And I agree with Pindar. A theme of PimpDee's posts has been asking how he can chase women to make it more effective, which is the complete opposite of the mindset that's preached here. So feeding that is counterproductive to his development, if that's what he's after.
The whole message of these forums is to focus on yourself, do you and improve yourself to the point where you're deciding which girl to give at least some semblance of effort to, and not hoping the 1st broad who smiles at you bites on the 5th of 6th invite to a date.
PimpDee, you talk about indifference. Imagine this scenario - you walk past an ice cream store in the mood for a strawberry ice cream, but find out that they only have vanilla and chocolate. Do you:
a) Shrug it off, acknowledge that you wanted some but see that nothing happened, because there's more important things in life than getting strawberry ice cream, and so go about your day and focus on those more important things?
b) Post on an online forum to ask how to approach the ice cream vendor in a different way to make him give up the strawberry ice cream he's not giving you, ask him another 4-5 times and invest hours of your day ruminating about how to get the strawberry ice cream you want so badly?
See where I'm getting with this? If you truly are indifferent, you don't have a problem approaching and checking the situation out but also move past the thing when it isn't there. Indifference is not a tactic to be used, and to feel indifferent you have to accept that this mindset might lead to not getting what you want in some situations. My friends have hooked up with some women simply because they were willing to put in effort I wasn't at that time.
Really ask yourself - is peace of mind and feeling content with myself more or less important than getting women? Honestly look into that, because if it isn't, then you'll just move to the next best tactic to get women once you see that "using indifference" just makes you live inside your head more, because you're trying to determine how to be indifferent to not getting something and yet be unwilling to let it go.
I hope what you are doing is working for you. Seems like you think you are the only one who is right here.
The passive aggressive tone of this makes me think you need to look into why it bugs you that somebody thinks they're right and that you're wrong. Why do you need Pindar's validation of what you're saying?