I won't go into too much details here but Me as well as other guys in my unit:
although we have been in dangerous situations and stuff, we still had fear around women, So I'm not sure about what you are saying...
i want to clear that it's not a how to overcome fear to women, it's to undertnd why is the fear, robert by says that we look for woman as our saviors and we look for the same safetely and nurchering that our mother provide us in childhood becasue our fathers fail to show us a rigth male model, to break the pattern we have to look inside of us , it's like tyler durden says in the movie "We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need. ...sorry for using movies as reference but it's suitable in this ocasion
i'm not saying that this is a fact but seems legit to me, and it encourage me to not be another betamale in the world