This was originally posted in The Kundalini post I did. But its probably better off here so I reposted it.
With the whole women thing, I completely dedicated myself to my spiritual journey. And along the way I stumbled onto some who also has an interest in the same stuff so its perfect. The real key I think is when you can balance not caring with caring its a fine line. You want to care about other people while at the same time being so focused on what you truely love beyond other people like your true calling that you do actually become completely independent on other people because your doing your thing.
The ironic thing is that everyone on this forum has talked about it, but has truely realized it and no amount of affirmations, NG (lol) is going to be able to help you internalize it...only you can. But once it clicks your rockin