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| Author: | Alchemist [ Fri Apr 09, 2010 11:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Not caring what people think. |
Might still be early days but there's something I want to share as I'm experiencing what I feel is a major shift. Some new energy's been coming to me for the past couple days, subtle yet powerful. I cared less of what people think more than ever....I asked myself this question internally for the most part, am I gonna spend the rest of my life caring what people think? how valuable is it to really care what people think? what does it MEAN 'what people think?" I had never heard of this 'what people think' or the words 'grounded', 'congruent', and a 'attraction' to name a few, before I entered the seduction community.... How valuable is anything that I've learned, I'm asking myself now, what validity does it have?. I can't just follow a system that seems to work and not be able to break it down, if I want to believe in something I must also have the power to break it down and disprove it, then come back to it if it still has a foundation. This goes for Natural Grounding as well, I don't know personally how powerful it is, but I know how I feel when I go out there and see sexy women like I did tonight....years of pornography put me there, and I just have to remember, they're people. A group of clubbers made fun of my hairdo on my way home, I knew they would but I didn't care...this is the number one pet peeve I've had my whole life: people making fun of me because it made me feel insulted, as if it was an attack on my character, but why would I care so deeply what THEY said about ME?....this time I didn't and I wasn't like "wow, I'm not affected anymore" I just genuinely didn't care. Some people were drinking on the bus and the bus driver got angry at them, my ego was judging but I wasn't, I don't KNOW these people, why would I be pissed off at them? with all the luxuries of life I have, what effect could this possibly have from me?. From these random occurrences, I have discovered that 1) I'm beginning to ask myself questions non-egioc, and experiencing a shift through that and 2) I'm not giving a fuck...a friend of mine told me a couple days ago how he'd like to be like me, not giving a fuck what people think....what he didn't know is that while I may display a sort of stoic character and apathy part of me cares, or it did anyways until yesterday. Women are not pieces of meat, the values and beliefs we've grown up with concerning sexual relationships and intimacy are severely distorted....I know that now, it's fucking crazy, but I have no more wish of revenge against the seduction community, I just wish to stay away from it completely, I don't need them to go down like a ton of bricks, when I sort all this shit out for myself I'll be fine and that's all that matters. Is that selfish? maybe, but fuckit, this is how I feel. |
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| Author: | Alchemist [ Sat Apr 10, 2010 12:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not caring what people think. |
Also, I really don't see the point in feeling back for my lack of sexual experience. I haven't had sex, yet, for most of my life I've felt such an urge and need for it, which may not even be my natural urge but one of influence from society. This feeling I have when I see 'hot girls', am I supposed to feel this way? is it wrong if I don't?. No. |
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| Author: | TheModernLibertine [ Wed Apr 21, 2010 10:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not caring what people think. |
Why should you feel bad? About anything really. You're a glorious bastard for the sake of being one.<---There's an affirmation for you! Most girls like virgins anyway. I guarantee it. My friend knew this guy who used to spread a reputation around school that he was a pure virgin and holding out until marriage. That guy apparently got laid like a rock star,lmao. |
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| Author: | the archer 17 [ Thu Apr 22, 2010 12:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not caring what people think. |
If you care what people think, you playing right into their hands. They will not respect you and they will treat you accordingly. On the other hand, if you don't care what people and don't look outside yourself for acknowledgment, they will see you as a confident person and treat you accordingly. |
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