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PostPosted: Sat Mar 02, 2013 5:02 am 
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-I don't have to be a carbon copy of the Kidd or even an ideal pimp tight person.Since i have been on here i realized that Im putting pressure on myself to be this perfect pimp tight person(for example feeling the need to be like the Kidd or Goldie) that makes woman drop their jaws in awe since everyone is different.I need to forget about this.Mistakes will be made along the way,but it's just part of the learning process.
-It is important to have a solid front whether its your personalityor dressing style(Like rkd mentioned there is nothing wrong with dressing nice and getting noticed) because its what separates you from the average person.Woman have many options,and it will seperate you from the rest.Clout keeps and altough i am working on improving this,in the meantime lets say i only make 30k a year,i will still be better off with a solid front and an average clout than i will with a average front and average clout.
-Don't worry about front blasting a bitch or evoking a guilty plea,instead focus on basic principles such as space,not chasing too hard and not being all up in her ass.
-It's ok to approach a woman if i want to
-There is no special move that i need to make,no icebreaker,forget about being direct or indirect or even pimp tight like the kidd everything is situational.
-I will use my intuition that i have developed through observation to sense a woman's vibe and act accordingly.By now i have been able to detect which women are more open.I have resisted talking to them because i thought that i didn't have enough to evoke a guilty plea but fuck that.I need to drop that theory and just start talking to them in a not so all up in there ass kinda way.
-Eventually an X factor will come along.All i have to do is be cool and try not too hard to fuck her.
-In the meantime i will continue to develop my hobbies more.
-Essentially instead of asking myself if am closer to being pimp tight, rather i should ask how can i use the principles of pimp-tightedness to improve my life.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 02, 2013 5:21 am 
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Don't forget this either 8-)
peregrinus wrote:
Purposefully putting yourself in situations YOU KNOW trigger you, so that you can really feel those feelings and emotions, deal with them properly, get used to feeling them, seek out the root issues and causes.
Reliving situations that put you in certain emotional states and finding the root causes is a powerful tool, again people like the easy road rather than the effective one.

'I stopped fighting my inner demons, we're on the same side now' - peregrinus

Letting go, letting go of your attachments and facing your internal demons has a MAJOR effect, so much that I can see not doing them really holding people back despite other progress they have made, until they address them there is an 'elephant in the room'. Or as Kidd puts it, the band aid is on but it is only covering up the issue, it is not really dealing with it.
I have not delved too deeply into his stuff, as it always seemed a bit airy fairy to me, as though you should have all that stuff sorted BEFORE you get around to his stuff. I have not seen him deal with core issues at all, I may be wrong however I feel I am not.

To my mind a lot of the guys seeking help in this area would do best to focus on themselves first rather than women, sort yourself out and then you will automatically become more attractive. Then even simple improvements you make will have a massive effect.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 02, 2013 5:37 am 
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I don't have to be a carbon copy of the Kidd or even an ideal pimp tight person.Since i have been on here i realized that Im putting pressure on myself to be this perfect pimp tight person that makes woman drop their jaws in awe.I need to forget about this.Mistakes will be made along the way,but it's just part of the learning process.
Nobody's perfect man. There's girls that ain't into Kidd, he had problems with his chick...obviously not saying that as a dis cause I got nothing but love for the fucker...just that it happens to everyone, tons of girls aren't into me, a girl I dated left me for one of my best friends, you just have to be fine with yourself cause you know that nobody is perfect.

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-Don't worry about front blasting a bitch or evoking a guilty plea,instead focus on basic principles such as space,not chasing too hard and not being all up in her ass.
Big time, as someone here once said "The only thing a girl cannot combat is space". Don't ever chase.

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-It's ok to approach a woman if i want to
You can, doesn't mean the outcome is gonna be good which is why it's better to observe and stack evidence rather that throw darts...approaching can mean many different things though, a simple comment to see how she replies to gauge interest works wonders.

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-There is no special move that i need to make,no icebreaker,forget about being direct or indirect or even pimp tight like the kidd everything is situational.
Again, comments are the best... She's looking at pasta in the grocery store "Ya I think I'm gonna have that for dinner too" with a little laugh...gauge her response.

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-Eventually an X factor will come along.All i have to do is be cool and try not too hard to fuck her.
You will definitely meet an x-factor, the lottery winner though comes from when you're her x-factor and she's your x-factor...very rare, but you've struck oil if you find it. And with x-factors you don't really have to "try" to do anything, it's seriously as easy as breathing..she'd wipe your ass if you wanted her to.

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