We are lacking something and have constantly the feeling of it, nurished by our biological condition as well. This needyness or sense of lack is artificial in my opinion. We are whole, complete men from the start. Everything else is social BS, because it makes us chase things or people to satisfy our ego that tells us constanty to get the quick fix. Getting a quick fix is getting what you want instead of feeling whole and complete in peace wherever you are.
We have our biological want - to have sex. But it's a Want not a Need, recently I have decided to go for a while without sex. So far I don't feel like I Need it. Sure I want it from time to time but I don't Need it.
The same goes for 'Needing' lots of money, new cars, a huge house and etc...
it's Ok to want all those things but you don't Need them.
We have talked about this in other threads:
What you Need to survive is: food, water & sunshine. The rest is just
Wants not Needs...
the orginal purpose of having sex is to have kids and ensure that the human race will keep
going. But because it's fun and women know how much it means to Men they found a way to use our biological want for sex to get what they want. And it turns out it has been like this for a long time (way before the 90's...)
peregrinus and The Kidd had a time that they went without sex and as you can see they are still alive and well
As a sidenote, I was talking about this with a friend of mine...
He told me that:
in Germany a police officer once said, that women shouldnt "dress sexy" (like sluts), if they want to avoid being raped.
This remark of the police officer caused an unprecedented uproar in the feminist community.
What did the feminists and women do? Well, now they deliberately and exaggeratedly "dressed like sluts" - claiming that "victims" cannot be made responsible for their own "misery"...
I told him:
feminists know that women have power over men by dressing like sluts
so some of them actually Encourage women to dress like sluts. And when men come out and say that it's not right- the feminists attack the men.
*This is not about "equality" as Men don't dress like sluts, It's about keeping their power over Men...
I beleive that there will be much less rape if women didn't dress like sluts however women know that it gives them power over men so they don't care. And if there is rape- the feminists will always blame the Men not the women....
And it's not just about how they dress... Women learn from a young age how to move parts of their body in ways that men will get aroused\ turned on. She wrote that in 'the manipulated men'.
a woman can dress normally but have a 'slut walk' for example- and sometimes that's enough to turn men on. I assume that the 'slut walk' (as an example) was around even before the 70's or the 60's....