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Author:  Merrick [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:54 am ]
Post subject:  Some insight from a girl I used to know
So ya´ll might remember this topic: viewtopic.php?f=2&t=2748

Anyways, we hang out at times and we are getting along.
I keep my jealousy in check but it still shines through at times but at least I am aware of it.
She blew of the mentioned dude because he was a "pussy" (her words) and because he fell "in love with her".
Unsurprisingly she had another dude lined up already to take his place.

So I was texting with another ex of mine about me and her, she told me the following:
Quote:
She doesn´t want you because she had you and still has you in her hands.
She knows if she´d want to have you she could do it easily.
If I know you can bet that she knows.
On my question what I should do about it she said:
Quote:
Nothing you can do about it, you have to let go [of your jealousy.]
Let her be.
I know that Kidd keeps saying that one shall not listen to women but this hit the nail right on the head.
This seemed like a damn honest assesment from her. Just felt like sharing this with you guys.

P.S: I´m seeing this as an experiment now, I am aware of my shortcomings and keep noticing when I fuck up.
Which means I will be able to learn how to counteract properly over time.
At least that is what I am trying to do :lol:

Like Kidd said: There´s always a next time.
Author:  peregrinus [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 6:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Like Grinus says: Let it go
Author:  Merrick [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
peregrinus wrote:
Like Grinus says: Let it go
Just a moment ago I managed to let go of my anger. First time in my life.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 7:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
As a general rule you shouldn't go to women for advice on women...there are exceptions and x-factors out there (I wouldn't discount anything Villar might have to say, for example)...but to make it simple for those who are new to this mindset, I just put it out there like a blanket statement to help keep them focused. :geek:
Author:  TheDude [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
peregrinus wrote:
Like Grinus says: Let it go
So profound, yet so simple. :geek:
Merrick wrote:
peregrinus wrote:
Like Grinus says: Let it go
Just a moment ago I managed to let go of my anger. First time in my life.
Great. Now let that go too.
The Kidd!! wrote:
As a general rule you shouldn't go to women for advice on women...there are exceptions and x-factors out there (I wouldn't discount anything Villar might have to say, for example)...but to make it simple for those who are new to this mindset, I just put it out there like a blanket statement to help keep them focused. :geek:
More and more I'm beginning to solidify that there will always be EXCEPTIONS to the RULE. There are no rules, only guidelines to follow?

Merrick my curiosity stirs, what're your plans with this broad of yours? And, there is always a plan! Sometimes we just aren't aware of it, because it may look too selfish or "bad". However, being aware of your plans and accepting them is what I believe to be apart of taking the red pill. :geek:
Author:  Merrick [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 1:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
TheDude wrote:
Merrick my curiosity stirs, what're your plans with this broad of yours?
It's pretty much exclusively 'bout dealing with myself ATM ;)
The broad ain't going anywhere, no need to rush things.

She's an external product of my internal conflict. :arrow: Her behavior towards me, manipulation [attempts] in any shape or form, are accessory symptoms of a disease within me.
This is simply a female acting according to her nature.
Therefore not planning on anything for now. Not in regards to her, at least... ;)
I'll deal with her when the time comes.
Author:  Merrick [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 5:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Update: Just friendzoned her.
I was tired of being stuck in a limbo, so I labeled it.
Author:  Slim Titan [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 2:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Merrick wrote:
Update: Just friendzoned her.
I was tired of being stuck in a limbo, so I labeled it.
THIS DOES NOT MEAN SHIT. YOU WERE NOT IN LIMBO. SHE VIEWED YOU AS A FRIEND. YOUR OTHER FEMALE FRIEND SAID THE SAME DAMN THING. THAT EX OF YOURS SHOULDN'T BE AN EX BECAUSE SHE HAS A RATIONAL HEAD ON HER SHOULDERS. DAMN, ALL YOU DID WAS TELL THAT GIRL YOU'RE INTERESTED IN THAT I STILL GIVE A SHIT, FROM HER PERSPECTIVE. FRIENDZONING A FEMALE THAT ACTS UP, THAT IS INTERESTED IN YOU, TAKES YOU OUT OF LIMBO AND HELPS YOU. SHE AIN'T ACTING ANYTHING. YOU FRIENDZONED A LITTLE GIRL THAT DOESN'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU AND MADE YOUR SITUATION WORSE. I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED IF THE GIRL IN QUESTION STOPS HITTING YOU UP IF SHE EVER WAS AND/OR STOPS ANSWERING YOUR TEXTS AND CALLS. WHY? IT JUST WOULDN'T MAKE SENSE TO TALK TO YOU AFTER YOUR ACTIONS. '86 THAT GIRL. FIND A WOMAN. THEN TALK ABOUT HOW YOUR EXPERIENCES WITH WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT THAN GIRLS. YOU'LL KNOW A WOMAN WHEN YOU FIND ONE.

Note: this is just my humble opinion from this specific thread I have read. I have not read the other thread and don't plan too. It sounds like a damn waste of time.

