves your attention, keep you occupied.

If you're in the right mindstate, your presence will be stimulus enough.

QUIT BEING A PUSSY AND MAN UP ALREADY.

I've always said that too...it is a woman's **NEEDS** that you tend to, not her wants...and most times,a woman isn't really sure WHAT she needs...and that's what separates the men from the boys...an man's ability to know what a woman NEEDS, whether SHE thinks she needs it or not.

Women are like snowflakes...no two are ever the same.
That said, a snowflake is STILL a snowflake, and unless you break out a microscope, the naked eye can't tell the difference.
This is why you MUST learn to trust that primal, gut instinct that screams at you when you're fucking up and gives you a warm fuzzy when you're on the right track.

Well, my friend, that comes from endeavoring to become the best man you can possibly be. Once you truly know who you are and what you are capable of doing, everything else just falls into place.
Good luck on your journey of self discovery.

Less is always more.

The more you say, the more they think you care. The less you say forces their imaginations to fill in the blanks.

Stop hating on me.

My shit works...point, end, period...and it doesn't involve any peepee pullin, hypnosis, sublimal MP3's, or any other kind of hooey or tomfoolery. If someone wants to spend some money for some personalized skype sessions, that's fine...other than that there is NO financial investment necessary to gain long and lasting results with my methods.
Maybe you got taken in by some of this seduction bullshit and I can't help that shit...but don't project your bullshit experiences onto me and what the fuck I'M doing...it's not fair to me or the others who would really benefit from injecting some LOGIC into not only their interactions with women, but how to map their road to self improvement and realization as well.
I'm being nice this time...QUIT STEERING PEOPLE AWAY FROM SOMETHING THEY **WILL**
BENEFIT FROM.

To subconsciously determine if a man is 'man enough' for her. If you put your foot down like you're supposed to, then she ends up liking you even more, though she may never admit it or really show it. I believe it goes back to a primal type of natural selection.

My confidence _stays_ up.

Why, you ask? Because like I have stated before, I have gone through enough trials and tribulations in my life that I know **WHO** I am and **EXACTLY** what I am capable of...and because of my supreme confidence in myself and my abilities, coupled with my vibe of contentment, uncanny observation/analyzation abilities and a well tuned gut instinct, I am able to pick up subtle CONfirmations of my overall societal status/attractiveness everyday.
I don't need to tell myself how awesome I am...I have friends who remind me of this daily.
I don't need to tell myself how attractive I am...I have women in my life (and perfect strangers as well) who remind me of this daily as well, be it blatant or subtle.
Now, this doesn't mean that I **NEED** CONfirmation...I'm just saying that I have no problem picking up on the fact that it is there.

Makes sense...if you have enough presence of mind to not let her get away with bloody murder, then chances are that you would discipline any possible children impartially as well. But, that is a bit down the road. In the interim, her 'testing' helps her to narrow down her suitors and select the best possible mate for her.

Always take answers from women with a few grains of salt.
It's like asking your opponent what is the best way to beat them...you really think they are going to tell you in plain straightforward terms?

All you have to do is treat them according to how they treat you.
TREAT THEM ACCORDINGLY...it really is that simple.

Never doubt yourself. Everything I preach works WONDERS in square relationships...and if you and that woman are trying to do something meaningful, then she shouldn't be doing that anyway. It's not something you need to check her on...it's something for you to be aware of and then check YOURSELF.
You gotta ask yourself...is this really the kinda woman I should get serious with?

The golden rule is: As long as pussy wants you more than you want pussy, everything else will fall into place...and if you are not in a 'place' within yourself where pussy wants and aches for you?
GET THERE!

It's just punishment/reward basically. Treat 'em how they deserve to be treated.

Contracting your bumhole on a regular basis is actually great in helping to delay orgasm.
That is all.

Quit droppin the ball man...hang on to that shit and DUNK IT!

If you're not interested, then you're just not interested. You are not OBLIGATED to acknowledge any and all such acts of jockin'...you do what you want to do.
I get jocked all the time...ALL THE TIME. Do I approach every single woman every single time?
NO. Is it because I'm intimidated or afraid of rejection? **NO.**
Sometimes, knowing is good enough for me. I have a lot going in in my life right now...things that I'm working hard on to accomplish certain goals I've set for myself. I know that involving myself with someone new right now would only bog me down, so I don't bother.
See the difference? I'm not needy, desperate, or actively looking...but it doesn't mean that I don't notice what is going on around me at all times.

Actually I am quite pleasant and easy to talk to...you'll always attract more flies with honey than vinegar.

it's all in your stance and delivery.

Being Pimp Tight minded isn't about fucking lots of girls (though a by product of this mentality precludes it to happening)...any fool with a dick can do that. It is about dealing with women your way and on your terms. You fuck them when you feel they DESERVE to be fucked.

It's ultimately all in the delivery and initial meeting. If you set the tone correctly, and she is jocking you tough enough, then believe me she'll call...she may even call the same day. However, as you have alluded to, sometimes you may HAVE to call first because they impose societies rules upon you. In those cases (as with my ex), if you feel like it is worth it, you go along and steal the ball later.
Bottom line: You have to respect whoever moves first. If I say, 'I look forward to hearing from you.'
and I leave without a complaint from her, then it is implies that she is going to call me. That's not standoff that's common sense. If she takes the initiative before I do and says, 'Call me sometime tomorrow', I'm not going to stand there and retort with, 'Uh no...you can call ME tomorrow'...I will respect that she beat me to it and call first.
Everything eventually works it's way out.

What we as men have in our favor is that while women are ruled by emotion, men are ruled by logic. The social matrix attempts to make men more emotional, which puts us at women's mercy, because they OWN the emotional realm.
Logic > Emotion...be a man, trust your gut and good things will happen for you.

Whatever...you go ahead ahead and keep telling yourself what kind of man you wish to be while I keep on being that man and having women tell me that they wish their man was more like ME.

Whatever...you go ahead ahead and keep telling yourself what kind of man you wish to be while I keep on being that man and having women tell me that they wish their man was more like ME.

The gist is doing whatever it takes to make you confortable in your own skin. If those guys are fully comfortable being overweight slobs, then more power to them. After all, the Vibe of Contentment is what you are ultimately after, and different men obtain it in different ways.

It is emotion that tends to overrule logic. I will say tho that logic, when used properly, can keep emotions in check.

It's all relative perspective...some people tell me I think too much...
I think those people don't think **enough**.

Okay...but the REASON why women seem drawn to me and that I'm awesome isn't because women are MY main goal. My main goal is just the be the best man I can possibly be...mentally, physically, spiritually, and financially. Simply put, I strive to max out my potential by any means necessary.
...and as I've said before...the pleasant side effect to all of this focus on self improvement is that women become more and more drawn to me.
Bottom line: Stop focusing on women so much and focus on YOURSELF. The more you focus on yourself, the more women will too. BUT!...do it FOR yourself...not for them (women).

Oh, and the Matrix DOES have control over those who let it control them...like Cypher, who even though he knew better just couldn't handle the truth. A LOT of people can't handle the truth, and would rather have their ignorance served with a side of denial and steak fries.

I can't help how you feel about me...those are your insecurities manifesting themselves as hatred and jealousy...and I'm not going to change who and how I am because you are butthurt about it.
You'll NEVER get ANYWHERE until you CHANGE YOUR DAMN PERSPECTIVE. So WHAT
if I'm cocky?...I EARNED THE RIGHT TO BE.
Read between the lines and glean what you need from what I write...don't sweat the technique.

Symps ultimately get what they want (pussy), so they feel like there is nothing wrong with how they do things since, to them, they usually get a favorable outcome. Sure, they are fucked medium and long term, but they don't think that far ahead enough to care.
All they know is, sympin' works, so they could care less about the other possible ways you could skin a cat...they have a sure fire method that works and they are sticking with it!

I also endorse intuition as well, as evidenced by me always saying 'trust your gut!'...and Scarf is correct...the two go together like chocolate and peanut butter.
The reason why I stress logic so much initially is because in this day and age, people need proof.
They get gut feelings but don't trust them and/or explain them away. As they become more logical, they (hopefully) soon discover that their gut ALWAYS concurs with the logic. Then, hopefully in time, the learn to trust their intuition wholeheartedly and feel and use the Force.
I myself am very intuitive and probably borderline clairvoyant. Bits of this is evidenced in some of my stories (like the one when I saw the girl at the bus stop and my brain told me that I was going to fuck her...and eventually, with little effort on my part, I did).
Bottom Line: Logic is the training wheel for intuition.

You know what's fun? Is seeing a beautiful woman and being logical and intuitive enough to NOT
be 'stunned' by her beauty...then what you actually see is an insecure, spoiled little girl who is actually 'stunned' by YOU. Why?
Because you are not 'stunned' by her.

Bottom line is, I've paid the cost to be the boss. Everything I have and have become didn't come easy...but if you want something bad enough, you'll find a way to get it done.

I've explained the Vibe of Contentment extensively in various posts here...I'm at work right now so I really can't reference it all for you, but poke around. Gist is you become your own best friend...LITERALLY. Once you are truly at peace with yourself and enjoy your own company, you no longer have a needy vibe and that attracts women in DROVES.
...and you're right, I DONT take a lot of action...that is the beauty of my method is that it puts women on offense. I don't have to take much action because I know that I AM THE PRIZE....so what's not to like?
It's a beautiful thing.

My method is not a magic pill...it is a total mindset overhaul and reprogramming...most guys will NOT have the discipline and patience to do what needs to be done. How do you achieve this elusive
'vibe'? It's a different path for everyone. 1st thing to do is accept what you can't change about yourself and start working tirelessly to change what you can.

Oh no...they'll get laid...that's how women keep them in check. They give them pussy out of sympathy...because those men are sympathetic to their WANTS.
Hence, 'Symps' were born!
That's why I said any fool with a dick can get some pussy...unfortunately, usually by the time they realize they traded their soul and their balls to keep their dick wet, it is too late. My method is so much more than just getting laid. It's a total mindset and lifestyle overhaul.

