affirmation, it does not really matter......
our mind often likes to cling to the negative so when it comes to your self worth here is a simple exercise you can apply that will help you remember why you are a good catch to women.
ponder on this question:
'If a woman will be in your life how can you make her feel good (notice the question might seem like she is the stimulus but wait.....)'.
Now write down the things on a piece of paper, here are just a few things from my list:
- I have a great sense of humor
- I have masculine power and edge that women really crave for.
- I can make a woman feel good about herself but I do it with power (unlike some of the AFCs)
- I have the ability to analize and solve problems
- I give women (and people) respect but I do it with power
- I can make great computer art pictures for her
and the list goes on...
Make your own list and after you finished your list, during the day or at night remind yourself from time to time about your positive qualities.
You don't have to go over the whole list all the time just from time to time remind yourself about some of the positive qualities you have.
With time this will become a habit and your mind will start thinking about why you are a great catch to women and unlike affirmations you don't need to affirm something that isn't true or that you don't beleive in so your mind won't resist to this.
Now you can also do this with affirmations (affirmations are not bad
)
It's just that this is easier......