Natural Freedom

Oh the fun is just beginning, P! I told her yesterday that we were DONE...don't bother until is DNA test time...I know her and her mom were in the war room ALL DAY TODAY lol. It really is said because I know the bitch 'loves' me...she just got herself caught up in a situation that I can't help with.

Oh and Dali...she didn't ruin MY future...she ruined HERS.

I think she is hurting more, knowing that this hunk of a man will be with another young beautiful filly soon enough
I hope your "daughter" doesn't come about in a situation like this. I really do. I also hope that whatever you need(ed) to get out of your system due to this "situation" (emotion wise) has already or is being taken care of.

I think she is hurting more, knowing that this hunk of a man will be with another young beautiful filly soon enough
I hope your "daughter" doesn't come about in a situation like this. I really do. I also hope that whatever you need(ed) to get out of your system due to this "situation" (emotion wise) has already or is being taken care of.

I can relate to this story...it's kind of the reason why I've been ghost for a bit.

I knew my girl (now my ex) liked this guy from school...and I put us on 'dating' status so that she could get it out of her system and then re-evaluate her and I...and the plan was perfect too...except the dumb bitch decided to not use protection and fuck up on her birth control pills. Long story short, she's pregnant now and doesn't know if I'm the father or this other guy.

Am I heartbroken? NO...I'm just disappointed that the future situation I envisioned will no longer come to pass. The biggest problem is that she chose to lie about it...she was in her right to fuck the guy...I just told her to keep me informed so I could protect myself should it start going down. When she finally said she was ready to re-commit in early April, I asked her if she had done anything...over the next month it went from no...to they kissed...to they had sex once and now shes pregnant (I was still sleeping with her at the same time but I have a feeling that it isn't mine), to they had been fucking for awhile.

This is where the disgustingly interesting true nature of women REALLY shines thru...her mom came at me like 'If you truly love my daughter unconditionally, it doesn't matter whose it is...'...I told that bitch there isn't that much love in the WORLD.

Not to mention she failed her semester so now she's a pregnant dropout...I didn't sign up for that. She says she loves me and wants me to be around to support her and that she's done with the other guy (which her mom co-signs)...OF COURSE YOU DO BITCH, I'M THE BEST OPTION. Much like Scarf said, he was what she WANTED, but I am who she NEEDS...but FUCK all that noise.

I told her yesterday that we are FINISHED...I said I don't want to see her until it's time for DNA testing (she's currently 10 weeks or so...she could miscarry still). If its mine, I'll deal with it then. For all of the bullshit crying and begging she has been doing up to that point, she took that declaration silently...and I haven't heard a peep from her since...I'm sure her and her mom are now scheming on how to lock in the other guy...SMH.

A cautionary tale indeed...but like the guy in the story, there is NO WAY I'm raising another man's child that was conceived in such a fashion. She doesn't deserve me and everything I bring to the table. So that's that.

Oh...and it appears I owe Grinus a carton of smokes.

@Kidd

I don't want to sound all romantic and shit but maybe next week you will find a girl that you will end up marrying. So I don't think that you are destined not to get married Unless that's what you want.

I mean even pimps got married and some top PUAs got married (not that I'm putting you in the same boat with the PUAs)- but what I'm trying to say is that fate is not always known so I don't think you are 'destined' to not get married (unless it's what you want....)

Fix'd!

You have to understand...although the father could be anybody, the baby is ALWAYS the mothers...

who said women are like cats?



More cats here

She can't be stupid since she is\was in medical school after all.....

@Resonance

I see...
but if she wanted to trap The Kidd she would have been more careful with the other guy, if she wanted to trap the other guy- she wouldn't try to get The Kidd back.

She can't be stupid since she is\was in medical school after all.....

I know this sucks for Kidd but for me it proves a very big lesson. If this can happen to a guy at his level then it can happen to everyone...so the goal in all this shit isn't about getting the girl or keeping the girl, it's about remaining rock solid and true to yourself no matter what happens, and as long as you do that then "You're doing it right" so to speak, it's not on you or there's nothing wrong with you if she bails because like I said in the You're fine there's nothing wrong with you thread, it's happens to the best of em, everyone!