I mean, Dumbo thought it was a freaking feather that gave him the ability to fly...then later learned that it was all him all along. But, by the time he realized it, he was already flying.
If this is what some of you guys need to start flying today, then so be it.

I'm sure that almost anyone would agree, in retrospect, that sitting in a mall doing 1st hand observation of real life human behavior and interaction is MUCH more saner than masturbating while watching music videos featuring a certain female artist...just sayin'.

Actually, women are just natural born pimps...leveraging what they got, which of course ALL men want, to get whatever it is THEY want...and it's been going on since Adam bit that damn apple.

...and by being happy without women, they won't want to be without YOU.

Bottom line: I DO NOT CHASE PUSSY...PUSSY CHASES **M**E....and trust me, there is a BIG
difference.

Remember what you have unlearned...women are NOT sweet, innocent creatures deserving of our pity.

So I need social status to get a woman?
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Have you learned nothing?
Of course you don't. Social status just takes all the guesswork and legwork out of it. The less social value you have, they more you NEED to implement Covert Tactics.

Of course they are...how can you expect a gender notorious for not knowing what they want...to know that they want?
It is up to us men to become Alphas and give what we know they NEED...whether THEY think they need it or NOT.

Haha they only destroyed men who had no will of their own...real men like us just evolved...we adapted to and overcame out environment. When the time is right, our message will finally be well received.

Aztecsfinest wrote:
So the secret is to have a good vibe?
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There are no secrets, AZT...you just need to overhaul your mindset.

When are you gonna learn that there is no 'trick' to this? As long as you continue to search for the quick and easy path that doesn't exist, all of your endeavors will continue to end in failure.
Its like the difference between a diet and new eating HABITS...think about it.

Just because you WANT to do something doesn't mean it NEEDS to be done.
Guys nowadays don't know anything about the fine art of foresight...and forego everything for instat gratification, which is one of the main problems in society today.
Same of this love declaration nonsense. Do it, and your end result with the women involved will be less than favorable. Sure, the short term result may be what you THINK you want, but you WILL
be miserable in the end.

I used to try to enlighten every man I knew when I first became aware...with disasterous results.
Trust me, most guys are better off not knowing the Matrix exists...for their own sanity's sake.
The ones who need to know...will let you know. Just observe and pay attention to who is ready to handle the truth.

They are subconciously drunk with the power that society has bestowed upon them.

you cannot unlearn what you have learned at this point. HOWEVER...you CAN do what women do...pick the best option for you and know that, because of your mindset, you will have the most faithful and attentive woman on the planet. Notice I didn't say emotionally fulfilling...that's because, since you know what's going on behind the scenes you will never be able to truly 'let go' and just be emotional about it...but that's fine because if you are anything at all like me, you've made peace with that already.
EDIT: Actually, let me re-clarify...you can CARE about someone...I have a lot of people in my life that I care about _to a point_. But will you be in TRUE LOVE with them? Most probably not.

Do I advocate not having sex with a woman who wants you to jump through flaming hoops like a circus animal before she allows you to do HER a favor?
Is that a serious question?
Oh...and in case there is any doubt of my stance here, my answer to the above question posed to me is a resounding **YES**.
The solution is to stay far away from those bitches...and stay closer to women that can keep it real.
However, once you get to an advanced level like myself, you could attempt to front blast or ball steal...but sometimes even those tactics are more trouble than they are worth. Really depends on your read of the woman in question.

Women always have been and forever will be the stimulus. That's just the way it is.

Of course I am speaking in generalities. The truth, with a mindset like mine, you CAN be the stimulus. I stimulate women daily. It's just so rare and unusual that most women don't even really know how to react to it.

I **KNOW** that I'm the PRIZE. It really is that simple.

Yeah, that's what goes on behind the scenes, but I'm not speaking from a behind the scenes perspective. Because the average Joe does NOT take the time to understand this, and still blindly chases pussy without stopping to realize that maybe the pussy already wants him...and since it is this 'average joe' who makes up most of the male population, then my point is still very valid indeed.
Average joes have been catering to these hoes and fucking the game up since the beginning of time, and will continue to do so. As long as this continues, women's ego's will continue to remain at max PSI and your point, as well as Rion's will continue to be invalid from a **PRACTICAL** standpoint.

Like I've always said...never take dating advice from a woman...unless you are a woman or gay.

Plain and simple? It's your gut trying to tell you that she is someone you should talk to.

Women assume that I, like every other man that came before, am just talking out of my ass when I present the contract. So she signs it, thinking that once she puts that pussy on me that I'll get whooped and then she'll have her way eventually regardless. Unfortunately for them, this never happens.
So, because she was banking on that outcome, and because it never materializes, she gets caught off guard with her emotions hanging out. Then, they attempt to do damage control, which never really ends well for them. It's a vicious cycle.
To answer the question...she doesn't assume that she owns you...but she does assume (sometimes subconsciously) that in the end, she **WILL**.

Wanna know how I got over approach anxiety?
I just told myself that the worst they can do is say no...they are not going to try to murder me or anything.
I once asked almost 20 girls to go to a formal dance when I was in high school. Most of you would have stopped at one, if THAT. But that didn't stop me...know why? Because I was DETERMINED
to have a date for that dance...and no amount of approach anxiety was going to stop me from getting what I wanted.
The more you experience rejection, the less it stings in future instances.

"When the pupil is ready, the master shall appear.' - Don Diego de la Vega

**ANY fool with a DICK can get laid...but it takes a little bit MORE than that to be able to do it on YOUR terms.**
The reason why quite a few gentleman heed my advice Zan Fan, is because it is LOGICAL...meaning that it makes SENSE. Not only that, but it actually WORKS.
He wants to develop his swag so that women are thanking HIM for allowing them to fuck HIM...something that is foreign to Zan's school of thought...and that is precisely what I offer.

What was in that nerd's eyes was a quiet confidence...a self assurance that he knew who he was and what he was capable of doing. He didn't need any external validation...he was a peace with himself and the world.
Women are a whirlwind of emotion...and they subconciously crave that place of calm admist all of their feelings. On some level...she senses that in him and is very drawn to it.

Because the people (yes, women too) that label me as such ultimately have much lower self esteem than I do. Because they cannot comprehend how someone could love themselves so much or think of themselves so highly, they attempt to hit them with socially unwanted labels, in a subconscious attempt to 'knock them off their perch' and bring someone like me down to their level, hoping that I become more modest and humble.
I got tired long ago of attempting to appease everyone who couldn't handle my confidence level by attempting to return to their level, only to then have them attempt to bowl me over as they take my kindness for weakness. Women pull that shit so that they have a better chance of making you dance to THEIR music...as if!

Less is more...let their imagination do the work for you.

why are you so "attention whore"?
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Because he is attention starved.

What I'm saying is it's the subtle, seemingly behind the scenes stuff that make the difference...and if you can learn to become more aware of THOSE things, then you'll never second guess a read on a female ever again.

I just didn't allow myself to make all women responsible for the sins of a few...

...and the reason why my brother from another mother didn't enjoy reading that particular part is because women make enough excuses as it is...no need to assist them in that area and GIVE them a way out, while being self-defeatist in the process.

I guess that's why I'm the way I am. Once I became my own best friend, I actually ENJOY being alone. Is it healthy? Probably not...but it sure is effective!
I hate when people say 'I don't want to die alone'. Hey, dumbass!...EVERYONE DIES ALONE.

You basically become dependent on yourself for emotional support...you are no longer needy, or attention/approval seeking because you yourself is all the approval you need. There is a difference between liking/appreciating human interaction and NEEDING it...I no longer NEED it because I've gotten used to being my own best friend.
Once you get to this point, you will no longer ACT like you don't give a fuck...because you truly WON'T. That's when life becomes VERY interesting inDEED.

I enjoy having women spoil me...but if she does decide to test me, I can deal with that birch accordingly because I am already standing on my own two feet to begin with.

Very good. It's just another way that women try to use media to program us to what they _want_...but they are so goddammed nearsighted that they fail to realize that they truly don't want what they THINK they _want_. Unfortunately some, if not most men are buying this bullshit hook, line, and sinker.

Anyone will take a free lunch if you are offering...problem is most guys will offer the free lunch before even finding out if the bitch is even hungry or not.

It's persevering through times like these that illustrate the true measure of a man.
Whenever I'd hit the lowest of lows, I'd just tell myself that time will pass. The first time I did this I was like 17...I had done something that I knew I was in some seriously deep shit over. I was seriously contemplating running away. But then I told myself, 'Time will pass...one day I'll be 30
and look back on this day and realize how trivial it really was in relation to the rest of my life.'
I'm 37 now...and to be honest I can't even remember what I did that got me into so much trouble.
Even if I hit a rough patch now, I just keep on putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward, even when I don't want to...because I know that time will pass and that there is nowhere to go buy up!
Hope that helps.

Naw...not intentional at all...and by that I mean they they are not intentionally trying to bend men to their will. They ARE, however, intentionally looking for some sympathy and understanding. So, their motives are generally innocent. But, what they fail to realize is that it is doing much more harm for women than good.

It is truly a wonderful feeling NOT to NEED to have sex...of course I immensely enjoy rocking a woman's world, but I definitely don't feel the need to run out and make it happen.

Yes, treating them accordingly will achieve the same effect, plus is genuine. I personally am nice to a woman at first and give them just enough rope to hang themselves...and trust me, they ALWAYS
do. When they do, then I react accordingly, which is usually a straight up jerk/asshole cause that's what they got coming. This is doubly effective because not only are they getting that emotional roller coaster they crave, **they know that they deserve it.**
Like I always say, there is nothing wrong with being an asshole if they are asking you to be one.
Just don't be an asshole for no damn reason.

# NOTHING IS COINCIDENCE.

I can't change the world...all I can do is change MY world (which I'm always in the process of doing)...now, if enough people would take the initiative to change THEIR world as well, eventually it would change THE world.

