Natural Freedom

Not a Working Girl - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pv0aljC1MjI

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Awesome.

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GMST

Laughing just to keep from crying because it's so sad how he doesn't stand on that woman.

I applaud him for listening until the end though, but then he was supposed to cop back some real stand-on-ho shit

since she wanted to believe he thought she was a ho.

This is what happens when you don't set boundaries and rules.

This is a video from "that place."

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GMST

oh rkd.... lol

watch it again

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Watched it again and yeah he has some pimp tight behaviors, but he has more trick behaviors.

Maybe I'm a little staunch, but I wouldn't have paid her back for the cab or programmed my number into her phone. Then I wouldn't have had to hear her screeching ass in the morning.

$20 is small pimping, but it's mandatory with all women.

His response is adequate to her tirade though.

The fact she discounts the sexual experience, lying to herself, after his response is some pimpish shit.

Maybe my standards are too high on the appropriate response.

When women get verbally aggressive with me I get psychologically aggressive. I kick them out. I don't hear them out. A woman doesn't just raise her voice at me and get to be heard out. We live in a civil society, so the bitch needs to act civilized to get treated civilly.

yep, his stupidity (or 'something' like guts) saves his ass.

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funny video pere.

@rkd

Or, maybe, it's just comedy and doesn't need any breakdown or analysis.

The saying “The fish die by the mouth”, refers to those who speak more than the necessary until being fooled by their own speech.

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GMST

Not sure I follow. Could you elaborate more?

What she was doing all the video after she saw the 20 bucks?
Filling the white gaps, Filling the space, talking her mouth off and in the end she realized she completely fucked up.

What did the guy do?
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He listened. He never interrupted her. (he tried )
Hence the laughs.

He didn't even played her game. And he wins.

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GMST

Yeah a big ass mouth fucked her up, but the problem I have is that he sat there an listened for like 4 minutes of disrespectful shit.

I would have sent her packing like that movie "Gone in 60 seconds."

Only a minute would have passed, the time it took for me to slip on some pants and collar her ass out the door.

She would have been like what are you doing? I would have responded getting dressed to kick you out indecently clothed.

rkd...

she was disrespecting herself not him.

She was projecting.

Simplez.

I would have sat there and enjoyed the show

sooner or later the bomb would drop, as it did.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

I couldn't even see that because I was steady placing myself in that situation.

True, she is doing that too.

I'm still too staunch.

I have a hard time getting past a woman raising her voice. To me, that's so disrespectful, especially if I haven't raised my voice myself.

Anyway, looks like I'm still growing.

I stand corrected...always I need to be on my toes I do.

rkd.

Ask yourself if she would have come to the realisation that she did in the video, if you had been the guy and had responded how you had wanted to?

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Basically, he didn't let HER problem...become HIS problem.

...and knowing is half the battle.

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I asked myself this very question when I responded for the second time, after watching the video again.

My answer to myself was no, but I justified that fact to myself by stressing my intolerance for negative behavior.

That's why I said, I think I'm still to staunch.
Yeah, I understand the outcome and the reasons why it is more beneficial to let her talk herself out....just less work.

I still halfway get a kick out of bouncing/ignoring/firing women that show disrespectful behavior.

The feeling is starting to subside lately because of how many women I burn through when I don't have to.

I'm going to let things take their natural course without concern for being too staunch though.

I've attempted to make the transition forcefully, but there is something blocking that transition.

I suspect it will show itself to me in the next few weeks or month.

Otherwise, I'll get plenty of time to separate my problem of inserting my staunch viewpoint from my progress this spring break.

I've been so busy over last 9 months or so that I've had to force myself to get back on these forums to continue my journey.

Cliff Notes: See the response to Peregrinus

Staunchness is low tolerance behavior towards others, and towards oursevles. Kinda like desperate behavior and going overboard the line for such a silly little thing. Today I was thinking very hard about this because I too, carry a lot of this staunchness and low tolerance behavior towards others stupidity, sense of entitlement, and manipulation. While suddenly in my way to pay for my degree papers, a box of potato chips carried by some informal vendor, appeared in front of me, and had this clear message:

I'm very fragile, handle me with care.

In the beggining I laughed, but then It made me really think about this...
That's the universe saying to me that I'm fragile. And should adopt a more mature view distanced of the egocentric one and that all people want to step in my line, and that every one want to fuck with me. Just my opinion, I just saw this. Reporting back. Maybe it's different for you.

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GMST

ok guys so how to handle aggressive woman (in general)

it was half year ago.

was at gym and there was this crazy bitch.she had long red nails, looking like a biker-woman, got some tattoos, wearing black clothes, rather small and fit body and she came with a guy who looked like a mix of russian-woodcutter and bodyguard (was a bouncer in some other club). I also saw her speaking with gym manager earlier.

she was doing some reps and I just run near her (didnt want go around exercise machines so just maneuver her) and basically scared her a little (she was focusing on exercise).... I just say 'sorry' and started doing my preparation for another exercise so she went mental: shouting, saying like I'm stupid ect. so I just stand there and was enjoying her show. suddenly she run into me and push me, she started shouting (almost everyone heard her). I told her to calm down but it didnt work. she was getting more aggressive abusing me. (getting attention). manager came to solve the problem,I notice her slave was nearby. all muscle-symps started asking her what happen etc. all the time I was doing my exercise but noticed that later she was speaking about that situation with all gym members.

I used logic to judge situation and would rather to pass

I came 2 days after and manager just start smiling at me when he saw me (rather stupid smile) but he was OK. saw that bitch after 2-3 mouth and she was ok (probably forgot about the situation).

lesson learned: I show little insecurity and the bitch used it.

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“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor E. Frankl