interesting video
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid ... 0483171546#
There is something mysterious, exciting, and even a little bit edgy about the “wild thing” within each of us.
For many people in our “civilized” society, we have all but tossed aside our wild nature in favor of ideals that emphasize intelligence, reason, and social refinement.
To express anger or aggression, to act unpredictably, or even at times to be direct and honest are often looked down as primal or uncivilized.
Instead we are taught to “be nice” and “smile”, or even to “put on a happy face even if you aren’t happy.” While there is some usefulness to this in growing up, when we start to step into the adult world, these old ingrained patterns can actually work against us and keep us stuck in childhood.
Fear of rejection, needing other’s approval, an inability to set healthy boundaries, and resistance to figure’s of authority, are just a few examples of what crops up when these patterns operate within us beyond their intended usefulness.
Young men often experience the most challenges with these lingering childhood patterns.
Looking to break free of these limiting beliefs and inappropriate emotional ties, young men often try to reconcile this by swinging to the opposite extreme by becoming rude, harsh, and domineering.
They become stuck between being the soft spoken “nice guy” and the cocky and arrogant “tough guy.”
Yet where is the mature man?… the one with authentic masculine power, courage and leadership?
When did we lose him?
More importantly, where can we find him?