This part I believed peregrinus talked about and I also heard in a couple of other places as well, I was wondering if you could possibly clarify on this does it mean leave some things vague as possible and leave it to their imagination or is it much more involved than that, if so please explain thank you
It is much more involved and yet at the same time a lot simpler than that.
There are many aspects to it and none.
I have written many posts on it, as said above, I would recommend searching for them and reading them, rather than me trying to remember it all and sum it up here for you.
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Once you accept yourself and stop trying to qualify yourself to her, you will give her more space as a byproduct. It is also something you can do consciously on the way. I would really recommend trying to do it the right way, by working on yourself first, it will happen then naturally.
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Feel free to add your 2 pence anyone else