"Do...or do not. There is no try." -Yoda

Exactly. I see who they are...I see their aim and I see their game. So, I just enjoy the game. See, the typical gold digger thinks she is gonna get you sprung off the pussy and then start hitting you for money and favors...they never expect that I'm going to fuck them completely silly...then the tables are turned because THEY become the ones who are whipped on DICK!

As I've said before, there are exceptions to everything...glitches in the Matrix, if you will. I speak in generalities, therefore everything I say _generally_ applies to just about everything. There are nice girls out there...girls who haven't been corrupted and girls who refuse to allow themselves to be corrupted. The catch is it's like winning the lottery...you may get lucky and get it the 1st ticket you buy, or you may buy a ticket every week until you die and never hit the jackpot. The main thing is that should you happen to stumble upon one, know what you are dealing with and treat her accordingly.
Then of course you have to decide if you are ready to keep a "keeper" yet...that is a whole other dilemma unto itself...

The women who are bitching are the ones who _aren't_ looking for good men.
I'm a fucking man...what other point of view matters?
You better check yourself before you wreck yourself.

- A keeper will have a lot of things in common and share a lot of common interests.
- As soon as you meet her, you will feel comfortable not nervous...regardless of how attractive you think she is.
- As ManniJa said, she will sacrifice for you. My keeper is 16 years my junior, and her mom isn't exactly thrilled that she is involved with me...but she doesn't let that stop her one bit. Keep in mind that she is Hispanic, which means that family is EVERYTHING. That is HUGE in my book.
- She will let you get away with shit that you shouldn't get away with...not saying to take advantage of this, but just be aware of it.
- She will not compete with you nor will she complete you...she will COMPLEMENT you. She knows how to cater to your ego and make you look even better when you are in public...she shares and enhances your spotlight, whereas most chicks want to steal the spotlight FROM you.
Remember...everything I've ever taught or spoken about can be used for evil or it can be used for good...much like most everything. Utilizing my methods can not only let you have a blast with the wrong women, but it can also ensure that you don't let the right one get away...and that you get her on YOUR TERMS.

Also, keepers have usually gone through some shit (i.e. a shitty relationship or two) already before you get to them. The difference between a keeper and most chicks though is where most chicks would allow themselves to become ruined by such adversity, the keeper is secure enough in herself to not let it change her a WHOLE lot...but to better recognize what she actually wants and needs to get out of a relationship (and in a man), which of course drives her appreciation of a real alpha male through the ROOF.

I'll say it once more...if you know what subtle signs to look for, you can draw confidence from knowing that you KNOW she is attracted to you. Geez guys...it really is that simple.

Haha I'm telling you! The more you're aware of, the less work you actually have to do to get much more consistent results...it's fucking beautiful!

Fate is fate...what will be WILL be. Have some faith...besides, you still have a ways to go working on yourself before you would be fully ready for your keeper anyway...have some faith that when you are ready, she will appear.

Honestly, it's like you _have_ to reach that 'zen' state just to draw them out and towards you. Like, the moment you absolutely don't give a fuck and have made peace with being single forever...here she comes! But being like that not only attracts them...it also **keeps** them almost effortlessly.
Even better, out of the 95%, maybe a good 7-10% can be 'saved'...in the sense that you are the man they have been waiting their whole life to meet and regardless of who they are and how that have been to other guys, they will respect your alpha and be your x-factor. So, find some solace in THAT.

You're only human, man...use logic to overrule it and keep on pushin'.

Because most guys problem isn't getting laid, per se...most guys turn become socially retarded around women.

Put her on dick punishment (DP).
DO NOT FUCK THE BITCH. I don't know how your guy's dynamic usually is, but sooner or later she's gonna wanna fuck. In the meantime, do not initiate. Let your actions show you're displeased...do not show any signs of affections whatsoever. She may think you are trying to be tough and that you will fold soon...that's what most guys do. **DO NOT**.
Eventually she will start coming on to you...DODGE HER ADVANCES. If she asks why, you tell her that she KNOWS why. That's when she'll be ready to listen to her cuss her out about acceptable and unacceptable behavior. If you just act like everything is fine and keep fucking the bitch, she will learn NOTHING.

I've dealt with women who were downright rude to EVERYONE...but with me they hung on my every word. It really is about having the right key for the right lock (vibe, personality, energy, etc).

Bottom line is, these men are meeting their NEEDS...and what a woman NEEDS isn't necessarily what she WANTS. In fact, most women aren't even aware of what they NEED to begin with.

How are men running out of time? We don't have a biological clock and we don't get old, we get
'distinguished'. Women are the ones who get 'old' and become 'cougars' and what not. There is no panic mode for us...if anything, we might hit a 'manic mode'...so many women and so little time by the time they decide we are worth chasing.

If you build it...they will come.

Like I said before...once you are completely and wholly at peace with yourselves...and love yourselves as well as maximize your potential (or at least on a solid path towards maximizing your potential)...your vibe will change...and the energy you will then be sending out will do most of the legwork for you as far as drawing out and/or converting keepers are concerned.
**If you build it...they will come.**

Bottom line: Don't worry about things you cannot control. If the bitch is gonna bounce, then that's what she's gonna end up doing no matter what you do.
I don't even bother to say anything anymore if I notice a woman I'm dealing with is showing subtle signs of liking someone else...what for? All it does is make ME look insecure...which pushes her out the door even faster...or at least unlocks the door so she can push it open.

Just be aware of it, mentally note it, and keep it movin'.
Like Iceberg would say...I get excited when a bitch leaves me...cause I know that something even BETTER is coming my way.

Plus, because unlike real pimps...we focus on becoming self sufficient. So whereas a real pimp could have a real financial dilemma on his hands if a bitch blows, **WE DON'T**.

Here's another way to look at it...whomever knocks your bitch is ultimately doing you a favor...because now you know for SURE that she wasn't built to last.

Looks have yet ANOTHER perspective:
Let's say my keeper pans out long term and we live happily ever after...we have a 16 year age difference. This means that while I was dealing with women who ultimately thought that they were too good for me, my keeper was still a little girl somewhere, oblivious.
In other words, your keeper, depending on your age, may not have even been BORN YET.

Remember...women THINK they know what they WANT in a man, but most really have no fucking idea what they really NEED in a man.

In a way, we both qualified for each OTHER...but yes, you could say that I was...I was just trying to let her know what she was getting into. That said, I don't mind qualifying myself for someone I feel is worth qualifying for. I'm always upfront about my son too...not too many woman are that sincerely eager to care for a man's child from another woman. So many things about her just scream
'KEEPER!' to me.

It varies per woman...but mostly confidence will open many a door.

Best way to attain confidence is to be content with yourself...do whatever you have to do to get to that point. Set long range goals and stick to them...just being on the path will give you almost the same amount of confidence as if you had arrived.
Also, by being observant...knowing what to look for. If you see what you see, it is what it is...you can draw confidence knowing that you KNOW she likes what she sees.
It's like being nervous about taking a hard test...BUT, if you had an answer key to that test hidden under your leg, and you KNEW that all of those answers were CORRECT...you wouldn't be very nervous anymore, would you?

If a guy has his shit together and is truly alpha, then he's not going to foreign countries specifically to meet women...he's just SIGHTSEEING.

Agreed...I LIVE for my woman to get hit on...it's a nice reminder that a desirable woman desires ME.

I don't fall for overly dramatic tears...if they are warranted, I can be sympathetic...otherwise, I focus less on the tears and more on the face behind them...the one that is trying to GET OVER ON ME.

My guess is to tend to get too heavy and too involved too fast with women who aren't ready for all of that yet.
In other words, you fall in love too damn fast...at least in HER eyes, regardless how you feel about it.
Women NEED a challenge...if you make it TOO easy for them they lose interest VERY quickly.
Remember, the less you care, the more they WILL...so you might want...hay...NEED to be more like me and my posse to get the results you desire. Plus, my gut tells me you still place women on a pedestal, be it consciously or subconsciously...and putting out that kind of vibe fucks you as well.

Let me get this straight..so basically...what you are telling me is she is the one who will ultimately decide if you two split up or not?
Listen to your gut, not your heart...
I'll tell you this tho...if you dump that bitch with authority, she will change her ways faster than I typed this.

Generally speaking they are ungrateful. Why? Because they are ENTITLED to such treatment, and if you're lucky, they *might* let you fuck them.

When you no longer have fear of losing something....you then gain EVERYTHING.

Simply put, because she believed in him and was in love with him. If a woman is in true love with you (about as close to unconditional as you could possibly get), which of course to us means that your Value to her is so high that it is off of her charts, there is NOTHING that she wouldn't do for you. NOTHING.

When you finally stop resisting and accept your faults...they become faults no longer...they transform into unique strengths that can only be properly wielded by YOU.

Like everything else...just trust your gut...it'll tell you when and when not to.

Simple...
# STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF

That's how it works...once you stop trying...once you let go and FREE YOUR MIND...everything just 'happens'.

when the time comes, you don't find keepers...they find you.

# THERE IS NO SPOON.

Do something because you want to...not just because you _can_.

When you KNOW you can do something whenever YOU want to...suddenly it's no big deal to you at all.
I get so much pussy thrown at me on a daily basis that the novelty is gone at this point.

What I mean is, basically...she will complement you as you will her...your strengths will cover her weaknesses, and vice versa. You two become a team, like Batman and Robin...ready to take on the world...TOGETHER.

Simple...stop narrowing your focus and pay attention.

Gotta put in the work to get the results....practice and time is what I benefitted from most...

I didn't do anything different from what I've outlined...I just had a laser like focus because I wanted it that damn badly. If you want something bad enough, you'll do what it takes to get it.

Sooner or later, all my female friends try to fuck me IF they feel like a golden enough of an opportunity is presented.

Are you kidding? Women out-think, out-wit, and out-maneuver men all day, EVERY DAY.
TELL 'EM, 'GRINUS!

