Backstory: The woman in question is an ex of an acquaintance...I have never met this woman in real life and have interacted with her mainly through facebook and, after we exchanged numbers, text messaging. The messaging has become increasingly flirtatious over the last month or so...like I always say, if I can see it coming then I'm not in a rush for it to get here as I have other things to do (like my keeper!
). I have spoken to her on the phone once for maybe 15 minutes. She just informed me that she is bi the day before this. This interaction went down Friday morning:
Girl: Good morning you sexy man you
Kidd!!: Good morning to you too, boo.
G: I just got up to tinkle but I wanted to text you lol
are you working ??
K: Well thank you for thinking about me while nature is calling lol...yep I'm at the jobby job gettin it done...hit me up when you get up for good, love.
G: Lol actually I thought of you as I woke up. Next to my girl & wondered what it would be like to wake up next to you. Lol.
K: Probably about as nice as you think it would be.
G: Lol aww man. I just think it would feel pretty great. All that sexy man next to me oh lord. Lol
K: Lol! You don't think your girl would mind? My girl would lmao!
G: She ain't the jealous type lol she is bi but is more into girls. Well more into me...and get rid of your girl then LMAO!
*note: At this point she thinks I am joking about having a girl...we've never discussed who we are involved with up until this point...
K: Naw we have an understanding...we aren't exclusive...with her, as long as it ain't in her face, she ain't gonna ask the right questions to get the right answers, ya digg?
G: So serious. Lol. That hurt. Didn't know you had a girl. Smh. Gotta put you on the no call no txt list
K: No need for all of that...just respect the fact I put it out there instead of bullshitting you like the rest of these dudes. Lets be grown about this...
G: No you have no idea. Ugh. :/
K: Yes, I actually do lol!...TRUST ME I do haha! It's absolutely HORRIBLE what bullshit you women have to sift thru...at least with me you know where you stand and can make an informed decision...can't do nothing but respect it.
G: No you really don't...
K: Ok...maybe not with you personally, but I know how the game goes. Hey, if nothing else, we can still be cool. I'm not petty like that.. But trust me...the juice is worth the squeeze.
G: No I look dumb. Why didn't you tell me sooner
K: Look dumb to who? You don't look dumb to me...
G: Whatever I don't see why you didn't tell me. I said stupid shit ugh
K: Look...I'm dating...plain and simple. It's not like I'm sitting at home jacking off every damn day. At least I'm real with mine. I call her 'my girl' because im not curretly seeing anyone else...mainly because I'm picky as all hell lol!...hard to tell someone's if you were being serious or not, so at least I spoke on it before and not after. You didn't say anything stupid...you are sexually attracted to me...and as I to you. Neither of us are married. You brought up your girl finally...so I brought up my current sexual behavior. What's the big deal? It should be a good thing...
*After the last text, she went quiet...so after around 30 minutes I sent the following final salvo:
Okay...just digest and process what I've said today...I just wanted you to be able to make an informed decision since it looks like we were heading that way is all. Whatever you decide I will respect. That said, I will fuck you SILLY if you decide you would like to explore that option. Up to you, love.
*Then she went into radio silence for about 24 hours. This is where most guys would fuck up, get antsy and start trying to salvage something that doesn't need to be salvaged. ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS BE PATIENT AND LET YOUR WORDS HIT HOME. How long this could take varies per person, their circumstances and overall perception of your value. For me it took about a day, since at around 330 yesterday afternoon I received the following text:
G: So I marinated on the texts you sent & I guess it's whatever about your girl. I really like you so it doesn't matter.
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See? It really can be that easy. I dunno what other so called gurus are saying about "text game", but there ya go. No game involved...merely using logical tools such as observation, analyzation, Front Blasting and patience...and really, my Front Blaster was only set to "stun".
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