I've recently been going through a mental battle with myself about the social matrix. It's like its all starting to unfold little by little before my eyes, but it's conflicting with what I am used to and what I've been conditioned to. One of the major conflicts that I've been having is the social matrix concerning my mother and sister.
Men have been conditioned by the social matrix to symp women in order to sleep with them, and some even make that their pursuit of happiness. However, as I am in the process of breaking free from the matrix (I still feel myself being dragged back) I was contempting whether I would want my sister to have a man in her in life who is a symp, conditioned to the matrix, or a man free of the matrix.
I mean, a symp would treat her well, buying her goods and shit to get in her pants, but at the same time I wonder if she would really be happy then? If she got a man free of the matrix (lets say one of you guys here on the forum), then you'd make her do all the chasing and the pursuing right? I think that would make her happy getting all those butterfly feelings and shit, but then she wouldn't be the one in power of the relationship.
Part of myself feels that my sister should have the power in the social matrix, making her aware of it and how she can use it to manipulate men to get what she wants ( and NO, I'm not a feminist!). At the same time, won't a man free of the matrix make her life for fulfilling?
Your thoughts on the matter would be much appreciated.
Maybe I missing something or seeing it in a tunnel vision, because at the moment I just can't rap my head around it 
My apologies if this topic has been discussed already. I couldn't find it
Thanks
Fresh