All the answers you seek have been posted in this forum time and time again...you should stop asking redundant ass questions and just READ sometimes.

Help me help you...by, first off, helping YOURSELF.

**ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS BE PATIENT AND LET YOUR WORDS HIT HOME.**

The truth will ALWAYS set you free.

The way I see it, talk is cheap...so if my gut tells me it's okay, I don't mind overwhelming my prey with infalliable logic.
Also depends on my read of the target...some women need more measurement than others...

...and it's not a method...it's a MINDSET.

How hard is it? HE DOES WHATEVER THEY WANT HIM TOO. He has women...on THEIR
terms...and I guess he is okay with that.

Stop trying to be and just BE...trust your gut, not your mind.

When I was overseas in the military...the catalyst for my awakening...I definitely couldn't get it when I wanted it. I was still indifferent there as well. I've just always felt like either a woman is going to fuck me or she won't...for reasons explained and/or unexplained...either way, it just elicits a giant shrug from me. What will be...WILL be...what is supposed to happen WILL happen. That's the crux of my mindset I suppose.
You can only control YOURSELF...what the rest of the world decides to do around you will happen regardless.

Basically, you do whatever it is you want to do...minus the feeling that you can't do things without someone else company. Like some people just can't go to a movie theater by themselves and enjoy a movie...I have no such problem. Just get into yourself.

thank yourself for allowing yourself to be open minded enough to receive the gift that keeps on giving.

When you PLAY it out, you get played.
But when you LAY it out...

It's one of those 'ignorance is bliss' things...the more you know, the more you wish you _didn't_ know.
Being in and maintaining a relationship is hard for me to do because I am so tuned in to subtlety and subconcious ongoings...makes it hard for me to share what little bit of feeling and emotions I have left with anyone. I'm trying really hard for my keeper's sake, but it's not easy...

Hell, I STILL make mistakes...it's just that now they are usually microscopic and easy for me to recover from...meaning that I'm usually the only one who knows I messed up.
Making the mistakes is what reinforces the learning...if you're not out there fuckin' up while building your foundation you ain't doin' it right.

Affirmations are like Dumbo's magic feather...I'd you think you need them, you do. If you think they work for you...then they do. Could Dumbo fly without his 'magic feather'? Indeed he could.
Did he think he could? **NO**...but when he _had_ to fly without it, he **DID**.
Get it?

When I'm observing, and I see a 'hot chick'...I might think, 'Yeah, she's attractive...'...and that's about it. But, if I notice she might be jocking, then I might look around and think, 'Hmmmm...looks like she is checking me out...because I don't see any direct competition anywhere in my immediate vicinity.'.
Never needy, never invested...ALWAYS logical.

In fact, it is actually less like observing and more like learning and interpreting a new language...when you learn a new language, you spend most of your time interpreting what others are saying. Whilst interpreting, you are not putting any slants or spins on ANYTHING...all you are doing is trying to figure out what they are saying as ACCURATELY AD POSSIBLE so that your response and behaviors are APPROPRIATE TO THE SITUATION.

For one, you never really know if you 'have' her or not...you never know what curveballs life will throw. Remember...she CHOOSES who she wants to be with...I don't have much control over that.
That said, she knows I'm a flirt, so I'll never have blinders on...hell, sometimes we'll even talk a about a girl she might have seen me looking at. She might say something like, 'Yeah, she gotta BIG
booty...you like that huh?' and we'll laugh.
That said, I take relationships very seriously...I'm big on giving and keeping trust and respect. So, if and when I ever decide to be exclusive with someone, I wouldn't cheat. Honestly, I'd much rather be at home working through my enormous backlog of videogames or producing music than running around trying to get an STD to pass on to my beloved.

1) When I became the man she met and fell in love with again...even though he was borderline a complete bastard, she treated the best she had treated me in a LONG time. Fancy THAT!
2) The one that cares the least is the leader of the relationship. Write that one down!
Here is the **BIG GROUNDBREAKING** one that I've been building up to...
**HAVING THE WRONG MINDSET AFFECTS YOUR SEXUAL PERFORMANCE. No,**
really!

Remember...all an X-Factor is...is a regular woman who super appreciates your value set. Other than that, normal rules of engagement apply. You still have to finish how you start no matter what...that is what attracted her to you in the first place, regardless of how YOU feel about it. That said, she IS an X-Factor for ME...I just have to stay consistent.

WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL ENOUGH and have a hard enough time dealing with their own emotions as it is! They don't NEED to be dealing with their emotions and their man's emotions simultaneously!

You are NOT SUPPOSED to be looking at hot chicks, waiting for them to check you out...you are supposed to be looking to see WHO IS checking you out!
Consider this: Maybe what you have been programmed by the media to be attracted to...isn't naturally what is attracted TO YOU.
Now...consider THIS: What actually likes you MIGHT **NOT** be what usually likes you. Not saying that only overweight women want you (I attract a lot of heavier women myself for some odd reason...and I'm not into that ), but, like I said...stop looking at what YOU like...and start looking for what likes YOU. Make a list of like characteristics that most women that DO jock you share...do this long enough and you will see a pattern emerge...and chances are that your actual TYPE isn't what you THINK IT IS.

I think it's very possible and highly enjoyable if both parties go into it with the right mindset and the right reasons. Unfortunately, there are so many fragile variables involved that it is really hard for members of our global society to successfully pull off. It's a beautiful thing when it works but catastrophic when it doesn't.

I'm still plenty emotionally interested in my main squeeze...it's just boils down to the matter of knowing when she NEEDS to SEE IT. Doesn't matter about how I FEEL about it or when I WANT
to show it...you have to condition yourself to show your vulnerability when SHE NEEDS TO SEE
IT.
The cold part of it all is, just as you realized the who 'caring less is essential' bit (which, to clarify, I've known about for years but just added it to my bullet points for the masses), I realize that sex is better the more you submit to the other person... **HOWEVER!!** ...it is something that men SHOULDN'T DO and women need to LEARN HOW TO DO. Allow me to attempt to explain...
Usually when a man climaxes, he is done for awhile, depending on his refractory period. A woman can have multiples without skipping a beat. THEREFORE...if your woman submits to you and you do not submit to her...she ends up having the best sex OF HER LIFE because her submission =
multiple orgasms + your non-submission = the ability to grant her those multiple orgasms...SEE?

A woman NEEDS to be fucked PROPERLY...most women think they know what great sex is but really have no idea because the way our society has them programmed, **THEY HAVE NEVER**
**SUBMITTED TO MAN TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE ACTUALLY MISSING!**

Not really...if they desire something...then it is a WANT. Women NEED to submit in order to 'feel right'...if not they will go through life always feeling like something is amiss...even when their life is perfect on paper. And yes, it can go both ways...most women nowadays view submitting to a man as a sign of weakness thanks to the feminist agenda...but the reality is they don't really understand what submitting to a man actually entails. It does NOT involve giving up who you are as an individual and being assimilated...so any ladies reading this PLEASE KNOW THIS.
Some guys do NOT give them the space to submit because they are too busy attempting to fill that space with their own submission...which is kind of what I artificially attempted to do TO A POINT.
Very good points, freespirit.

I guess you are...the answers you are looking for are currently present and accounted for in this thread...it just appears that you are not yet prepared to handle this truth. I admit, like StevieP said, it's a hard pill to swallow...but no one ever said the red pill wasn't.
Be well, friend.

You do...because it is in YOUR power to not do what you WANT to do...but what NEEDS to be done...that is the true measure of a man.

In all seriousness, it's the fact that cats like 'Grinus and I actively run scenarios, including ones like this, in our brains CONSTANTLY, have fully accepted The Matrix that we live in, and can handle any and all truths, regardless of how disheartening, depressing or foundation splitting they might be is what has allowed us to be how we are today. We might think about the steak from time to time, but we dare not eat it, because we KNOW IT IS BULLSHIT.

Nope...your spoon is just another spoon...and there are NONE.

Women don't apologize for anything because they are never held accountable for anything.

The crux of the matter is this...most women never change because most men nor society provide them with any motivation, stimulus, or, ultimately, one single damn reason good enough TOO bring about change. Women are left to do whatever they want to do because the average guy wants to fuck her or keep on fucking her. They are afraid that if they don't bend to their will, she will leave. It is that fear of loss that ultimately gives this bitches free reign to do whatever they want.

Yup...emotions in check and logic up front.

No...I was never that damn egotistical to think that every single woman on the planet should want me. I just dealt with the ones that did like me (which like Tony Montana said, was MORE than enough to deal with) and didn't give the ones that did NOT like me A SECOND THOUGHT.
You really need to put your delusions of granduer to bed...the sooner, THE BETTER.

That ego has GOT to GO, son!

I've said many times that the way to women is via self improvement (i.e. if you build it, they will come)...the main thing you should walk away with is a renewed heightened sense of self esteem...once you feel better about yourself, everything else just kind of falls in to place.
Bottom line is this: the skill set that 'Grinus and I purport to everyone here with the main focus to attract and keep the attention of women can be used in almost any other facet of day-to-day life. As
'Grinus stated earlier...he was dealing with people at work very emotionally detached and logically...and I would have loved to have been a fly on the wall of THAT meeting.
However, in order to motivate people to learn new skills, you have to package it with something that is universally appealing. For men, attracting women consistently is VERY appealing. The ones that do get it soon realize (it's not a huge leap) that the mindset they worked so hard to acquire translates very well to almost all other human interactions and behaviors with little addendum...and THAT is the SECRET SAUCE!

Well, I can't speak for 'Grinus...but, for me, it initially started with wanting to be better dealing with women. As I got better with observing, my brain just naturally began to apply it to everything...and it really just kind of went from there. When questions would finally get answers...those answers would raise yet more questions. It never gets old... the observation, analyzation and practical application of human behavior in modern society is the most interesting thing in the world to me. It wasn't all peaches and cream...and (and I know 'Grinus has too) had to face and accept a lot of harsh truths on the way...that just comes with the territory. You either have a thing for it that pushes you to these heights...or you don't.

