I was thinking to myself if this bitch really liked me she will give me SOMETHING.
This is the fail.
Read this slowly and repeatedly and work out why I say that.
I think i figured it out. this was a fail because in my mind she was more valuable than me because, i thought she had what i wanted (sex). but in reality, i have truly have what she wants which is...ME (that's why she ask me to prom). Also why this was such a fail

is because she was controlling me like i was her dog.
Dogs need their masters to feed them SOMETHING or they will die, and i'm not about to die for no bitch. imma dog because i dog hoes not just one but all hoes
she sent me text last night also but i didn't reply
her: How bad do you want to go to prom?
her: Wait never mind we good.
keep on thinking you good hoe, don't be shocked when i leave you stranded

Everyone else did the heavy lifting when I didn't have time to respond. So, I won't go back and give you all of my thoughts. on that piece.
Also, she is saying to you that she is done. There will be no shock.
The something Grinus was talking about is that you're actually expectant. Women do give something, but it doesn't always mean they'll give something. I used to think that too. Set it up so you aren't expecting anything and then you'll be surprised when you receive something.
I don't know what thread of mine where I had the epiphany about what women give, but most of time women just give you some lip homeboy. So if you want to believe that they'll give you something then believe and expect for them to give you lip and be surprised when they don't.
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =20#p29292
Reread the underlined post again. I never said that the bitch
WILL GIVE YOU SOMETHING. I implied that if she's choosing she will do something. I explicitly stated that I look for confessions implicit and explicit. Or, the bitch does something like fuck me or give me money.
If the bitch likes you and you chop her up for long enough and there are no expectations to fuck and the time is right and it's a sunny day and the sun is shining bright...............Do you see where I'm going with this? That's when the bitch will give you something that you want.
I get to the bitch actually doing something why you don't know if she's choosing. Hint: you never saw about that shit.
Also, you never defined what you wanted. That bitch was going to buy that stuff for you because it fit into the contract to control your ass. Yeah, I'm taking off the veil. You should have reread my posts when I said you were like two face. You exposed yourself in the game too homeboy.
By taking the chance to assert yourself after you were already in the thick of being controlled you raised her doubt meter.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtXlkipQoG4
[2pac]
Cause it's a hard life nigga only thugs survive
Ain't no love, unless a nigga slangin drugs or high
Conversations with these bitches on my mobil
Always in control and never let these bitches know ya
And even though I'm gettin high, a thug nigga gettin by
Catchin bitches spittin lies, I'm gettin mine
All day, I puff a blunt and parlay and sometimes if we party
Gettin my dick licked twice
And death to a trick's life, we can pursue this 'til my shit's right
Went from havin fantasies, to havin hoes leave they man for me
There is no realer man than me
The city of oaktown laced me with my first case
When them punk police tried to break me
Didn't think the shit was cute, so I got a lawsuit
And made them punk police buy my coupe
This is how we do this
You see what you did wrong? You played your cards too soon and didn't know what to do. You let her know what you were up to. I'm about to get to what you should have done.
STAY UNDER THE RADAR FOR EVERYBODY UNTIL REVEALING YOURSELF DOESN'T CHANGE ANY OUTCOME.
Also, you don't seem to understand what dogging hoes is. What does a dog do? Fetch a bone. When you put human features on a dog what will that human dog do?
Get a bone then leave.
Why didn't you get a bone and leave?
I didn't want to tell you earlier. So, I just put out the song.
The whole time I was telling you to fuck her and leave her homeboy. Do you have your priorities straight now?
You can't break bitches until you can fuck bitches consistently.
This is why I went so harsh on you about her contract.
Everything else might have been able to be yours except the whole prom thing. You missed your opportunity to play the game the way that would have benefited you best. Even when she was being controlling and treating you like shit there was still time for you look up that avenue.
You didn't see about fucking her at all. If you fuck a bitch whose contract does not apply to situation of fucking then the contract is open to renegotiation if you even want to renegotiate. When you first started, you probably could have fucked her. Later on in this thread, there is no question that you could not fuck her. Too much time has passed and she sees how you really are or were. The contract only included prom and possibly prom sex.
Onto, getting paid. When that bitch first tried to smash on your game and if you didn't think you could fuck her then you should have put her to the test. She told you she was a expensive ho. When you saw her in person all you had to be like was let's go to the bank. "Why are we going to the bank?" "You said you were an expensive ho, and you about to pay me for the time you're wasting because my conversation doesn't come cheap no matter how expensive you may think you are. I know the value of my conversation and the exact price."
Women are either joking or they are dead serious when they say this kind of stuff no matter how many Hahahahas or LOLLLL's they put in front of that shit.
