Hmm so should I just ignore her question?
EDIT: She cannot but I didn't think she had such a low level of awareness.
I am probably wrong, but I don't think she subconsciously likes you. I think she consciously likes you, but the problem is that
you have not operated in a manner to force her to choose. To me it's like you're giving her the option to choose.
One of the deepest questions I received from a female when we were talking about relationships, sex, and copping bitches
was, "What if I don't want a choice?"
You CANNOT consciously confront subconscious evidence.
^THIS
How can she consciously be aware of things she is doing subconsciously?
answer that one Morpheus....
It creates a disconnect... How do you avoid the disconnect it causes?
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However you can draw the subconscious into the conscious, if you approach it in the right way.
Grinus hit you with a ton of bricks worth 10x their weight in gold. A lot of times people on the forum sleep on his shit.
Imagine that you have a light that you really really like to see. Someone shuts that light off but they leave a trail of mini
lights
that's the same as light that you like. You follow the trail and then you bump into this huge switch. Obviously, you flip the
switch. Then you see this person whose been running the switch. Obviously, you would be like why the fuck did shut the
switch off, but a female would be like now I gotcha bitch or how may I please you master.
The moral of the metaphor is that you need to construct a pathway to you. Any veering from her pathway to you results in
punishment. She'll learn faster that way.
3. This one right here is pretty bad. I kinda ignored her and her friend in the morning went and did my own thing, jumped in the shower and when I got out they left.
She is a nice girl but a little slow on the uptake sometimes/lots. So I spelled it out plain and clear to her so it would be done with. I texted her.
"Look, I like you and I know you like me. The problem is that I don't have a lot of free time. So if you want anything to happen we'll have to work something out "
No response for a few hours so I said
"Cool."
Add her and her friend to Facebook, whatever I'll keep them in my orbit so they can see how good my life is becoming.
And then she accepts my Friendship request. And drops this fail of epic proportions.
"I just don't understand why you think I like you ??"
The WHOLE thing was subconscious to her
. Unreal. Being objective as possible about this, I'm obviously picking up and communicating on a level that most people don't pick up but REALLY?
What would you do from here?
Also in your opinion why do women that are non-verbally all over me end up with guys with a lot less game then me?
Re-read the bolded parts. Do you see how you just gave her Disney world? You said you like her when you confronted her.
Also, you said "we" have to work something out. Your mindset is team like in nature. This shit isn't a team. You own and
she works. You start walking and she starts running. You jump and she leaps. You sit and she squats.
The trail and the destination in the metaphor do nothing but guide. They do not give compliments. You also gave an extra
night at Disney World when you said "cool."
The guy's with less game are being more realistic. You said she is slow on the uptake sometimes. You have to be very clear.
The other guys are being clear.
I really think she consciously likes you because she stayed over your place for another night. If she was subconsciously liking
you I don't think she would have stayed over because she wouldn't be expecting sex or anything. She also had her friend
stay over which means she was thinking about protection. I.E. she was consciously thinking of resisting you.
Here's my hint: Think up how you want a relationship to look like. Her panties will only drop like water if you have really
strong principles about sex. Your whole "work something out" line should have been saved for last night face to face when
she decided to sleep over with her friend. You should have been alone with her and tried to evoke the guilty plea face to
face. Doing that shit over text message is bad. You should have done that over the phone or in person because you can
stack game faster and easier.