Improving yourself is for YOU...attracting women is merely a pleasant side effect.

OF COURSE SHE'S CHANGED...Marquee Value works WONDERS for the primadonna
mindset...duh...

Besides, she thought nothing about treating him poorly 10 years prior...why should he feel bad now? Women use this sympathy you have for them against you without a second thought...which is why **I DO NOT HESITATE TO MAKE THEM DAMN NEAR SUICIDAL IF THEY GIVE**
# ME HALF THE CHANCE.

Every woman is different with a different agenda...but the commonality is this: As long as you are giving them what they NEED, you can DO whatever you WANT.

It's really quite simple: People can't handle the truth...therefore they choose not to acknowledge it.

It's the path a woman chooses to walk...the stance she chooses to take...the morals and values she instills for herself that determine her self worth and the respect she receives from others.
Also, the grade of woman a man decides to involve himself with is also a direct reflection of the man himself. Like attracts like. Needy men with low self esteem and/or who lack the discipline to keep themselves in decent shape end up with bar girls...whereas I am fully confident that I could woo any Miss Thailand if I truly felt the need to.

Right but see...since women are the 'choosers', your opinion ultimately matters not, see? While you are stuck on waiting for a certain face type to finally approve you, you are missing out on so many other beautiful women who may be chomping at the bit to get your attention...and would do almost anything and everything to keep it.
I don't even have a type...my women are all over the MAP! I don't know what I like until I see it...and by that I mean that I usually take inventory of who likes me then pick the ones I like best.

Therefore, back to analogy land, I'm merely seeing everyone who is ready to bid on me TODAY...and then I choose the highest bidder.

The end result seemed the same?!?
You just went from a 10% success rate (1 out of 10) to a 100% success rate (1 for 1), saved yourself a whole lot of time and unecessary chatter and uncomfortableness in the process, and still think it feels the SAME?
What the hell am I going to do with you guys?

Traits? It really just boils down to confidence and indifference...you have to love yourself before others can love you. Confidence can manifest itself in many forms...strong yet relaxed and open body language is one manifestation of it. But basically, once you become your own best friend, achieve the Vibe of Contentment and no longer TRULY care about whether you deal with women or not (indifference) is usually when they start just swarming you.

Before my teachings you didn't know the difference between your gut and overthinking something...get it right.
Plus you couldn't interpret what your gut was trying to tell you nearly as well...those days are far behind you...accept it.

Just you know...I can see the ego work you are putting...and it is appreciated...but ultimately, it is for YOUR benefit, not mine...I hope you know that.

The only two that are universal traits that women find attractive are confidence and indifference...the former they are aware of ...the latter they are not. This is the reason ehy you werent able to _see_ indifference...its something you feel, not see. Women cant even discern it...its just something that they REACT to...see?
It's the conscious/subconscious one-two punch knock out combo

Trust your gut, pay attention and look for the truth behind the truth.

NOTHING IS A COINCIDENCE.

You gotta find the balance...it took YEARS for me to accept that ball stealing was a necessary tool in the box that I NEED to use sometimes to get what you want. If you want IN...you HAVE to do what needs to be done to get past security my friend.
You're gonna learn the hard way like I did that setting yourself up for the ball steal is necessary at your age right now...the sooner you come to terms with this, the better.

What? My stuff isn't accelerated enough for you?
There is no quick and easy way to build a strong, long lasting foundation.

We don't need namby pambys here anyway...we need MEN who are receptive to coming to terms with what is quite frankly a very harsh reality.

This forum gets real world RESULTS that are PERMANENT. If they are that damn soft then they can keep their candy asses over there and keep on helping women all over the world make choosing me over them a NO BRAINER.

The way to gain access is to pique her curiosity...why SHOULD she get to know you? Your overall confidence and indifference...not free drinks...is what will ultimately tilt the scales in your favor.

Haha yeah...if they cant handle me in an online forum...then they don't stand a CHANCE with real live women!

Dunno too much about this frame business...but basically you have to get to the point where you truly don't care if she talks to you or not. Then, as you interact with her with that genuine, congruent vibe, she won't understand why but she will be VERY interested to get to know YOU.

Yes. The A-Bomb in your stomach. Get to know it.

All indifference is...is that you truly don't care if it happens or not. You are not attached to the outcome. If I go out to a nightclub, and it's getting late and I haven't gotten a single phone number yet, I wouldn't feel panicked like I need to kick it into high gear and make something happen or else going out that night was a waste of time. I just leave and take my ass to sleep...no stress, no anxiety, no pressure.
Or, let's say a woman wants to fuck me. Most guys would be chomping at the bit trying to get her over to the house before she 'changes her mind'. Me? We'll get around to it when we get around to it...no rush. She's the one missing out, not me.
THIS is what indifference means to ME.

Indifference isn't so much a goal as it is a side effect.

All the answers are here...thanks for taking the time and keeping an open mind. I've always said the Red Pill is VERY hard to swallow...but if you want REAL CHANGE bad enough...you'll find a way to do it.
My method IS universal...that's why Iulian pissed me the fuck off. The key is you have to "FREE
YOUR MIND" in order to get it, see?
As far as your quick-to-nut problem...I would wager that you are more concerned about pleasing yourself than pleasing the woman, be it consciously or subconsciously. Introspect on it, chew on it...and THEN discuss.

Thanks for taking the time and keeping an open mind...and you're welcome.
The Red Pill is a hard swallow...but once you get it down, everything finally starts to make sense.

I think we talked about this...if a woman IS jocking you but you don't convert, it doesn't mean that she is any less attracted to you. Maybe her mom just died...maybe she's trying to be a good girlfriend...maybe she'a already committed herself to see someone else...maybe she has a stomach ache.
Bottom line is...if you see it, it is THERE.

It only gets better with time, my friend...it only gets better with time...and time is on YOUR side.

A little of both I guess. Marquee Value has turned out to be even more powerful than I initially visualized...I literally have more women coming at me that I can deal with timewise...between work, my hobbies, music production, my keeper and dealing with you yahoos ( ), I really don't have much time to entertain many extracurricular women.
Life is good.

Basically, I've maximized my potential to a level I am finally very comfortable with. With that comes a whole new level of indifference and contentment.

Your lack of inner peace comes from the fact that you haven't maximized your potential to a level that you feel comfortable with yet. Meditation isn't gonna fix that shit...YOU have to fix that shit.
But, here is a trick that may help you out...as long as you are on the PATH to getting there, your vibe will feel like you ARE there, because you know it's a sure thing and you see it coming. Like a college basketball player who knows he's gonna get drafted into the pros...he's not a pro yet, but his SWAGGER is already that of an NBA rookie...see?
You don't have to be the man right now...just knowing that you are going to BE the man is good enough. Now, this is assuming you are currently on that path. If you are not, put down the Hooey and pick up YOUR LIFE!

If he _really_ wants help, he needs to sit his ass down, read and APPLY.

Bro, coming here is your chance for REAL CHANGE...I suggest you take it.

Not really...I enjoy making bitches suffer if I feel the suffering is warranted.
But you are still correct, fufe. Sniper is still doing baby shit...I'm all about reducing them to a puddle of tears like they might have tried to do to me at one time...except I then stand there, shove her face in it and try to drown her ass in her own tears.
That's how I roll!

Retribution.
Don't misunderstand...it's actually quite effortless. They do all of the work in their minds...and then when they show up with their bullshit I just shove it back down their throat. They had no problem hurting or trying to hurt me or treating me insignificantly at one point...all I'm doing is something that NO MAN TAKES THE TIME TO DO...SHOW them the error of their ways and make them damn near suicidal in the process! It's actually one of my favorite hobbies.

Eye for an eye, brother....eye for a fucking eye.

I'm not after the whole world...just the bitches that are asking for it.

Feminine has the same potential as masculine...they can be used for good as well as evil. It's never the energies fault...it's the person who wields the energy's fault.
It's like gasoline...you can use it to fuel emergency vehicles that can save lives....or you can throw on someone's house and burn it to the ground with the occupants inside. It's your call.

Sure I've had women give me the 'ultimatum' plenty of times...either I conform to whatever terms she making or she's not going to deal with me. I always think it's funny. When I refuse, a few things could happen:
a) They play hard for awhile then eventually fold because they are bluffing and I am their best option.
b) They move on to guys that are willing to meet their demands then check in with me 10 years later.
c) I never hear from them again.
Except for option A, they will ALWAYS live to regret not locking me in regardless of terms in the end.

They try all sorts of things...dating other guys (usually that you are familiar with) and making it a public spectacle so that I can't miss it...attempt to make me feel guilty for not being a 'man' (per societal guidelines)...try to convince me that they are the best thing I will ever get...how lucky I am to have this opportunity because SOOOOOO many guys are barking up their tree...the list goes on and on.
...and as far as that article goes, I agree with some of it. I don't want a pushover...I need a woman that can handle business on her own. But I also need a woman who will check me when I get out of line and will respect my opinion if it makes more sense than hers and vice versa. I need a teammate, not a cheerleader. That article has it ultimately wrong tho...you can be a strong, self guided woman without being a bitch...those are the sexiest ones.

That is a legitimate concern...it really is important to proceed with knowing that a fine distinction must be made early on to lay the correct foundation. You want to make it known that you will not tolerate certain behaviors, but also that you are NOT changing the individual. That is KEY.

Just because your ego means well doesn't mean it's doing the right things.

I myself was once an outcast...which made me force myself to understand the behind the scenes of many things that non-outcasts take for granted...and now you, fellow outcasts, are benefitting from the fruit of my labor.

Being pretty is physical...being sexy is like a vibe...an energy. Have you ever seen an average, girl next door type of chick that might not have been a total looker but just the way she carried herself, walked and talked made you want to fuck her silly? THAT'S SEXINESS!

Yup...you didn't get her...she got YOU. Bit of a turnoff, ain't it?

