What would you do?

I would do what I felt like doing

Yes Peregrinus, following your heart it's a good advise. I don't know why women are indecisive. it's supposed they're more emotional.

Yes, you're right Kidd.

It's just that women say they follow their hearts to make their decisions, but western women are turning on rational creatures (like men) on their way to "equality". So they're becoming more indecisive.

They don't even really know what they want anymore.

I really believe they never did.

They knew what everyone else/society/family and friends told them that they should want. They are now doubting that and are so left in this void of 'what do I really want?'.

There is a lot of wisdom in the phrase 'women like to be LEAD', 'LEAD the women you are with' etc.

First of all, it removes responsibility from them, all women like this. Shit, most people like this - men and women.

They are so into equality and independence that they don't understand that "submitting to your man" is not a bad or negative thing. It is really quite ridiculous.

They, from my experience tend to think that 'submitting' is a sign of weakness and something they should not do. They say they think it will make them unhappy and powerless.

However!

Once they have tried it they find quite the opposite, that it is liberating, empowering and they end up much much happier and content with life. This is where society has sold them a dud in my view.

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Rarely you will come across a woman who 'gets it' and tests you, then once she is confident in you are who you are, she will freely and willingly enter this state without any delay.. They are gems that should be taken care of and treated with respect (not too much, but enough).

[NOTE: not being forced to submit, or co-erced, freely submitting]

However!

Once they have tried it they find quite the opposite, that it is liberating, empowering and they end up much much happier and content with life. This is where society has sold them a dud in my view.