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PostPosted: Sat Aug 25, 2012 4:18 pm 
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Flow83 wrote:
"wow late reply" = I'm keeping track. When things have no effect on you, by definition you don't bring them up.
do you think SHE is strategizing her reply length and what to say because she wants you? Who is chasing who here.
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 2:04 am 
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So theres been a bit of talking in the last week or two. I'd just take as long as her to text back, it went from 4 days to about 30 minutes in between texts.

She went from putting energy into the conversation to 3 word answers once it got to that point I just didn't respond.

So yeah we'll see

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 3:25 am 
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Morpheus wrote:
So theres been a bit of talking in the last week or two. I'd just take as long as her to text back, it went from 4 days to about 30 minutes in between texts.

She went from putting energy into the conversation to 3 word answers once it got to that point I just didn't respond.

So yeah we'll see
Emotional Investment. (This shit hit me hard too)

Why do you keep playing her game?
I'm thinking you guess it's like a tennis battle, like back and forth... But I see it like a solo ping pong, or a chess battle with yourself.

Every response that comes form that place is in her favour. So any pretentious SMS you text her, she'll see through it.

I see it like: If you can do it, I CAN DOUBLE THE BET BITCH. But, whos placing the bet higher?

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 3:54 am 
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I was seeing if it would have an effect. It did.

I'm not perfect like any person. I don't like how the forum
places so much energy on having absolutely no investment in the situation.

It's an ideal that can never be attained. So fuck it, I'm going to be who I want to be.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 4:46 am 
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Morpheus wrote:
I was seeing if it would have an effect. It did.

I'm not perfect like any person. I don't like how the forum
places so much energy on having absolutely no investment in the situation.

It's an ideal that can never be attained. So fuck it, I'm going to be who I want to be.
Once you lose everything...you gain everything. :geek:

You continue to rage against the machine. It's like anything else...once you are truly done with it, that's when it decides to fall in your lap. ;)

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 7:01 am 
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The Kidd!! wrote:
Morpheus wrote:
I was seeing if it would have an effect. It did.

I'm not perfect like any person. I don't like how the forum
places so much energy on having absolutely no investment in the situation.

It's an ideal that can never be attained. So fuck it, I'm going to be who I want to be.
Once you lose everything...you gain everything. :geek:

You continue to rage against the machine. It's like anything else...once you are truly done with it, that's when it decides to fall in your lap. ;)
TheKidd!! I know you know more Morpheus than me, and me more than him.

So I plead:

Make your BIG EMPHASIS like always.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 1:52 pm 
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Desired outcome and emotional investment in it happening are two entirely different things.

People have achieved this impossible ideal for things infinitely more significant than text games or outcome from a particular girl.

I no longer believe there is any middle ground. You can stop playing that type of game entirely, which means she engages or the communication ends, or you go all out and play the game.. however one does that with texting.. Could always ask this guy http://howtotextbackyourex.com/ :lol:

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 2:24 pm 
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Morpheus wrote:
I don't like how the forum
places so much energy on having absolutely no investment in the situation.

It's an ideal that can never be attained. So fuck it, I'm going to be who I want to be.
Somebody's red pill hasn't completely been swallowed...

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 3:01 pm 
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I was seeing if it would have an effect. It did.
You might try taking this same (healthy) scientific approach to:

What's the effect of NOT PLAYING at all, vs. the effects of micro subtleties in the game.

You might find the result is more aligned with what you want, and saves a lot of research. Why not start there?

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I see only a few outcomes:

You keep playing til it fizzles it out and dies.

You don't play, she never engages and it dies (same result with none of the effort)

You don't play, she does engage and then the ball is completely in your court (ideal result, also with no effort).

So fuck emotional discussion. One seems more scientifically sound to me.

If you believe you can play and win, keeping with the science theme, you'll need to show evidence of that ever actually happening :ugeek:

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Flow83 wrote:
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I was seeing if it would have an effect. It did.
You might try taking this same (healthy) scientific approach to:

What's the effect of NOT PLAYING at all, vs. the effects of micro subtleties in the game.

You might find the result is more aligned with what you want, and saves a lot of research. Why not start there?

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I see only a few outcomes:

You keep playing til it fizzles it out and dies.

You don't play, she never engages and it dies (same result with none of the effort)

You don't play, she does engage and then the ball is completely in your court (ideal result, also with no effort).

So fuck emotional discussion. One seems more scientifically sound to me.

If you believe you can play and win, keeping with the science theme, you'll need to show evidence of that ever actually happening :ugeek:
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The Kidd!! wrote:
Once you lose everything...you gain everything. :geek:

You continue to rage against the machine. It's like anything else...once you are truly done with it, that's when it decides to fall in your lap. ;)
^^THIS!!!

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