WARNING: LONG POST!
(who would've guessed?
)
This is a pet peeve of mine, and was one of the things that I had in the back of my mind to post about, but for some reason kept putting it off.....
It has looooooooong been my (secret) contention that women want and enjoy sex FAR MORE than men, and that furthermore, this was common knowledge in times of antiquity; it is only in recent times that the MYTH of men wanting sex more than women has been propagated. Take for example
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tiresias:
In a separate episode,Tiresias was drawn into an argument between Hera and her husband Zeus, on the theme of who has more pleasure in sex: the man, as Hera claimed; or, as Zeus claimed, the woman, as Tiresias had experienced both
[he had spent time as both a man and as a woman - roark]. Tiresias replied "Of ten parts a man enjoys one only."[11] Hera instantly struck him blind for his impiety.
[women were pimping even back then 
- roark]
I have not had nearly as much sexual experiences as the average player, but my encounters with the few sexual partners I have had in my life have been more 'real' and therefore much more illuminating than the many that those wooly-minded, pussy-whipped manpussies have had, and I attribute this to:
- the fact that I sucked at conventional (Matrix) dating, and therefore gave up on it very early on, leaving me to focus only on situations where the woman was so enamoured with the man I am, and not on any bribery or coercion on my part, that she would be compelled not only to make the effort (there's that word 'space' again), but in some cases practically rape me.
- the fact that, once in these types of situations, since I did not choose the woman (sound familiar?) using guidelines programmed into me by the social matrix (she's blonde/has great tits/totally flat stomach etc), I was with a woman who chose me - even in a kiss, the difference between a woman who chooses you and one whom you choose is like night & day. So once in these types of situations, the reaction of the woman's body to me was breathtaking, and however flushed she was, so I would become (another favourite of this site - "mirror"). This would produce a high in me that felt sorta like a mild fever, but would result in taking me out of my mind and any notions of "performance" or "man, wait'll I tell the guys about this" and into the present. In this state it has never been an issue to "pull out" to prolong the experience, and to use my hands and my other senses to enjoy her body, and also thoroughly explore her "inner regions", finding spots that made her writhe in a mixture of pleasure and agony. A couple of years ago I read about the fabled g-spot, and also the "deep spot" that that David Shade guy talks about, and said to myself "so that's what they're called. Interesting."
The end result of this is relatively few sexual experiences which each left me totally drained (but feeling fulfilled rather than just 'satisfied'), with the woman wanting more and more (note: it's not just the sex act itself - these encounters implied to me that they cannot get enough of a truly patient man), to the point where I even once said to myself "I could never have a steady girlfriend. I cannot live at this pace - I would never get anything constructive done." Right now I can remember saying this while coming through my gate at 7 am in the morning, looking at the ripped front pocket of my shirt and my overall dishevelled state, knowing that I had to get ready to go to work, and I had not slept.
One woman once told me "You better resign yourself to calling in sick to work tomorrow, because you are going to fuck me FOREVER."
So whenever I am in a conversation and I hear the steak-eaters - whether symp or player - lamenting about how women don't like sex, I bite my tongue, but inwardly i'm pissing myself.
[Note what I said about failing miserably at 'Matrix' dating: I now realise that this was a blessing in disguise, and am thankful for it.....]
Now let's turn this topic on its head:
The few times in the past that I have tried to discuss these types of experiences with other guys - to compare notes like women do among one another - to see if they have any other ways to make a woman lose total motor control of her body
, I would meet with one of the two following responses:
- their eyes would glass over, their attention would start to wander to other things going on outside of our conversation (even if there is nothing going on around us), and they would rapidly lose interest in the conversation (my guess would be that their ego could not let them participate in this conversation, for obvious reasons
)
[side note: one of these occasions I was in a bar, and midway through the discussion I realised the female bartender was within earshot, and was eavesdropping; when I looked at her, her eyes were all misty, and she was looking at me like I was a plate of food and she hadn't eaten in days . The dude I was talking to remained blissfully unaware of this, and he is a 'playa' ]
- they would tell me straight: "I don't care; once I come i'm happy."
SO: my theory is that although we know that women biologically crave and enjoy sex more than men do, if we assume that the type of men described above make up a large percentage of the male population, would this not have a dampening effect on their natural sex drive? And if we assume that a woman can only work herself up (it's all in the mind!) to this state for a REAL MAN (not alpha, not beta, but authentically, comfortably masculine) and there are so few around, could this not further undermine this libido?
Let's go even further: if the above is true, then would a woman not therefore come to the conclusion that if men are not worthwhile for sex (they have never experienced this level of arousal with any of the steak-eaters infesting the planet), then men are only worthwhile for SOCIAL value?
This is not to excuse women for manipulative behaviour; everyone has the right to CHOOSE how they react to their circumstances.....
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also no matter how little I ate or how much exercise i did i started to get fat. I couldn't fuck her properly and surprise surprise, she left me:D