Natural Freedom

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

We are all familiar with the saying that any great journey starts with one small step and quite often taking that first initial action is a massive achievement which should be applauded. However, the only way to achieve progress towards your goal is to continue, step after step after step after step.

Commitment, motivation, passion and focus are all valuable assets required to achieve any goal set but the absolute key ingredient is persistence in the actions you take.

Each step is a confirmation that you are being persistent in moving along the path towards your goal.

No matter how small the step, you have made that step.

Surely that is worthy of a confirmation.

I have taken a step towards my goal.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Damn, Kidd and grinus back to back advice. I'll take this and report back in a few weeks. I can see what your saying. For someone like me that is looking for some direction in his life this is really helpful.

Good...and stop trying to tell people what they can and can't do.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

My favorite thing to see if I'm looking for confirmation that a chick is jock'n me is watch when she hands you something...look to see if her hand is shaking

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

So here's an update of what has been happening. First, the girl that I said was making it easy sent me a text 2 weeks ago at 2am while I was sleeping asking me what I was doing. The next day I didn't see the text until 5 and sent her a text saying I was sleeping. She never texted me back and I haven't heard from her since then. So she's done. I will not be talking to her again even if she reaches out to me. 

The chick that told me she gives good head texted me last night. Here's the convo and what ended up happening. She was going to have a few people over but here's what was said....

Her: i dont think you were gonna come anyway but all the guys like backed out anyway sooo yeah

Me: Ohh really? I tried to call joe before but he didn't answer
What happened?

Her: they called me like 7 times and texted me about where the house was and i told them i was working til close and jordan was like oh well then is it even worth coming and i was like well its up to you ill be home at like 1120 and he never answered and joe just txted me saying sorry he isnt coming theyre going to smoke and jordan said its too late or some shit idk...soooo now i have nothing

Me: what's Jill doing?

Her: she said shed still come if i want but like she doesnt really wanna drink she wants to smoke and i dont smoke so yeah idk guess ill just stay in

Me: Tru

Her: ugh i wanted to do somethinggg. 
you should just come and we could just have sex in every room of my house

Me: haha ohh yeah

Her: nah but im prob doing it tom if you dont have anything better to do youre welcome to come

Me: So u were being sarcastic like u were last time u said to come over?

Her: lol i mean youre more than welcome to come hang out but i dont just have sex with just anyone, i dont like being easy

Me: Lol

Her: u confuse me, I don't like you

Me: I know that really means ur obsessed with me. How do I confuse u?

Her: damn you just read right through me, youre good. like idk if youre fucking with me or youre actually somewhat interested

Me: lol ohhh Ur the one that's telling me u wanna have sex then ur like nah I'm good

Her: hahah well the sex part i was fucking around about cuz im not a whore, although ive been pretty sexually frustrated lately. butttt i am serious about being down for fun...i make it pretty obvious id say

Me: I'm down for that too

Her: then come over
(10 min goes by)
Her: guess that means no

Me: I REALLY want to come over but I feel like I won't be any fun right now I'm so beat

Her: lol i mean i would love if you came i wont lie but im not gonna make you, i could through in a massage if that will persuade you...

Her: i have some kahlua and some vodka and about like 6 beers...and i could make it a good massage....

Me: what's the address?


So I ended up going to her house to hang for a little. I didn't want to stay long. When I got to her house it was already almost 1am. We had some drinks and just talked for a while. Too be honest I really wasn't feeling it and kinda wanted to go. She did all the talking. I could tell she really wanted to hook up and started talking about how she needs a friend with benefits. She ended up giving me a back massage for a few minutes, it was really good. I told her I had to go and I was sorry I wasn't any fun that night. We walked outside and I gave her a hug. For some reason I went to kiss her and we started making out. She was really aggressive. She was biting my lips and sucking on my mouth. It was pretty hardcore. I started rubbing her boobs and stuff. She really turned me on. We went back inside the house and she gave me the best blowjob I ever had. I mean she blew me like she was a pornstar. It was great. After that then I finally left. It was a pretty good night.

Finally! Some fucking GOOD NEWS UP IN THIS BITCH!

Space is the place.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I forgot the most important part. When we were making out she was on top of me and she says "I usually don't do this but since your not asking me to I'm gonna do it", that's when she started giving me head.

That is the most important part INDEED...now see how easy it is when you LET them do all the work?

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

wow , she was making it Super easy.

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

Actually, THIS was the game changer...

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

She reached out and then you gave her space. She then took full advantage of that space.

As with everything, not all space, some action called for, with lots of space.
she WANTED to blow you.

YOU set up the conditions for this, by your earlier actions.. By that point she already knew you would let her do it and be able to enjoy it and do it her way.

There were tests all the way along and you passed them without thinking about them. So you did not really see them as tests.. (Something guys on here talk a lot about)

You were not pushing for sex, she wanted to do it and you gave her the space to do it, while enjoying it.
How many times do you think she gets to do that, without the guy jumping all over her? without the guy thinking about something else, or trying to lead into something else. I.E. Sex

She knew what she wanted, made her choice and you confirmed her choice by your actions.

And the Kicker is... She said she gave good head and from your comments above, she was telling the truth.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

In all seriousness, chapeau, mon ami.

I have yet to be with a girl who can give even a half-decent blowjob.

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“I learned this, at least, by my experiment; that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. . . ."

-Thoreau's Walden

Mikey Swag
Might just be me, but sometimes all of us on here can be too militant about this stuff.

If it were me I'd give it two weeks, or however long my gut says, and then shoot out a 'hi' or something simple to this girl. Might be surprised what happens. Give a (wo) man an inch...

They will take more than a mile believe that

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~There's weakness in the hearts of all humans are you afraid to acknowledge yours... ~
Mr. Todo

Yeah before this girl i've never really had a girl amaze me with her skills. But those girls are definitely out there.

I know what your saying but I doubt this girl is going to reach out to me again which is fine with me. She's the type of person that a complete stranger could tell you what she's been doing everyday for the past few months just from looking at her facebook. Her garbage is always all over my newsfeed which makes me feel like she's obsessed with getting attention. I actually deactivated my facebook cause I couldnt stand reading the dumb shit people would post throughout the day. I have other reasons for doing it too but that was one of them. But yeah I doubt i'll hear from her again and if I do then I guess hearing what she has to say won't hurt.

Knowing the meaning of that phrase, I posted it as sort of irony. Because I have gone through my phone and noticed a number that I haven't heard from in a while, texted a simple 'hi'

And just off of this, they take this inch and then go the mile, pursuing hard again.

However, Mikey - definitely trust your gut. I'm amazed at how often, my gut is telling me one thing, I do it, and my head says you are completely fucking up. But it turns out amazingly right.

Nice dude. Yeah I have experienced that too. If you start living your life based on your gut instincts I don't think you can go wrong. Even if you do make a mistake it's not a big deal. Everyone makes mistakes and learns from them. It's when you dwell on your mistakes and live in the past is when the suffering happens. Like with me I know pursuing women doesn't work from my past experiences so I don't do it anymore. Even if I know the girl wants me in the past when I started pursuing it never lead anywhere so I stopped doing it. Now I'm never rejected, it's only smooth sailing.