Hi, how's everybody doing ?
My life's been getting better, I've got two job oppurtunities that I'm working on, it will be matter of weeks so my financial situation is better, overall my life is more cool.
I met a girl, that has been showing me signs of interest - looks and some subtle things, but I mostly felt it from her.. I liked her so I practically initiated conversation.. We take a walk, talk.. Then she takes train home, I pull out my cellphone, then hold it in my hand (She couldn't stop talking lol) and when's got to take the train she ask for my number, so I gave it.. She told me at Friday she's got some high school reunion after 6 years so she's in my town and we can go somewhere for a while. I tell her ok, and bid farewell.
At Friday I text her, we meet up at restaurant, she's there with a friend.. I join them, friend leaves after a while. While talking she sometimes touches my hand (evidence). When she has to go to the reunion, the waitress comes and asks about the pay, she offers to pay it all, so I say ok.
I'm pretty sure she likes me. I like her too.. I can't really imagine the relationship would last for more than few months but why not I wouldn't mind.
Things is. The girls I talked about in this thread:
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She texted me again, (the next day after I was with the first girl) if she could stop by again. This time she could have been at other dude's place who lives near her, so it wasn't that much escape card as before. I didn't have any plans, I told her ok.. I called some friends, had fun all day (too long to tell you, nobody would read it !! it's long even now I know..
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She slept at my place again.. We watched a movie, but it was more of background noise, we talked all night (till almost 5AM). She asked if I don't mind her putting her head on my shoulder (I can't tell this well enough in english), So I said ok.. She was pretty much lying on my chest, with my arm around her -
Now this is why I'm confused. I don't know how much I'm be friendzoned, this didn't feel sexual, more friendly sort of, but I could be just stupid and blind as fuck.
She told me I'm her psychiatrist, then that I'm a good friend.. But I felt immeadetely it's a bluff or a lie. It feels more that she's trying to not like me, for whatever reason.
I didn't really touched her sexually, because she told me about the (tons of) guys that literally try to sex her, tell her "pls give me blowjob" (literally) etc, so I don't want to join their ranks.
I'm sure she's testing me, but I don't know exactly how or anything
But I like this girl.. Especially after this.. And I can't really choose from these two, they are different like day and night and I like both
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Advice, experience and opinions welcomed