You wanna be yourself, but what you describe is low self-esteem related posturing. In other words, you still have a lot of inner work you should be doing before you start trying to do much approaching.
You gotta spend a lot of time in the gym before you enter your first weightlifting competition.

Exactly...you can't be yourself if you've never found yourself.

My posture isn't relaxed because my hamstrings are loose...my posture is relaxed because I know that I have the upper hand with any woman I decide to talk to...and they know that I'm doing THEM
the favor.
I just don't understand how some of you guys fall for this fucking bullshit every damn day...I really dont.

Get/give/exchange numbers quicker than that then VANISH...leave them wanting more. I never indulge in PDA (Public Display of Affection) UNLESS it's my main squeeze. Word to the wise.

See, most guys in into sex just for their own self gratification. Once they can change their mindset to view sex as less about them and more about the woman does the magic truly start to happen.
I've had women in my life who where begging me for some dick while their boyfriend was begging them for some pussy...that right there illustrates the powerful dynamic involved once you stop doing for you and start doing for them.

Because you are doing something to her that no man has ever done...and therein lies our power.

Always take pride in your appearance...it is part of your front.

The key is not too deny yourself the desire...just don't act on it incessantly. Every now and then a window will present itself for me to give my main squeeze some affection...and that's when I indulge. Other than that, you have to have the self discipline to maintain a steady routine...indulge in affection too much and too often and the moment you stop, you aren't the man she fell in love with anymore.
Use it sparingly, and it is the spice of life...use it carelessly, and it is the kiss of death.

There is an adjustment period that can vary in length and intensity per individual. I liken it to when Neo first understood the matrix when Morpheus showed him the coppertop battery and when they pulled him out of the simulation he puked and passed out. It really is a lot to take in and acclimate to.
I went through a period of depression and anger as well...but I didn't fight it and was very much aware of my actions. Like it or not, we HAVE to interact with polite society to once you understand that it is something that NEEDS to be done, your transition will be that much more easier.

You were an ego boost for her...once she knew she could have you she was over it.

All an X-Factor is...is your average chick who, because your front and clout are damn near exactly what she is looking for subconciously and consciously (in addition to intangibles like your moral/value set), almost instantly submits and lets you lead with little to no resistance.
In other words, the more you maximize yourself, the greater number of women will 'transform' into an X-Factor...for YOU. It's like the anti-Agent Smith in the sense of his ability to become any person who sees you...kind of like that.
My keeper probably wouldn't be your keeper...hell she might even try to run you into the ground.
But for me, there isn't much she wouldn't do. You can apply the converse to whomever your keeper turns out to be, but honestly, my skeleton key fits a loooooooooot of locks.

Just remember folks...if your girl is ever around me and she chooses The Kidd!!....don't get mad at me or her...get upset with YOURSELF.

The fact that I am ambitious and have my shit together is what dropped her defenses that allowed her to get to know me and seal her fate...in a GOOD way.
Conversely, my keeper has a lot of potential as well...I don't want all looks and no brains/potential either.
Put it this way...if MY keeper was broke with a shit job and had no ambition or taking action to better her situation, she wouldn't be my keeper.
Rememeber folks...we are essentially using women's tactics against them...so I use their criteria when picking from who is choosing me.

No. Gold diggers look for higher value. X-Factors pretty much just don't want you to be a bum with no ambition. There is a BIG difference...and your gut will be instrumental in helping you make the determination.

...and they WILL have those traits...if **YOU** are what they are looking for!

I don't really care how she treats others...although my lil mama is generally nice to most everyone.
If she wasn't, Im sure it would be something I could work on her with. Honestly, I actually have a thing for women who are mean as hell to everyone else BUT me.

Yep...when you give a woman the space to be herself...and can observe well enough to address her needs...man, that is when the magic truly happens.

It's their perception...show it's never know exactly which woman will value WHAT.

Being aggressive works great for achieving goals and getting things that you want.
It works HORRIBLY for getting and keeping people in your life.
So...in order to win/win, work hard and tirelessly on your goals...as those fall into place (as well as your pre occupied vibe), women will follow suit.

Does he have them?...or do they have HIM?

Then there you go...you must decide what are pros and what are cons. Personally, I am and have always been very lazy (an endearing trait of people with above average intelligence ), which is why my method focuses on women doing most of the work to get you...because I just feel I have better things to do and concern myself with.
If it seems like the lifestyle for you, give it a try. Me personally...I just don't think the results are worth the effort.

Rather than feel down about this 'loss'...revel instead in the fact that beautiful women no longer have power over you. Now, because you are no longer enamored with them, they will become more and more enamored with YOU.

In retrospect, I am not lazy...I am just extraordinarily efficient.

Moral of this story? A woman will only be able to get what you allow her to have. Once you lose the fear of losing them, they gain the fear of losing you.

The point is an X-Factor WANTS to please you and be with you...and you can use that as her motivation to change.
...and I'm not taming her at all...I'm merely making her aware of things that no other man ever bothered to make her aware of. She actually thanks me often for taking the time to make her a better woman.
So that said, compared to your average gold digging, maliciously self centered bitch, my keeper is a JOY to interact with.

Dumbo believed in his magic feather...but that was ultimately not the reason he could fly.

They never learned how to be their own best friend...therefore they cannot be alone.

Always use the KISS principle...
Keep
ItSimple...Stupid.

1st you have to disassociate the negativity you have placed on being smaller in stature. Once you do that, anything is possible.

Nope...girls are just as raunchy as we are...if not even more so. Those that know me can attest that my keeper's physical appearance and the way she carries herself fits the sweet and innocent profile...believe me...she is anything BUT.

EDIT: One more thing...he was saying WAY too much. Less is more...you don't have to tell a woman that if sexual attraction is there you'll fuck her after coffee...if it's there she will definitely give you all the green lights you need to help her take it there. Talk about taking all of the mystique out of the equation...

That said, Lyons did not 'get' her...she got 'him'...because to him, she was 'the prize'. So now she runs circles around him, spends all his money and makes out with random guys publicly and with reckless abandon because HE is the one scared of losing HER.
It is truly a testament of the end result of PUA...this is what chasing a girl and conforming to HER
gets you...a fine bitch who truly could give a fuck whether you stay or leave...and then will dare you to leave her the whole time while simultaneously threatening to leave you.
Since they are worried about losing their women, they do whatever they fuck they **WANT** them to do. Since I'm not afraid of losing my woman, I do whatever the fuck I **NEED** to do as a MAN.

For the record, if you are doing it right, you CAN'T over do it, because there is nothing to over do.
It just is.
YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG.

Stop acting.

Trust your gut!

because if you were TRULY indifferent instead of TRYING TO BE indifferent, you just wouldnt have given a fuck.

No prob...with this chick, you are not indifferent...you are INVESTED. Cool down, introspect, and deal with it. Most of all, learn from this, as experience is ALWAYS the best teacher.

I am VERY indifferent with my keeper...doesnt mean I love her any less or show less affection. Just means that I understand that I have no control over what people decide to do and am at peace with that. If she were to leave me today, I truly wouldn't even flinch. Ironically, I'm sure it's this mindset that keeps her around lol!
Maybe you are confusing indifference with apathy?

You guys are assuming that you cannot properly love your woman while being indifferent...I'm telling you that you CAN. My keeper is VERY happy with the way I am towards her. Doesn't make me any less loving, affectionate or caring. You guys really just are not getting where I'm coming from.

When you are doing it right, it's the woman who is trying to complete that laundry list of sappy shit.

Are you serious? Last I checked, most women don't stick around for orgasms.

If she only wants to fuck you, then that's what she'll do.

As Arnold said in the movie Twins, "You moved too soon."
That said, she was interested...she just fronted on you because to her...feeding her ego was more important to her than fucking you.
Don't forget fellas...a chick can be sexually attracted to you all day long but still front in the end because she has her own agenda whatever it maybe...it could be as petty as ego (as per Bonder's example...she 'got off' on the power trip of knowing she could have these men) or as noble as not doing it because she knows she would fall hopelessly in love with you and since she is a control freak she just will not allow herself to go there (I've been in that boat...long story).
Her agenda was that she already had a boyfriend for the coitus...so being a female in a predominantly male arena, she enjoyed getting her kicks from leading on then rejecting guys like you.
But make no mistake...ultimately it wasn't her boyfriend that stopped her short...it was her ego.
Anyway, the way to deal with such females if you are particular to a intimate outcome is to front blast them...or basically call them out and throw whatever evidence you've 'stacked' in their face.
Depending on how well you can finesse the front blast, she may raise the white flag right then and there or not too much farther from then.

Yeah...she thought you would be different but then she discovered you were no different than the others when touch came to cuddle...she was disappointed.

In the future, set boundaries like as if YOU were the woman. YOU be the one to decline her cuddle time and be like' 'I think this is inappropriate since you have a boyfriend and all...I think we should just keep it friendly so that neither of us get any mixed messages.'...and then let your actions back up your words.
That would have REALLY fucked her head up.

If you have read any of my posts at all, then you know that everything I say, that I AM...is the direct result of YEARS of inner work.

Then maybe it's time to sit down, figure out what path you want for your life...then spend your time and energy working towards that goal instead of worried about women. Once you truly no longer care about them, then the magic will start to happen. Right now you are still too invested in women and outcomes...and it us fucking up your whole vibe. You have your whole life ahead of you...make it count.
I'm 38...when I was 20 women were just as retarded to me as they are to you. Use this time wisely...I wish I had.

I was not fortunate to have information at my fingertips like you guys do now. All I had was Iceberg Slim's book, and the nuts to go thru a whole lot of trial and error. So be mindful of that as your ego puts words in your mouth.
That said, I can guarantee that my foundation is much more solid that yours will ever be because I didnt have the answers given to me...I HAD TO WORK FOR THEM.
The 'fast' or 'quick and easy' path will always yield decent short term results...but you will falter in the long term unless you have a solid, foundational mindset. You may never admit it, but you will come to a crossroad in life one day when these words I have written today WILL ring true...

