Getting snipped and sperm banks sound equally awful.
I'll just use condoms thanks.
It wouldn't be getting snipped, the link I sent above is an alternative solution and I've been through worse things than vasectomies so I could handle that lol. Also a vasectomy is more effective than condoms/birth control.
I'm not an optimist when it comes to encountering the right partner, X factor, however you chose to define it. At this point I don't believe that chick exists for me and
if she does she'd have to be really something else and I don't even know what that is, it will take experience with alot more women before defining that for myself.
I don't want to rule it out completely but alot of conditions and boxes would need to be ticked on both sides if I ever met such a woman and that route would be considered.
why alot though?
aren't they all the same at the core? even the "good" ones prove bad every now and then, believe me I've had my fair share.
the female I thought was my "X" factor, her neediness and lack of a center usually manifested when she wasn't around me. she would give me my space when necessary, and invade it when necessary also.
but on a different note, Chemist, did you forget to feed the fish?
it's obvious that you are not
or were not happy with the situation.
did you verbalize it?
it seems you created such an internal void because your external needs weren't being met so it seems that she is desperately trying to cling to you... I bet you are serious at home