Man that wounded him so deeply, he even made himself famous for the wrong reasons.
I remember the scene from Hitch (The movie), where it happens more or like what grinus quoted.
The Scene: [He's in the rain waiting/looking for his girlfriend, and catch them inside a car intensely making out with a more (whichever factor) she deemed a better suitor at that time] and his whole world crumbled.
Now Hitch seems more like an autobiography than a weekend movie.
Talk about not confronting the black cloud that is in frony of our eyes, always.