For future reference, women that are highly controlling are most likely ho's. Why? They are extreme calculators that take note of every situation. They actually do or they give lip service to doing almost anything for you because they are going to keep track and wait to get paid in spades later on. For future reference, YOU WERE DEALING WITH A LEGITIMATE QUALIFIED WHORE THAT WAS UNINITIATED READY TO PAY YOU EVEN THOUGH YOU PUT HER ON A PEDESTAL BECAUSE SHE SAW SOMETHING IN YOU. HOMEBOY YOU DO HAVE PIMP BONES IN YOUR BODY. WELCOME TO THE GAME. You aren't ready to deal with a real live ho. If you think I'm joking about what I said or you don't believe me then reread my other posts in this thread.
So, if you don't have a controlling ho then bitch is probably joking. However, when they try to assert their self from the start they are most likely not joking when they drop a line like that.
If you want a reference about these kinds of things then the closest reference you'll get is The Kidd!! I personally confided in him about what I should do with an unitiated ho (never paid a guy or hit the streets) that was highly controlling and threatening to wreck my life. I wish I had strictly followed his advice. I would still have that ho.
Bitches like the one you were dealing with do not go away unless they decide to go away. So if you went the pay me route or the sex route then you would have locked this bitch. Sex then money is easier but more dangerous to your life and situation. Money then sex is hard but more likely to give you the least problems. Why? The priorities aren't confusing to the bitch.
Also, you were scared to check this bitch? Never be scared.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHnZNihNemE
Listen to T.I.'s last line. Kiss my ass.
When you didn't check her immediately there is no going back and looking for her to check her.
Follow what Grinus told you. Just give her space. You missed the opportunity.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110399/quotes?qt=qt1190381
In life there isn't anything but space and opportunity. She set you up to knock you down in front her friends. She was trying to keep the opportunity from you.
All you had to say was, "Hold up for minute...run that by me one more time." Then you have at least 15 seconds to come up with a proper response. If you don't know how to respond just tell them to run that by you again. If they don't have to coochie to put their pussy where their mouth is so you can beat it in then you win the game. They'll just say never mind or it's not that important or something along those lines. Then all you have to say is, "That's what I thought." What you're doing is you're putting the decision back on her.
Read the last part of what I said because it's what you never did this whole time in this thread.
YOU NEVER PUT THE DECISION BACK ON HER.
When you give her space you put the decision back on her automatically. She has to decide whether or not to fuck with you.
When you go looking for her she can't decide shit.
Last, you didn't control the circumstances homeboy. Controlling circumstances means controlling the bitch. Circumstances include her environment, her thoughts about you, clout, relationships, contract, emotional and sexual front factors. It would take me too long to guess at all of these things so I just listed circumstances.
"Catching bitches spitting lies, I'm getting mine." 2pac is saying that he controls the key to what he accepts from coming out a bitches mouth and vault that is her mind. If it's something that threatens him getting his then he locks up her damn mouth to keep those thoughts in her head and away from what he wants.
This is not about her.
It is about you.
Stop transferring to her.
This^^^^^^^^^. I gave you a long ass responses that distinctly dealt with you separate from the bitch.
Even in when I dealt with both of you as a unit and how you should interact with her. I only said what you should do.
If you go around expecting and thinking about what kind of behavior you should get you'll never realize the kind of behavior you want. Why?
Getting the behavior you want and think you should have is an effect of knowing what kind of behavior you will and will not tolerate. It's is not vice versa and you have it confused even in these later posts.
Do some push ups like everyone else on this forum because your game is still frail.
Or do some stretches and get this long game....this real real long game.
Or do both and get the best of both worlds.
Post Notes:
Also, you're right and you're wrong about the choosing thing. You didn't see what she would do. You only looked for what you could receive. There are options to know about whether a ho/bitch or legitimate woman is choosing. I laid out those four options previously. I detailed two of those four options in this post. It would take too long for me to detail the third and fourth option because they are flexible and dependent upon what you want. That is confessions implicit and explicit depend on what you accept and circumstances. I laid out circumstances.
All of this shit is really interconnected so pick the biggest errors YOU THINK YOU MADE and work on those.
You don't have to be tight in every area of this shit to actually be decent at what you want.
I'm actually very staunch and resistant to anything that doesn't seem to be netting me what I want even though I realize I'm staunch. It comes with the territory of being pimp tight. I just work too hard at it sometimes. However, my staunchness pays in spades when I'm dealing with a legitimate square bitch that really an undercover ho. My staunchness hurts me when I dealing with a square bitch that's really an undercover freak, and my staunchness is a double-edged sword when I'm dealing with a normal bitch.
I barely see/just starting to see glitches in the matrix that I could benefit off if I put a little work in it.
So, do your pushups and stretches.
And don't work too hard like me.
Balance is the key homeboy, and no matter what area you excel in when you hit your REAL EPIPHANY, you'll be spending the rest of your time calibrating and working on your game to achieve the balance that you want.