Also, since you decided to randomly hit me up on Facebook. Then show some courtesy and respect for yourself and get rid of that shirtless profile picture. I don't use Facebook often, but my timeline is bad enough and people check my friends. I can't consider adding you until you change that shit and call me so you can get laced up on the basics.

I already don't socialize with most of the lames on my Facebook. I don't want to add another lame. I want to add someone that's real and that's about getting this paper.
:!:
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 2:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Thanks rkd...I didn't have the heart to do it. 8-)
Author:  TheDude [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 2:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
rkd1990 wrote:
Merrick wrote:
Update: Just friendzoned her.
I was tired of being stuck in a limbo, so I labeled it.
THIS DOES NOT MEAN SHIT. YOU WERE NOT IN LIMBO. SHE VIEWED YOU AS A FRIEND. YOUR OTHER FEMALE FRIEND SAID THE SAME DAMN THING. THAT EX OF YOURS SHOULDN'T BE AN EX BECAUSE SHE HAS A RATIONAL HEAD ON HER SHOULDERS. DAMN, ALL YOU DID WAS TELL THAT GIRL YOU'RE INTERESTED IN THAT I STILL GIVE A SHIT, FROM HER PERSPECTIVE. FRIENDZONING A FEMALE THAT ACTS UP, THAT IS INTERESTED IN YOU, TAKES YOU OUT OF LIMBO AND HELPS YOU. SHE AIN'T ACTING ANYTHING. YOU FRIENDZONED A LITTLE GIRL THAT DOESN'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU AND MADE YOUR SITUATION WORSE. I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED IF THE GIRL IN QUESTION STOPS HITTING YOU UP IF SHE EVER WAS AND/OR STOPS ANSWERING YOUR TEXTS AND CALLS. WHY? IT JUST WOULDN'T MAKE SENSE TO TALK TO YOU AFTER YOUR ACTIONS. '86 THAT GIRL. FIND A WOMAN. THEN TALK ABOUT HOW YOUR EXPERIENCES WITH WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT THAN GIRLS. YOU'LL KNOW A WOMAN WHEN YOU FIND ONE.

Note: this is just my humble opinion from this specific thread I have read. I have not read the other thread and don't plan too. It sounds like a damn waste of time.

Also, since you decided to randomly hit me up on Facebook. Then show some courtesy and respect for yourself and get rid of that shirtless profile picture. I don't use Facebook often, but my timeline is bad enough and people check my friends. I can't consider adding you until you change that shit and call me so you can get laced up on the basics.

I already don't socialize with most of the lames on my Facebook. I don't want to add another lame. I want to add someone that's real and that's about getting this paper.
:!:
I LOVE when the wise crack down through the bs and lay it straight! :lol: :geek:
Author:  Merrick [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 3:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
The Kidd!! wrote:
Thanks rkd...I didn't have the heart to do it. 8-)
I can take it ;)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 4:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Merrick wrote:
The Kidd!! wrote:
Thanks rkd...I didn't have the heart to do it. 8-)
I can take it ;)
Didn't say you couldn't take it...just said I wasn't gonna do it. :mrgreen:
Author:  Merrick [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 4:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
I didn't worsen my situation in the slightest bit.
What I wanted to express was not what you read.
Rdk is spot on bout some things, totally missed the mark on others though.
You're not as smart as you think you are.
Humble opinion my ass
You're judgemental, arrogant & entitled.
Go get that paper, keep it real
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 5:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Merrick wrote:
I didn't worsen my situation in the slightest bit.
What I wanted to express was not what you read.
Rdk is spot on bout some things, totally missed the mark on others though.
You're not as smart as you think you are.
Humble opinion my ass :roll:
You're judgemental, arrogant & entitled.
Go get that paper, keep it real ;)
...and there it is. 8-)
Author:  Merrick [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 5:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Rdk, you just saved me a whole lot of trouble.
Thanks- This shit hit a nerve.
Author:  TheDude [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 6:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
The Kidd!! wrote:
Merrick wrote:
I didn't worsen my situation in the slightest bit.
What I wanted to express was not what you read.
Rdk is spot on bout some things, totally missed the mark on others though.
You're not as smart as you think you are.
Humble opinion my ass :roll:
You're judgemental, arrogant & entitled.
Go get that paper, keep it real ;)
...and there it is. 8-)
Like. :lol:
Author:  peregrinus [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 10:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Merrick wrote:
Thanks- This shit hit a nerve.
Indeed it did
Author:  Altair [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 9:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Merrick wrote:
Thanks- This shit hit a nerve.
He did it to me once too haha, I did the same thing...then realized after rdk was right :lol:
Author:  Merrick [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 9:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
Morpheus wrote:
Merrick wrote:
Thanks- This shit hit a nerve.
He did it to me once too haha, I did the same thing...then realized after rdk was right :lol:
Yeah, oh well shit happens. :lol:
I'm snowboarding in Austria at the moment, helps clearing my mind :geek:
Author:  JDogg [ Wed Feb 13, 2013 8:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some insight from a girl I used to know
God isn't it funny how one can miss of all his own slip-ups, yet be so keen on others' mishaps.

Why can't we observe ourselves??!!?? GOD DAMN EGO!
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