Natural Freedom

In my observations/experience, women have cared less about discretion than men.
I believe the plausible deniability requirement, fear of consequences etc all to be part of the framework of control that women like to keep men in, but can readily ignore.

Women's loudness during sex, compared to men who are more like silent ninjas, is possibly one indication of this, that women like to make their activities known. Women are also the more attention seeking of the two sexes.

Case per case basis to be sure...and I really don't care about what kind of control women think they have over any given situation. As long as I get what I want out of the parasitic symbiotic agreement, then whatever floats their boat. Whatever she wants to believe is HER problem, not MINE.

Women's loudness during sex, compared to men who are more like silent ninjas, ...

Plus, what evidence do you have that men are quieter on average than women? I've never seen anyone provide any proof that is true. Maybe YOU are quieter, but that doesn't mean all men are...

Here’s a question we ask the audience every time we give a public presentation: If you’ve ever heard a heterosexual couple having sex (and who hasn’t?), which partner was louder? The answer we get every time, every place—from men, women, straight, gay, American, French, Japanese, and Brazilians—is always the same. Hands down. No question about it. Not even close. We don’t have to tell you because you already know, don’t you? Yes, the “meek,” “demure,” “coy” sex is the source of the high-decibel moaning, groaning, and calling out to the good Lord above, neighbors be damned.

...and just like that, this thread is derailed.

Yeah, I know the post in question was about prostitution, but the deeper meaning FOR ME was the view of both bride & groom being offered up to society, as objects, to be used for the greater good of society, with little thought given to them as individuals: This may not have been the main point you were making, but in addition to the prostitution theme, this was what I got out of it (and other things too, which I won't bother to go into here), and it is indeed a form of objectification.

1- there are many possible reasons, faaaar too many to list here, but what I like about this question is that it boils down to how I perceive myself and therefore present myself without realising it, coupled with how she perceives herself and therefore perceives how I have presented myself, thereby her choosing what she sees that has value to her. Something for me to reflect on - thank you.
2- plenty, some of which I am aware of and value, some of which I don't value, and some of which I am totally oblivious that I have.
3- Usually not, in my ESTIMATION, but sometimes it could be similar, though obviously not identical.

I knew it wasn't grumpy cat.. It was GRUMPY KIDD !

...and just like that, this thread is derailed.

...and ego will fuck you over EVERY TIME.

Hey if talking about the sounds that female apes make when they're fucking isn't super relevant, and sure make your life better, I don't know what is!