@ Sniper: It was a joke, man. I don't care that much about what other's do with their life. Especially a guy that I don't know and never will. If he did something wrong, he should pay the price. End of story.
( This is just a discussion w/o an outcome. A debate. )
Actually, his philosophy is that "becoming great with women is becoming great yourself. It's 100% self-improvement on your own"... "to become the best man that you can posibly be", "become that sexually desirable man" etc. This was the goal.
His method is decide what u want, visualize it, be confortable in your own skin before u leave the house, be in the moment, don't think too much about it, put yourself in alignment with what u want. It was not ONLY about affirmations. Like say/do affirmations and magically a broad will pop up. And I think this is where guys fuck up ( I'm guilty as well ) and start to put a lot of pressure on affirmations to work, and disregard the rest of the fucking cd's. I mean if there was only about aff, then it would be only 1 cd with them on it, instead of 3, right ?
Also, he got pissed off at the community and he first released only 500 copies of the program, so he can better handle the questions of the guys. But it got pirated and things got out of control. And many guys didn't had the opportunity to ask questions when they hit a plateau. And they got stuck and didn't know what to do next.
Next, it was 4 types of affirmations that one had to do on a daily basis, not just 2, or 1 type. At least in the begining. Next, the aff he provided was how he's thinking about himself, life and women.
But, like I stated before, the guys who made the change and become great with women, are the guys that personally worked with him. Few guys did it on their own.
Again, it worked for me, got what I wanted, but didn't knew how to properly handle what I got, lost it. Again, it worked for me, got what I wanted, but didn't knew how to properly handle what I got, lost it. Again, it worked for me, got what I wanted, but didn't knew how to properly handle what I got, lost it. ( I repeated myself intentionally )
It was really about the internal shit that I had to do, more than anything. And most of the core issues of my life, were becouse of me not loving myself, which made me a
weak minded individual, which influenced all of my
choices*, and translated in my relationships of any kind.
I am a totally different person now than I was 3, 4 years ago. If I think about my behavior in the past, I still can't believe that it was me. I'm like "what the fuck, seriously ?".
* Between the age of 16 - 24, I was drinking heavily. Rarely at home, but every time I went out on weekends, it ended with me reaaally fucked up.
So close to alcoholic coma 2 times. Luckily, I have a fucking great body that put up with my fucking shit. I started smoking cigars and drinking when I was 11. ( Yes, to impress a girl that I liked ). Not much of drinking, but it increased every year. A lot of experiences that I had in life, were with me under the influence of alcohol. Which was not cool. I'm not saying that I didn't had fun, I had a ton of fun, but in the long run, it was not a good path.
Didn't do any drugs, except weed. It was a big thing out here with those syntetic drugs, with those bath salts and Spice shit. Everyone was doing it. Except me. I survived the peer pressure like a champ, back then.
In 2012 I quit drinking forever - cold turkey, I quit smoking cigars and weed in 2011 cold turkey and I'm proud as hell. I did my drinking. Fuck, I drinked for a lifetime.
Not saying that is bad, or not judging, b/c I don't really care what others do with their life, but it was enough for me and I prefer a clear head now. And the byproduct of that is usually when at a party, bar, get together, the guys drink heavily, and become idiotic and unattractive in the eyes of the girls, so guess who stands out with 0 effort ? Yes, yo' bwuoy ! Patience is a virtue, really !
L.E. Dali, U posted before me, as I was writing.
But I agree.
Hell, I used to catch signals waaaay before pua crap and affirmations. But didn't knew what to do with it.
Also, when younger in school, I always had pretty attractive chicks as girlfriends, but again with the core issue, and w/o the proper knowledge to deal with situations, guys hated my guts, and made me feel like shit, put me down, threaten me, and boy, I took it so personal. Now when I reflect upon it, it was their insecurities that was shining out, it has
nothing to do with me. I had older clueless guys leading me in a wrong direction in regards with girls, on purposely. It was a complete mess.
But that's life, man, it doesn't come with instructions. And that's the beauty of it.