I don't feel like I'm putting a lot of work with my woman per se...I'm just doing what I have to do to ensure a solid foundation for our relationship. The things I 'work on' with her are things she is not aware of and are by-products of her environment and being plugged into The Matrix since birth...I mean it kinda just comes with the territory. My girl overall is wonderful...a down ass chick through and through.

those women just haven't been put in the right environment to bring it out of them. When I was overseas, I watched otherwise average looking, faithfully married women become drunk with power of realizing that the environment they were in made them goddesses for a year. Women are women...PERIOD.

It's what I've been saying the whole time, Dr. Awesome...it's not about giving them what they WANT...it's about meeting their NEEDS.
Resonance, everything will make a lot more sense soon enough. I remember vividly when I was where you currently are. It was a cold, desolate place of no hope. Difference is...I didn't have a support group...just my cousin, who luckily was my 'Student 0'. Look at it this way...I currently have a wonderful keeper who, while not perfect, is trying her darndest to become my everything.
The key is that once the shock and anger subsides, like Neo, you will instead focus on being amazing within The Matrix...and learn to reverse the game on women to get them on YOUR terms.
Its a whole different way of dealing with them that will clash with your freshly violated core values...but once you make peace with that, the world will be your oyster.

You don't need a system...just a mindset.

Yes...all of you...this is just a natural part of the process. There are some very hard truths that you MUST accept...but once you do, then things become REALLY interesting indeed.

Women are emotional by nature...men are logical by nature...it is the natural balance of things.

Front and Clout at it's finest...and yet there was still something about you...looks like there is something irresistible about the right mindset.

Kind of...my mother was a 'man eater' and she was my single parent. Although when I would go to her for female advice she would read me the symp manual...when I read 'Pimp' and started to apply it's principles to my life, my transition was probably easier than most because of what I picked up from my mother _subconsciously_...just by being around her to observe how she dealt with men she was dating.
So to answer your question...in my case I did learn the reverse because I WAS raised solely by a woman (as was Iceberg)...the trick is it was indirectly and latent, rather than directly, obvious and in the forefront. Hope this makes sense.

Basically your gut tell you what to do and not to do because it's already processed everything on an instinctual level before you even hear/feel it. This is why you should ALWAYS heed it because it is always a few steps ahead of your cognition. Unfortunately what happens with most people is that they use their brains to 'undermine' their gut feeling...and that's usually when the trouble starts...

Women are fickle creatures BECAUSE they are emotionally based...so what logically adds up to a
"bond" to you today may be tossed into the wind by her tomorrow depending on her overall mood, outlook on life, variable stimulus into her life, and overall view on the "bond" in general. Not to mention if you had a drastic change...say, something traumatizing were to happen where you become a "broken" man for a spell and you are no longer the man she developed this "bond" for in the first place (regardless how fleeting this situation may be)...then you'll see just how strong your precious bond really was REALLY quickly.

with control comes restraint, and with restraint comes patience.

The REAL fun lies in reversing it...putting women that you know are interested in YOU in the friend zone and watching them squirm while they go into synapse overload trying to figure out a way to get YOU in the sack. Now THAT'S ENTERTAINMENT!

To answer the question...it is human nature to probe for weakness and exploit any said weaknesses.
As long as I discern it is not malicious, then as long as I put my foot down when I'm supposed to, it is of little concern.
Remember...when I deal with my girl, I am going against YEARS of environmental programming.
It comes with the territory.

Expect the worst but hope for the best...that's all you can do.

Why be disappointed? Do you get disappointed when a puppy shits in the house? NO!...because you know that sooner or later it HAS TO HAPPEN.

You've never gotten that gut feeling that screams at you to do something in certain situations dealing with women but you never listen to it? From now on, heed its call and you will no longer have that problem.

Not ALL women will cheat on you...especially if you are meeting their needs versus their wants.

In time, you'll be more seasoned to be able to discern true interest in you versus them meeting self interest ONLY.
You are just beginning your journey on the path, young one...it's not unusual to have high hopes for the first woman that you ever fucked.
Remember...NO ONE makes the first building jump.

...and those that know everything know when to shut the fuck up and let life happen.

How can she cheat on you if you were never hers to begin with?

Technically, yes...the sexes need each other in order for the species to continue to thrive.

Guaranteed its not over with her...she was just testing to see how you felt about losing access to her pussy...silly bitches!

you gotta learn to internalize more...only give women that you are dealing with what they need...nothing more...nothing less.

Just because you can't see it...doesn't mean that I can't see it either.

*sighs*...EVERYONE has self interest. The key is to understand that the best you can hope to achieve is sort of a parasitic symbiotic relationship...where both parties are getting what they want/need from each other. You may compromise some and she may compromise some...but in the end, the couple in question should come to agreeable terms, which is why great communication is so damn important...because the moment one or the other isn't getting what they thought they signed up for, it's a wrap.
That's why unconditional love can only truly exist between parents and their children...because they knew EXACTLY what they were getting into when children became part of the equation and what it entails. If you're really lucky, you may end up with a keeper that comes very close...but there will ALWAYS be a catch.
You guys need to get that unconditional love bullshit out of your heads already...

You need to work on your ball stealing, my friend. Adjust what needs to be adjusted to get past
'security'. If the general consensus is that you come off as too arrogant, then dial it down a bit.
If you are hellbent on macking chicks, you have to paint a picture to suit HER perspective...not force your perspective onto her. PM me if this concept isn't making sense.

Don't get upset...use this knowledge to exploit and circumvent the Matrix instead.

It comes from our mothers. We are raised to respect women at all costs...never to hit them, make them cry, do anything they don't want us to do, etc. Also, as young boys (some even as they get older into adulthood) constantly seek their mother's attention and approval, not unlike the converse with young girls. This hard wired behavior transitions over into relationships. Since we subconsciously tend to look for our mother's in our girlfriends/wives, the whole attention/approval thing carries over as well...because hey, when we did it, it made our mother's happy and seem to love us more, so it should work just as well with my significant other, right?
...and this is how the great con continues to perpetuate itself.

Nothing wrong with that. I love being underestimated...makes my life LOADS easier.

Stop trying and just be.

Well...all women are pimps by default. She seems more like a potential keeper to me...kind of reminds me of mine.

That's why I always say...fuck what they say...just watch what they do.

There is a fine line between mainpulation and incentive...I'm pretty sure Amy's 'actions' would fall squarely into the incentive category. Being an X-Factor has nothing to do with being manipulative...not saying that she CAN'T be...but if YOU are the one she chooses to be an X-Factor for, she will be persuasive...she will be persistent...she will be driven...but she will NOT be manipulative...not maliciously anyway.

Think about it...if you're trying to give women space to fill...what's the point in filling it for them?

Give them the space and the time to fill it...and they will. Why don't you just give it a try? What have you got to lose?

Some guys force themselves to be more man than they naturally are and it comes of as unauthentic.
That, or she was trying to soften you up a bit so she could get in edge wise cause she had no influence over you at all.

There's nothing you need to do...just continue being you're authentic self...that or learn how to compromise a little bit. Learn to give a little to gain a LOT.

Confidence and indifference is quite the one-two combination...KNOCK OUT!

The path to hell is paved with good intentions.

It's not always about what YOU want. Sometime you must consider other's perspectives as well.

It is societally accepted and expected for men to make the move...however, there are exceptions to the depending on any number of variables...mainly her perception of your value vs your indifference, time/availability (i.e. what she feels are the chances of ever seeing you again), your overall front/clout vs what she values, etc.

I'm big on visualization...substitute AFFirmation with CONfirmation and you've got a winning combination.

You've been here long enough...so you know what to do. Just grab your nuts, trust your gut and DO
IT.

Nope, you're right. You aren't letting him drag you down to his level for the sake of a bitch. I personally LOVE being underestimated...to the point where they are talking shit behind my back about what a bitch I am and how I have no game. How would I discover that he was doing so?
Their girlfriends would tell me, of course...as they lay naked in my bed with my man juice on their breath.
Bottom line: Always stay below the radar.

I know who I am and what I am capable of...and am very comfortable in my own skin...and I know what 'who likes me' looks like.

Your gut is never wrong.

Yep.
Let's cut the crap. We all are attached to outcome. We, as humans, whenever we put any sort of effort or energy toward anything we expect a result and HOPE that it is favorable for us. This is fact. If not, no one would do anything, because it is the possible/probable outcome that motivates us as a species.
So, when I say that I have no attachment to outcome, what I REALLY mean is that, if need be, I can override my emotional state with my logical state, logically assess the situation, and, based on my analysis, know whether I should stay the course or pull the plug. Should I decide to do the latter, because I'm in logical mode, I just execute. Sure, my emotional side may be climbing the walls with unrequited wants, desires and dreams unfufilled, but my logistical side has the final word.
Imagine this: A child with his mom in a toy store, and he sees a toy he wants...REALLY BADLY.
He asks his mom, she says no...HE THROWS A FIT. If the mom is a good mother and has her reasons, she will stand firm. SHE WILL NOT GIVE IN, no matter HOW BIG A TANTRUM her child throws. She might even spank him and would definitely verbally admonish him.
This is what you must develop your discipline up to a level where you can do this. This is what I mean when I say that I am unattached...because at any given moment, depending on my logical assessment, **I CAN BE.**
My ex used to say that sometimes I just seemed so cold and distant, like I could give a fuck. Like I could just leave her at any moment and not care. I never told her that she was right...but the day did come when I had to show her.

It's not easy to cultivate, because it is essentially and on/off button for your emotions, but once mastered, is probably one of the most lethal tools in my box of Ninja toys. Because sometimes...right when you say fuck it is when what ever you desired finally decides to desire you...and THEN the fun begins.

