Hello freespirit422,
thanks for your opinion and experiences mate, this could help me alot for sure. I think (just like you said) that i'm beginning to value the feminine character which women have. This is by the way something i believe in since long time, but back then i somehow didn't find any support so to say, almost every man i know values women based on their bodies, and being part of the society i was affected by it and its thoughts. After being involved in N.G., i found the support i needed. I am gradually beginning to change my understanding of women's femininity, or in other words going back to my old self as i will mention later.
About N.G., if i may ask, for how long did you practice it? For sure you can be right as you said that N.G. might not work for everyone. But in my opinion, N.G. has lots of positive effects that can work for everyone. One of them for example is that it really plays a role in silencing our ego (a point i find very important). Silencing ego, as Eckhart Tolle says in his book The Power of Now, leads to enlightment and to a much more conscious and awake state of mind. Although i'm still a beginner, this point helped me improve some aspects of my life so far. Another thing, i think N.G. helps us to be in touch with our emotions. Combining silencing your ego with being in touch with emotions can give you (among other things) a great sense of inner peace. I for one have now usually a very delightful feeling when i'm outside, something i have never experienced before. Even after a long tiring day, i just try to free my mind and open myself up to the world around me. It really makes me appreciate and enjoy life more.
Now about N.G. and its role in being attractive to women. From a personal experience, i am 100% sure that it works (at least for me). You might explain it in another way, but i think it has some connection to this whole subject. You might not believe this mate, i'm now 23 years old, and until i was 18-19, i didn't watch one single moment of pornography, and didn't practice autoeroticism/masturbation not even once (up to a point where i was unfortunately brainwashed by friends
). I used to love and adore women because i thought they were (in general) pure and innocent, at least in comparison to many of us men. I even remember feeling very emotional when looking at innocent girls, just sensing how pure they are, and that was pretty much the way i looked at women. I'm by the way a normal looking guy, but the results and the success i got with girls at that time were really undescribable, sometimes even unexplainable! Girls would approach me the whole time, i got dozens of phone numbers and requests for "private time", even from girls who were older than me at school (and i used to think that such girls were too good for me!). My God i even remember a married school teacher of mine who used to blush and get shy when i talk to her! I used to have long eye contact with girls the whole time, everywhere i go. And other than to exist, i did practically nothing at all.
I always wondered how come i was very successful with women, and how come i lost it suddenly as i went to college (this was the time were i was becoming addicted to pornography). Now i see it all clearly.
Sorry for talking too much
. Best wishes my friend..