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Author: | Sniper [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 12:57 am ] |
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The Problem With popular media and Men Today\ by John Alanis let me tell you a story… I grew up in the 80’s, when hard rock and heavy metal ruled the musical world. Music was all about good times, attracting women with no excuses, and reveling in male energy. Girlie Men were reviled, and manly, aggressive men were worshiped (even if they had long hair and dressed outrageously). Women may have said they didn’t like the music, but they sure as heck loved the band members—if you lived through that era, you’ll remember hot, desirable women were everywhere. Fast forward to today. Music is now about whining about how bad you feel, how men are so unworthy, and how women are unattainable. Traditional male behavior is discouraged and made fun of by the popular media. Look at today’s TV shows and movies. Men are portrayed as slow, dull, lumpy buffoons, made fun of, tolerated, and eventually rescued by the “strong women” in their lives. They’re “in touch with their feelings,” constantly worry what others think about them, and are always on the verge of an emotional breakdown. The implication is, they’re inferior to women, and should be subservient to them. Unfortunately, this garbage has been going on for a generation, thanks to all the girlie men who have infiltrated the media. Today’s man has been exposed to this stuff for darn near 20 years now, and thinks that is how a man is supposed to act. He thinks he’s supposed to pucker up and kiss women’s butts, thinks he’s supposed to be a nice guy, thinks he’s supposed to let women lead him, and then is frustrated as hell when none of this stuff works like it does on TV and in the movies. What happens at the end of every chick flick, or the end of every TV show where the nerd gets the girl at the expense of the rude, masculine jock? He confesses his feelings to her, she realizes he is so much better than the masculine “jerk,” and she falls for him. Well, guess what? That might make for good TV, and it might work in the movies, but it sure as heck doesn’t work that way in real life. Every tried it? I did, before I figured out what really works. Here’s what happens: there’s an awkward pause, she says, “that’s nice” or “let’s just be friends,” and you never hear from her again. Why is this? Why does this male behavior that works on TV not work in the real world? The answer is simple: biology. You see, women are “hard wired” to respond to certain kinds of manly behavior, and to be turned off by other behavior. Ever heard a woman say she just “wants to meet a nice guy,” but then constantly chases jerks? It’s because she’s hard wired to respond to male behavior that makes her feel attraction, no matter what words come out of her mouth. Here’s a big secret: if a woman feels attraction for you, she’ll make every excuse to spend time with you. If she doesn’t, she’ll avoid you at all costs. The problem is, the behavior society teaches men creates attraction in women, doesn’t—it actually kills attraction in women! This has gotten much worse in recent years. In the early 80’s, men still knew how to attract women. By the time the early 90’s rolled around, men were conditioned to do the opposite of what works, and it keeps getting worse. Why did this happen? Is it a result of the feminist movement? The “self esteem” generation?” Laziness on the part of men? Being born into prosperity? I can’t say for sure. All I can say is this: if you do what society and the girlie men in the media want you to do, you will not attract desirable women, nor sustain that attraction. No matter how much the anti-male establishment wants you to believe it, women are NOT attracted to “nice guys.” They are not attracted to men who supplicate to them, nor to men who kiss their butts. They are not attracted to wimps, pushovers, or men who constantly have emotional crisis. They are not attracted to men who are jealous, possessive, or who are intimidated by women. They are not attracted to men who try not to offend them, nor to men who are ashamed of their desires for women. While we’re going to talk much more about it later, if you want to see a shining example of what women are attracted to, go and get yourself the movie, The Pink Panther, filmed in 1964 with David Niven and Peter Sellers. This movie was filmed when men still engaged in behavior that attracted desirable women, and it is amazing to watch David Niven. He is a true “ladies man.” Before you watch this movie, however, watch some of the current sitcoms on TV, or watch a few recent “chick flicks.” Then go watch The Pink Panther. Notice the differences between Niven’s character, and the characters of men today. You’ll see a perfect example of attractive behavior vs unattractive behavior, and the differences are amazing. |
Author: | Alchemist [ Mon Aug 02, 2010 7:42 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis |
Why the fuck are we made to feel guilt and shame for a desire that's forced down our throats, they're fucking with us to the point where we can't distinguish between genuine desire and neediness, that shit pisses me off, now I got more pissed-off energy to burn off. |
Author: | TheModernLibertine [ Mon Aug 02, 2010 9:13 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis |
I like John Alanis. I dont know a lot about what he teaches, but I know that he teaches becoming a woman magnet as opposed to pursuing. That is key. |
Author: | El-Chameleon [ Tue Aug 03, 2010 3:51 am ] | |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis | |
It's not our desire for sex that women have a problem with, I believe it's the intensity of that desire. Through conditioning we have turned the dial on our sexual desire way up causing us to have a strong sexual desire for her before there is even a sexual connection.
Good point.
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Author: | Alchemist [ Tue Aug 03, 2010 9:51 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis |
Yeah Sniper I wanted to see where this guy was coming from, but I stopped listening to his interview when they started talking about asking girls out and taking them out, completely contradicts this article. |
Author: | Sniper [ Tue Aug 03, 2010 10:54 am ] | |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis | |
Yeah Sniper I wanted to see where this guy was coming from, but I stopped listening to his interview when they started talking about asking girls out and taking them out, completely contradicts this article.
I don't know what the guy teaches I just liked that artical....
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Author: | CatherineCLee [ Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:08 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis |
Well, now is the time for you to open your eyes and go out of your room. Personality rather than looks is the answer on how to attract women.So if you are looking on how to attract women, play it with personality. Start by believing that you are a nice person worthy of love and attention. http://www.promaxpheromonelabs.com/how- ... the-looks/ |
Author: | The Kidd!! [ Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:26 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis |
*sniff sniff*...anyone else smell that? Smells like...congealed pork product sealed in a can! |
Author: | Alchemist [ Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:37 pm ] | |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis | |
*sniff sniff*...anyone else smell that? Smells like...congealed pork product sealed in a can!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-OPnBz6ctU
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Author: | Sniper [ Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:50 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis |
funny spammer we had here, I just fart pheromones to attract the opposite sex and it's free |
Author: | TheDude [ Sat Jun 25, 2011 9:16 pm ] | |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis | |
I believe as men today we have conditioned ourselves through pornography to want to fuck a woman the moment we see her. I do not believe this is natural. Subconsciously we are telling the women that they do not have to do anything in the mating process, so basically they can lay there like a fouton and we'd still be able to get our rocks off. It takes two to tango . . . if you already want to fuck a woman before she does anything to deserve it then you're basically saying sit on the sidelines while I dance by myself. I can see how this is unattractive to women, they want to be a part of the process . . . not sitting on the sidelines watching as you try to win her over. It's not our desire for sex that women have a problem with, I believe it's the intensity of that desire. Through conditioning we have turned the dial on our sexual desire way up causing us to have a strong sexual desire for her before there is even a sexual connection.
Well said, I too have such thoughts about pornography. It isn't natural to view porn nor is it healthy for the subconscious. I was never fond of porn, but it did have me in its grasps for a while. Tricky little bastard it is Nice comment Spaceman |
Author: | TheDude [ Fri Feb 24, 2012 11:20 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: popular media and men today by John Alanis |
Funny David Niven joke: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvtrWuLXuzQ |
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