http://relationalmastery.com/amember//f ... p=109#p109
here is something old from Etienne:
The part that might interest you best is how to ground yourself on yourself........
Ok so according to him we are supposed to turn into Palmys?
Now, ground yourself with Palmy's videos, it's important that there's only one girl. Allow yourself to get into her emotional state, visualize yourself as being her. Feel the ease in your body, the giggles, the contageous joy, the responsiveness, the thrust, the sense of totally letting go of resistance and responding to a stimulus. Do it until you really feel that ease and femininity. It might feel weird, but that's judgment, let it go. Do that for a while as it cleans your energies.
Then, keep looking at the videos and visualize her being a part of you, which is a feeling you just had. Visualize yourself responding to yourself like palmy would. A part of you is the stimulus, another part of you is the response. Your emotional being is the stimulus, and your body totally let go of resisting and becomes a pure response to your being. It removes the gap between your emotions and your behaviors, thoughts no longer get in the way and you feel totally at ease. You feel the stimulus and the response parts of you merging together and fusioning.......Experience with this and let me know how it goes!
The Kidd Palmy sounds great to me
if we do it long enough we will at some point become: