When women hit 30 (age 30) and above, these girls look for stable men with good paychecks to settle down with once they're done whoring with the guys they really like.
i notice this too, since I'm now getting in my late twenties and am doing allright work wise. I see those types starting to show interest in me.
The trick is these stable guys were ignored all through their 20s and early 30s in many cases
That was for myself the case also, up untill my late twenties where I'm at now it seems to be changing quit rapidly.
and their only chance for a sex life is to marry.
This statement is wrong. Because these women in their late twenties and 30's now will fuck me. They hope it will make "the stable" want to keep her. "the stable guy" can just tell her he isn't ready for a relationship (with her) or just doesn't like her enough. And he can go on to the next woman in her late twenties or 30's. There are plenty women (and the competition is fierce for them) in that age group to chose from, and to play around with for "the stable guy".
A "stable guy" (read well off man) in his 30's is a bit scarce, and for sure "high" in demand. While a 30-something year old woman looking to settle down is in plenty/over supply.
I have the feeling I'm just gettiong out of an age period (teens to mid-twenties), where I was pasrt of a group that was in plenty/over supply. The group of young men who haven't achieved much (yet) and are looking to get plenty sex without being in a relationship. I had the feeling the competition was fierce, and plenty young men where cooler then me which was important in that age group. Now in my late 20's; plenty men in my age group aren't as well off (money and lifestyle wise) as I am at the moment. Which now seems to give a bit (and more and more as i get older) the upper hand dating wise.
The women in these cases use sex very freely to trap the man
Yes, and if you as a "stable guy" can recognize that a woman is doing that for those type of reasons and you don't like it. You can just get easy entrance and plenty sex, and just stay unattached.
It's the perfect way for me "mr. stable guy" to make up abit for the times from my late teens untill my mid-twenties when i wasn't able to get much sex from women. And maybe the "cool" and older guys were being given that, for now it's my time and prime years comming up.
i don't want to "waste" my prime years (dating value wise) being married to a woman, whom can take me to the cleaners (financially) if she wants to.
I think I would consider the option of marriage maybe when I couldn't get women, but those times seem to have passed.
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. They say "why should I pay with my life for what everyone else got for free"?
