Indifference is an attitude and internal state, not a set of behaviors. You can be smiling and talkative and fully indifferent, or ice cold and fully attached. Trying to be indifferent is by definition a type of attachment.
That said, noticing behaviors you do unconsciously and taking conscious control of them is legit. It's like anything else, if you have bad posture playing guitar you need to consciously adjust the habit.
Nothing wrong with tackling from both angles, your internal attitude and external behaviors, in the end they are one thing.
Your indifference will be measured by how effortlessly you are being doing and saying exactly what you want without a filter or without editing yourself either to look cool OR look indifferent, which is actually the same energy.
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