Natural Freedom

I tried the same thing in my mind when I was idolizing some stupid whore, but it didn't work. Not that I have a preference for scatt or something, but because my father always made/make jokes around that theme, that I became some sort of immune dude for that evoking imagery. The trick is to find something that disgusts you so bad like you are describing, and then associate the images (illusions) of her with the thing you have a lots of ¡yucks! (another illusion) and go about, make a "connection". Then play it in your mind until you get a disgust or a reaction on your body.

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It does make me mad. Believe me this wasn't by choice, but the choice now is to carry on. Actually that doesn't entail too much in terms of action. More and more I see that the chick was a catalyst of something else.

You hypertyperlated.

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Just masturbate next time the worshipful feelings about her arise within you. When you've busted civilisations of potential lifeforms all over your towel, ask yourself how much of a shit you give about her then....I'm guessing it'll be very little > Fuck all

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All is more simple than you make it.

Thought you were going to bow out.

the last few posts were masturbation indeed ... There's a lot of wisdom in your youth, and a lot of youth in your wisdom.

Yudansha, you don't think my advice was literal?

Recently I have been 'hung up' on two broads. It is what it is and I don't fight it, just being aware is enough for me right now. One is an ex-girlfirend; So I decided to jerk one out over her. When my task was complete, I asked myself what I felt about her at that point. The answer was nothing in particular. I couldn't have really given less of a damn, and infact saw through her and realised all the things which I find unattractive about her. I couldn't find a single reason why I had let her hound my thoughts. My 'feelings' for the other one also diminished.

That realisation was bought about via a good ole' tug. Now what do you think that told me?

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All is more simple than you make it.

Your infatuation was/is mostly physical. In some cases the math is pretty simple. All you have to do now is figure out a way to keep from getting horny again, and your attachments to these two gals will be handled.

Nope! Missed the point.

Once again, you're making your case more special than it is.

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All is more simple than you make it.

Well as I see it there are a couple of ways in which people connect, or get interested. Sexual/physical or intellectual. Or, a combination of both. Seems pretty simple.

I'll give you the skeleton key for online chatting, not necesserily in what to say but how to frame the interaction.

Just like any other time, she has to pick you, you have to be the stimulis and she the response.

Only talk to girls who message you first, that way they'll be doing the brunt of the work, asking questions etc... because of that you'll have the mindset of being above her, as opposed to you messaging her first which will give her that mindset which will in turn have her giving you one word answers and shit with you trying like a motherfucker to make the convo flow, which won't work.

Let her message you, act like you're doing her a favour talking to her but still be nice and it will go fine...

Example:

Her: Hey, how are you, good day?
You: Great day, yourself?
Her: Really good thanks, just catching up on some work. Any plans tonight?
You: Going to a concert tonight, should be fun. What about you?
Her: Nothing much, just staying in like a loser I suppose lol Well have fun tonight, if you're not busy this weekend we should get together if you like.
You: lol that's not being a loser, I do it sometimes too. Ya we could do that, I can't Friday night but Saturday would work.
Her: Ok great, I'll text you Friday night to figure out the details.
You: Sounds like a plan.
Her: Awesome. Have a great night!!

If you fuck up and message her first it will look like this...

You: Hey, what's up?
Her: not much
You: Staying out of trouble? lol
Her: never
You: lol funny girl. What's new?
Her: sorry, gotta run
You: Ok, have a great day!
Her: ...............................no reply

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

reminds me of myself before having the knowledge

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

I was gonna ask about it, but I was like fuck it just do it and I just did this shit. I thought it would be different because I let her know I would message her before...right? no.
What a waste of my time. I should have let go way before then.

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"...There is only one thing you can do. Master that one thing!...What you must be doing is visualizing yourself at your most powerful. You don't need any external enemies. The only opponent you must fight, is none other than your own image."

edit: actually scratch that she texted me back. it was late though. my needieness caused me to post that.i know she's not into me to like that. the convo was like pulling teeth. the last thing she said was "im heading to bed good to hear from you. we'll have to catch up some more later"
i guess the answer is space.

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"...There is only one thing you can do. Master that one thing!...What you must be doing is visualizing yourself at your most powerful. You don't need any external enemies. The only opponent you must fight, is none other than your own image."