This concept, "Fake it to you make it", was one that was preached heavily in the PUA world. Self-proclaimed gurus such as Tyler D, Gambler, and Jeffy preached of this mantra.
"ACT confident and you'll be confident".
"ACT uninterested and ACT non-needy and you will become non-needy with time".
"ACT unaffected by her "shit-tests".
All of it was "ACT" it and soon you shall be it.
I came across this thought when I posted: Where is this going (Texting Girl)
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=2614. Flow brought it to my attention that it looked like I was asking for WHAT TO SAY & how to ACT rather than see WHERE I WAS COMING FROM (fill a void type thing IMO).
So my question, on this quest how do we arrive at BEING, and not ACTING like a PIMP?
(Because I feel like I do a lot of "faking it till I make it")