Very true, what both Star and Sniper just said. Finding out that everybody cares only and only about themselves still hasn't sunk in 100% and being happy and myself while knowing this is difficult at times, but it's getting better.
Isn't a bit of over-generalization to say that "everyone cares only about themselves"? I do believe we all have a greater interest in our own lives, but I also believe that there are people who care for others as much as they care for themselves. It would be a a bit delusional to say that
everyone cares entirely about themselves.
You are selfish to the core. POINT.
Your cellules know that they have to 'care' about the cellules next to them (at least enough for them not to die), otherwise they would also disappear.
Other than that, their only interest is their survival and reproduction.
Replace cellules with anything, plants, animals, humans.
That's why we can say it's selfishness to the core. Because YOU know that if your neighbour dies, you will have problems too.
I don't talk at all about the feeling of being a good person when you give something to a homeless dude, or when you help a grandma walk the street so that you can tell it to everyone
I'm talking physically, not emotionally (and the selfishness doesn't change either, just the reasons are differents).
Sounds like someone has a bad conception of 'selfishness'