Natural Freedom

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~There's weakness in the hearts of all humans are you afraid to acknowledge yours... ~
Mr. Todo

to let go does not mean to give up your goals. Go after your goals and do what you can,
but once you know that you did everything you could - just let go...

in other words: work towards getting what you want but let go of the outcome...
take action and then forget about it and just relax...

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

I learned to let go by drawing an awesome drawing, working on it for 10 hours and then burning it.

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~There's weakness in the hearts of all humans are you afraid to acknowledge yours... ~
Mr. Todo

Yes

Recognise that the value is in the journey, not the destination.

Today was a nice sunny day, I got in my car and started driving, I knew I wanted to go somewhere but was not sure where. I came across somewhere I would never have considered as a destination, (I was not even aware it was there so close to home) it ended up being one though. The journey there was very enjoyable.

Sometimes I start going somewhere and end up somewhere completely different, the journey leads to another path other than the original destination. If you are open during the journey it will have an effect on you. See above

Let go of the destination, enjoy the ride.

I would hazard a guess that a lot of the mental chatter is about the destination and how/if you will get there.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

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~There's weakness in the hearts of all humans are you afraid to acknowledge yours... ~
Mr. Todo

hmm, it's hard to pin point but I'll try...
I have followed The Kidd's advise And the other great posters here like peregrinus. David X
also helped in fixing my broken mindset.
well I started to use more logic (as The Kidd suggested) instead of emotion. I didn't shut down my emotions I just did some inner core work and realized that out greatest power is logic and once we learned to switch from emotions to logic when we want to - that is where the power is.

I think that also at one point I just got tired of giving a dam about women. I thought; I want to be happy and have peace now. I don't want to wait until I had sex with X number of women until I become happy and let go of wanting women...

I have also read a lot of eastern philosophy in the past and maybe something 'clicked' from there as well...

It's really hard to pin point what gave me the aha moment and I'm not enlightened or anything like that. I still keep working on myself all the time and discovering new layers of limiting Beliefs and emotional baggage- but I'm facing my demons and not running away from them. When The Kidd talked about facing your demons, at first I thought: it's too difficult for me, it's easy for him to say and etc. But at one point I was determined to do that inner work and saw that it pays off.

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"