When I'm out with my girl, she is ALWAYS the one trying to hold my hand, play with my hair, or otherwise show signs that I am obviously taken. I could care less to do the same, which, conveniently, gives her the space to proceed with her agenda, and makes me look like the pimp I am.
Oh...and if you've had girls 'taken' this way, then they were never yours to begin with. In fact, once you get over the idea that a woman can be 'property', and understand that she is an individual who makes her own decisions, your path to indifference will be accelerated. After all, those guys didn't
'take' her...she CHOSE them.

That isn't your gut...it's that insecurity your brain is convincing you to indulge in. UGH.
Remember, what you WANT to do isn't necessarily what NEEDS to be done.
Ignore WANT (EMOTION)...focus on NEED (LOGIC).

Men have been selling out to gain favor with pussy for centuries.

Don't get too caught up with searching out the next great book to read...you have all the foundation and confirmation you need at this point. Neo didn't master The Matrix while doing simulations and speaking with Morphues, you know...less reading and more living.

You are not a woman...let your logic lead.

Trust me, AZT...it's your mindset and self defeatest/limiting mentality that is holding you back.

As long as you are out to get someone, you will ALWAYS be fucking up.
This ain't huntin'!...it's fishing.

I chalk it up to my intuitiveness. I've always been naturally intuitive...it just got ridiculous once I stopped allowing society to make me second guess myself. It's one of those things where, through observation and logical assessment over time, you can somewhat emulate rather effectively, but either you got it or you don't.
How do you know if you got it? Listen to your gut and STOP TALKING YOURSELF OUT OF
HEEDING WHAT IT TELLS YOU.

It all boils down to if she treats you how you want/need to be treated.

For the record, I understand female logic just fine...it's easy to comprehend something which does not exist.
you can't reason with the unreasonable.

The rabbit hole goes very deep, my friend.

Stop hunting and start fishing, doofus.

Oh we are still in the jungle...it's just a concrete jungle now. The same rules still apply...in order to make something of yourself it takes hard work and sacrifice...you won't have much time for women, which makes then want your time. See?

Catch a clue...things can only influence you if you allow them to. Now that you are consciously aware of The Matrix, it's like its no longer even there...to me at least.
Why are you still fretting over things up have no control over? You really need to re-evaluate your priorities.

Fill the void with yourself.

Yeah. Learning to be your own best friend has nothing to do with self intimacy...if anything, it's about self acceptance. Maybe Sniper is confusing intimacy with self love?

You're just as free to post what you want as I am to post my opinion on it. If you're feeling uncomfortable about it, that is something you should introspect on.

You don't try to let go...you just do.
...and ...just fucking live for yourself...because YOU want to.

I give a FUCK about what women WANT me to do...what do YOU think about THAT?

Don't stress about keepers, fellas...once you get your mind right, they will appear when they are supposed to...so take comfort in that and stay the course.
Mine appeared like a wild shiny pokemon...totally unexpected and the last thing on my mind...that's how it happens.

Indifference is not giving a fuck...PERIOD.

Stop worrying about shit that don't matter.

Your ego will ALWAYS fuck you over, my friend...

It's a give/take push/pull kind of thing...you've got to strike a balance...listening to your gut will help you find that balance. It just can't be all taking and no giving you know.

Moral of this story? Presentation ultimately doesn't matter...what matters is WHAT'S IN THE BAG.

Women usually get the better end of the stick because of how they approach marriage. If we are reversing the roles in that regard, where's the downside?

Because a part of you still believes that women just can't be the imperfect beings we have proved them to be...can't help you with that, mate.

A woman can only play you if you agree to play their game.

If I had spent all that time I spent entertaining women on myself, I'd be even farther ahead than I am now...this is one of my main regrets in my life right now. For my lady to be my one and only, BELIEVE me she DEFINITELY earned her spot.

What does your gut tell you?
It's time for you to start answering most of these questions on your own.

Everything is as it should be...it is by design.
Have some faith in the architect.

You guys know enough and are wasting time with all of this redundancy. Less reading, more living...

The more you know, the better you can have positive outcomes from more and more varied situations...as well as see bullshit coming a mile away and not let them Jedi mind trick you into thinking what THEY want is what YOU want.

Women can only do what you let them.

That voice is your brain. That is logic. Your gut is the MAIN thing that speaks up in uncertain situations....you're still letting your brain override your gut.

I don't mirror women...I look for the women that are subconsciously mirroring me.

Less is more.

That voice is okay...that is the logic gleaned from learned behavior. Those are situations that you are already good at dealing with. I'm talking about the unfamiliar situations...in those situations, tune out the voice and tune in the gut feeling. It's not a voice...it's a FEELING. If you FEEL that you SHOULDN'T do what you are about to do, then DON'T DO IT...THAT...is how your gut communicates.

Because sex is merely a want not a need.

Leave her alone long enough and you won't have to do anything at all!

Don't forget to take into consideration that some of what they may value in a man stems directly from the man himself...those certain 'intangibles'...attributes that are unique to him. For example, if Sniper and I have the exact same front and clout, then we are on an even playing field. The deciding factor then defaults to what she really NEEDS in a man...if she goes for more stoic than emotional guys, I'll get the nod.

Stop listening to them hoes...the devil is a deceiver.
Ignore words...adhere to gut.

Hey man...at your age...as long as you ain't payin for it like most of your peers, you're doing juuuuuuuust fine.

Man...all she's doing is trying to find a button to push to get you on her terms. Quit being a nice guy when she's being nasty. Just don't give a fuck...show it in your actions AND your words. If you remain consistent, she will eventually fold.

That is why you use the tools learned here to turn some of them into X-Factors for YOU. The same bitch that will take your money may be the same bitch that would gladly give all of it to me...there is someone for everyone.

Women have plenty of libido...men just never give them enough space to allow it to manifest and reach critical mass.

You just decide you're gonna do then (not TRY to do it)...then work like hell until you're done.
Simple.
If you want to do something bad enough, you'll do it.

My mindset can change anyone...as long as they allow it to do so.

Everybody loves a winner.

Listen Youngblood...when you're doing it right, you don't have to worry about such things...because she will volunteering to 'donate to the cause' on her own volition.

So fellas...let's quit bitchin' and start turning lemons to lemonade!

I didn't NEED it...it wasn't a MUST. When I realized that I would have to work much harder than I would want to just for a chance to POSSIBLY get laid, I let it go. I put myself in the gym for 6 days a week for a year and a half and put on 50 lbs of muscle. I immersed myself in videogames. I took a few college courses. I masturbated regularly.
Funny thing is, once I truly didn't care whether I got laid or not, opportunities would present themselves. I went without sex for a year...and that wasnt by choice. But because I accepted that fact, I gained so much more by way of self improvement and self awareness. Had I been like the other guys and spent all their time and money just for the honor of _maybe_ holding her hand, I wouldn't be here enlightening you guys today.

Simple...fall in love with yourself. You can't love others of you don't love yourself. You need to make peace with yourself then work on becoming your own best friend...once you do that a lot of things will just fall into place.
Don't think about it...JUST DO IT.

You cannot tell a woman what she SHOULD want...doesn't work that way...but they will react to getting what they NEED...that's why the focus is on helping men understand that it is important to make sure they give women what they NEED whether women think they NEED it or NOT.

I'm not here to cater to your mood...I'm here to give you what you need.

The trick is to deal with older broads while you're younger and younger broads once your older.

Why you put all that awesome work in then fuck it all off at end like that just blows my mind...you really gotta buckle down on the self discipline. Finish how you start. You can't start as a dick then get playful at end...that defeats EVERYTHING.

it is her loss after all.

With great power comes great responsibility.

Patience, my boy...patience.

Yeah. It's called fronting...it happens to the best of us. They just don't see you as their best option so even tho they may be attracted to you, they 'front' like they aren't.
Shit is 101, man...c'mon get it together. Shit isn't going to go your way all the time.
Oh...and for the last fucking time... **YOUR GUT IS NEVER WRONG.**

She wasn't available before, so there was no pressure. Now that she's single again (and knows that you), its game ON.

Here's a fun fact: Sometimes...when you TRULY don't care about getting laid...is when you get laid.

If a chick says she has a boyfriend but keeps on talking to you, she's hoping that you will stop talking to her because she cannot stop herself but knows that she probably should.

That's just it...she doesn't want to talk about her boyfriend...she's just putting him out there so maybe YOU will have a better moral set that she does and stop talking to her, respecting her relationship. Then again, you could go ahead and cherry pick about him for a bit if you want...easy way to determine what kind of 'pimpin' works/doesn't work on her. There are so many ways for the game to be played.

Of course...our mindset reduces most women to little girls. You'll get used to it.
My advice? Learn to love it...men the world over wish they could have the super powers you now possess...they are jealous of those who an leap buildings in a single bound.

the vibe you project to the universe is the difference...and oh...what a difference it makes!

Of course...our mindset reduces most women to little girls. You'll get used to it.
My advice? Learn to love it...men the world over wish they could have the super powers you now possess...they are jealous of those who an leap buildings in a single bound.

Everyone is in everything for self...if that's what you're have trouble dealing with, get over it because it is what it is. Please refer to my signature for future reference.

Overall, you are letting yourself get frustrated with things that are beyond your control. Let it go.
Start fresh. You're way too invested.

Alchemist wrote:
As long as you need women, they will never come to you.
Reminds me of cats

You guys are going the wrong way...the Matrix in our case IS reality. Space is a tool used to help influence events within the Matrix...an exploitable glitch of many, if you will. The sooner you guys stop trying to beat it and instead EMBRACE it and work to become proficient at bending its rules for your benefit instead of letting it frustrate you...influencing what you can control and releasing attachment to what cannot be controlled...the sooner you will be more contented with life.
I like to keep shit as plain and simple as possible.

Space is the ultimate way to exploit the glitches with girls...hot ones are so use to having guys up their asses all the time that when you give space with them onlookers are gonna witness you flying.

I can be how I want.

Once you lose everything...you gain everything.
You continue to rage against the machine. It's like anything else...once you are truly done with it, that's when it decides to fall in your lap.

This was quite the trip down memory lane, GBeezy. I appreciate you